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posted January 30, 2012 05:58 PM            

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I always found my three year old daughter to be extremely domineering. She's a virgo sun, with mars/merc/venus in Libra. I just looked at her transit and she has PLUTO transiting her DC: Pluto is within one degree of sitting on her DC.

Now, it so happens that my Sun is Capricorn, my Daughter's DC. She really gets into power struggle with me...in very upsetting ways for a three year old. I also realized that she's extremely intense about her relationships in general, wanting to dominate and hold on to people...part of it dealing with insecurities since we had to move across country for my new job and leaving her close surroundings behind...

I'm a bit worried about when Pluto will actually be on her DC. I just went through Pluto sitting on my Mars and to say that I was angry doesn't begin to describe the emotions that I dealt with during this transit which is about to hit my mercury and sun next. My sense is that this transit affects her relationships a lot...but do I need to worry about death of any kind????? I don't want to get into the dark obtuse view of astrology, but since seeing this transit, I've become worried...I need to learn how to deal with the intense phase that she's going through.

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posted January 30, 2012 06:06 PM            

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No you don't need to be worried about death.

three year olds generally do have temper tantrums, in fact children of all ages will push at boundaries constantly.

You mentioned that you have always found her domineering? It might be better for you to look at your own chart and also the synastry between you and your daughter.

You said yourself ~ that Pluto will soon cross your sun and Mercury. The 7th house is often where we project, in your daughters case, it's highly likely that she'll see YOU as Pluto. Especially if you are experiencing pluto transits. Capricorn is connected to structure and also authority. It's highly likely that your daughter will be more affected by the transits you are having than anything going on in her own chart at this stage in her life.

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posted January 30, 2012 08:07 PM            

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Thanks for the reply, I know that 3 year olds have tantrum and maybe it's just that. I think that me going through my own pluto transit must be affecting her to. But she is bossy and domineering as hell...I'm laughing writing this...so okay, maybe it's me.
I guess it doesn't help that I have sun in Capricorn and her ascendant is cancer.

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posted January 31, 2012 12:36 PM            

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would you like to put up both natals, yours with progressions and transits please. also if you do put up a synastry bi wheel, pls make sure you reduce the orb ratio for *this* chart alone, down to 40% as the max orb I use in syn is 3'

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html

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