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posted February 04, 2012 08:36 PM            

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My husband and I are going through a rough spot with alot of added stress in the last 3 months or so and I am wondering what you guys might say in regard to the effects of current transits to our relationship "Composite" chart. I would be happy to post our "marriage chart" too if that would help. I am at a loss as to what is happening and do not have the necessary objectivity.

Thanks dear Knowflakes,
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posted February 04, 2012 08:52 PM            

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Can you post the marriage chart? Im a bit curious.
Right off the bat, I see that Saturn is conjunction to your composite Pluto which rules your relationship together-Scorpio. Then Pluto is opposing your composite Venus/Mercury causing all sorts of power struggles and difficulties. It creates bonds but also chains. Uranus is squaring it at the same which is causing all sorts of havoc. Unusual developments and distance. Saturn squaring the Sun/Jupiter, which is blocking happiness and enjoying time together. If you guys can make it thru these rough transits, you can make it thru any transit. Pretty intense stuff.

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posted February 04, 2012 08:56 PM            

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posted February 04, 2012 10:27 PM            

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Im going to say this as nicely as possible so PLEASE don't take offense. My words are ONLY an opinion from an outsider. I'd be amazed if this marriage survived. I would guess a divorce in the future, if I was going to speculate.

The marriage chart is strong but at the same time lost. The Sun isn't strongly aspected. It has a loose, wide out of sign trine to Neptune and sextile to Pluto and opposition to Jupiter. Sun is energy of the marriage, and with this configuration, it is weak and NEPTUNE isn't applying, its moving away from the Sun. Venus/Mercury in Scorpio is good for strong bonds that make it difficult to dissolve, but squaring NEPTUNE. This marriage will have difficulties facing reality and being completely honest. Uranus in 12th conj ASC, secrets will be revealed, unusual independence from each other because of the uranus in 12th. Saturn is glue. There is a lot of glue being shown but I think it's likely more you or him or both of you will cling onto each other for dear life, hoping and trying very hard to make this work. You wont let this go easily. You will use all your energy most likely to not let this go without a fight. The affections will be changeable, and theres a power struggle going on here. Ego and Love aren't easy when together, ego needs to dissolve. Theres a lot of ego going on. I hope the best for you love, theres a lot of bumps on this road you have with this man.

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posted February 04, 2012 10:27 PM            

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posted February 06, 2012 02:52 PM            

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Eesh Thanks for taking a look, birdy. Alot of the observations you made ring true to a certain degree, but I remain optimistic regardless of what the future holds.

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posted February 06, 2012 04:47 PM            

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Astrology is a map. See as it being able to know what to expect, so you can have the tools, to be ready for it. Dissolving this union wont be easy, so if you can make it thru these transits, you can go thru any transit. It just wont be easy. I hope everything eases up.

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