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Topic: I am loosing it, get in here and help me out please
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gempisces
Newflake Posts: 3
From: Baltimore, MD, USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 05, 2012 05:14 PM
  
It seems my relationships never ever go well, no matter how dedicated I am or how hard I try. I am attempting to stay positive but this is starting to affect me and how I feel about myself in relationships. All of my relationships end, no matter how much they claim to love me or I care about them. Every single person I date tells me I am not affectionate enough, that I lack intimacy, aloof and cold. The thing is I am so dedicated in my relationships, I am very giving and always go out of my way to please my partner. I just within the last month lost someone I love very much. She felt I was too cold, lacked intimacy and not affectionate enough for her. I also believe some of my insecurities surfaced and it didnt help the matter. If there is someone who can take a look at our charts and give me advice or help me understand why it seems no matter how hard the person doesn't seem to get I care. I will post her chart and mine because even though we were very compatible we had major communication issues(?).. I didn't get it. IP: Logged |
gempisces
Newflake Posts: 3
From: Baltimore, MD, USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 05, 2012 05:18 PM
I tried following the instructions given for posting charts but couldn't get it right. I will keep trying, but in the mean time our charts are below
( MY CHART)
Sun
Gemini
5°52'04
in house 3
direct
Moon
Pisces
10°41'14
in house 12
direct
Mercury
Gemini
28°40'26
in house 4
direct
Venus
Gemini
18°57'36
in house 3
direct
Mars
Taurus
23°33'13
in house 2
direct
Jupiter
Libra
0°26'43
in house 7
stationary Saturn
Libra
3°03'46
in house 7
stationary Uranus
Scorpio
27°46'09
in house 8
retrograde
Neptune
Sagittarius
23°58'11
end of house 9
retrograde
Pluto
Libra
21°52'12
in house 7
retrograde
True Node
Leo
3°23'53
in house 5
retrograde Her chart
Sun
Aquarius
24°11'05
in house 10
direct
Moon
Cancer
8°01'19
in house 2
direct Mercury
Aquarius
6°57'03
in house 9
direct
Venus
Capricorn
23°14'04
in house 8
direct
Mars
Scorpio
15°47'43
in house 6
direct
Jupiter
Capricorn
5°02'02
in house 7
direct
Saturn
Scorpio
16°16'54
in house 6
direct
Uranus
Sagittarius
13°03'59
in house 6
direct
Neptune
Capricorn
0°46'29
in house 7
direct
Pluto
Scorpio
2°06'33
end of house 5
retrograde
True Node
Gemini
13°12'35
in house 12
retrograde
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birdy
Knowflake Posts: 113
From:
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 05, 2012 09:41 PM
Could you try to post the charts? You will more likely get a response from the generous folks at LL if you do.
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amelia28
Knowflake Posts: 2215
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 05, 2012 10:00 PM
Moon
Pisces
10°41'14
in house 12
directThe reason why you say you care a lot but people are not seeing it is you having moon in pisces in the 12th. Your emotions are deep (pisces) but hidden for others to see or even hidden from yourself as a defense mechanism developed in childhood (12th). You keep your emotions private.
http://www.donmc.com/Moonin12th.htm
http://in2themystics.com/astrology-articles-2/the-twelfth-house-moon/
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“Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.” -Anthony de Mello “First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.” Mahatma Gandhi quotes (Indian Philosopher, internationally esteemed for his doctrine of nonviolent protest, 1869-1948) IP: Logged |
amelia28
Knowflake Posts: 2215
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 05, 2012 10:03 PM
Also Natal pluto Retrograde plays a role as well:Pluto Retrograde
* keeps their chin up during crisis because .....
* they want to keep inner upheavals private
* they get what they want by acting like they don't care Pluto retrograde in your natal chart indicates that you are here to learn karmic lessons about intensity, control, and struggles for dominance. While you are wrestling with your own inner conflicts, outside forces are likely to upset your life. You are likely to find public opinion can be fickle, giving you little outward reason for blind trust in others. The people who make up your world may revere you one moment and revile you the next. Part of your lesson is to refuse to get locked in a battle of egos. Penetrate to the essence of the situation uncovering hidden truth. Trust your instincts being completely honest with yourself. Forgive yourself and others, but do not forget the lessons as you learn that you are the final authority. You may not always be able to control what you face nor what is done, but you are in sole control of how you choose to respond or react.
http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/retrogradeplanets.htm#neprx Edit to Add: Since pluto falls in the 5th I would say that this description will play out during the dating stage and with our children if you have kids some day. ------------------
“Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.” -Anthony de Mello “First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.” Mahatma Gandhi quotes (Indian Philosopher, internationally esteemed for his doctrine of nonviolent protest, 1869-1948) IP: Logged |
amelia28
Knowflake Posts: 2215
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 05, 2012 10:10 PM
You have a gemini stellium involving the third and fourth cups so you are very intellectual in spite of having a moon in pisces but on top of it your moon is in the 12th so even though you have an emotional side in addition to your intellectual side you hide it from others. To top it off you have pluto in the 5th retrograde so you sometimes act like you don't care during the dating stage to get what you want and attract ego battles or power struggles romantically.IP: Logged |
gempisces
Newflake Posts: 3
From: Baltimore, MD, USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 06, 2012 12:40 PM
Thank you Amelia28, I truly appreciate you taking the time out to look at my chart and offer feedback. So much of what you wrote rings true and I never understood why it's so difficult to relate with others in close intimate relationships. I am okay as long as it is superficial, but as soon as it gets deeper or more intense I close up or act the opposite of how I truly feel. I will take a look at the links you provided me with and see what else I can learn. I just hope I find a way to push past these barriers and become a better person. IP: Logged | |
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