posted February 23, 2012 08:54 PM            

When in a relationship, it's always serious. Casual dating isn't something I've ever been able to do. I always end up stuck with the guy who pushes a relationship, and who has problems. E.G. My son's dad is an alcoholic with borderline personality disorder.

I want to find the right man for my son and I...

posted February 24, 2012 04:29 PM            

We are all visual people and need to SEE charts please..

How to post your chart… http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ubbmisc.c gi?action=getannounce&ForumNumber=11&Start=2455736.99&End=2459389&Session=

You can get an immediate chart interpretation from astro.com. From ‘free horoscopes tab look for free 'personal portrait' or ‘astroclick portrait’ interpretation of a natal chart in the free horoscope section, you simply put the cursor on a planet and it brings a pop up box to explain what it means to have a planet in that house and any other aspects it has to natal planets. plus a six month free transit report in 'short report' Robert Hand gives a valuable in depth explanation of transits here – only slight objection I have with astro, is they use orbs of upto maybe 10' approaching, exact and departing. So most transits seem very long in effect. I use more realistic orbs of 1' approaching, 1' exact and 1' departing. http://www.khaldea.com/ephemcenter.shtml

If you want to learn how to use an ephemeris try here.. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=42496

here is my favourite online ephemeris which plots where the planets are for hundreds of years...

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posted February 24, 2012 05:16 PM            

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posted February 25, 2012 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by scoots:
Thank you for the info! Here it is!

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Well done for posting your chart. Just a little tip for next time, when in photobucket click on IMG and then paste into thread, as this will post the picture,not the link..

When looking at a female chart, we look at sun and mars and 7th house. Empty 7th house means we look at the ruler of 7th taurus/venus and we see venus is in fall (not well placed) and retrograde, going backwards.

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Your venus also have an aspect squre to uranus, which is a typical divorce aspect.

You might want to research your scorpio moon as singleton ie: only planet in water element
You have 5out of 10 in fire element, which is a lot, showing lots of energy, drive, impetus and iniative.

Your are currently having your Saturn return, which a time when we reasses how far we have come in life and start thinking about putting down roots, looking for commitment in relationships etc.

if you want to research more about this... http://www.newage-directory.com/saturn.html http://www.astrologycom.com/saturn.html http://www.saturnreturn.net/what_is.html http://www.examiner.com/x-2766-Atlan...-Saturn-return http://www.lynnkoiner.com/astrology-articles/dysfunctional-saturn http://www.skyscript.co.uk/saturn.html http://www.skyscript.co.uk/saturn_att.html http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saturn_return http://www.newage-directory.com/saturn.html http://astrology.about.com/od/advanc...turnReturn.htm http://www.aquariuspapers.com/astrol...turn_retu.html http://rudhyar.com/beautyofaging.shtml http://www.insiderreports.com/storyp...oryID=20011993 http://ancientsky.com/index.php?opti...d=25&Itemid=49

So, going back to your question of, "I have no CLUE who I'm compatible with... "

Sounds like your scorpio Asc and moon are very much interfering with your goals here. Funnily enough scorpio and cappi are the two least sociable signs. Cappi as it's a workaholic and tight with it's money, and scorpio is a very very private sign and doesn't want others to know their business.

Additionally, have your chart ruler Pluto stuck in 12th house is not great. In fact anything stuck in 12th house is not great.
The suggests to me that you really need time alone, away from the hustle and bustle of busy work, life matters...

Ruler of the First House in the Twelfth House

"Your outlook on life can be brought into balance by spending some time alone to meditate and recharge your batteries.
Avoid becoming your own adversary by falling into the "woe is me" victim trap. Spiritual philosophies that go beyond traditional orthodox viewpoints can bring revealing insights into your life and the meaning of it all. You may identify somehow with large public institutions that provide a service to society, especially the helping professions." http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/houserulerships.htm#hr1

Now whilst pluto is conj saturn can normally give you good work ethic and ambition, the energies of the 12th tend to 'dissolve' and keywords we use for this house are 'serve or suffer'

Houses: angular houses 1/7 4/10 the energies of planets placed here are obvious cos it's your 'shop window' visible for everyone to see. Next the succeedent houses 2/8 & 5/11 the energies in these houses are not in shop window the are in the shop, but stood behind the counter, ready to come out when needed. Lastly, cadent houses 6/12 & 3/9 these houses/planets are not in shop window or stood behind the counter, they are in the back storeroom and only come out when 'triggered' or an emergency and much harder to recognise and access...

The houses are like the backdrop of a stage, the setting if you like, the planets are like actors and the aspects are how the planets behave in that settings/stage....So remember you may find it harder to identify with planets and Saturn in this case in Cadent houses….

Saturn in the 12th house
Serve or suffer are the keynotes here and the individual can choose which way he will take: but choose he must. Always a subconscious wish to retreat.Craving for solitude. Great sensitivity. A deep seated selfishness has to be dissolved through suffering.
These people need a sense of inner purpose and make good behind the scenes organisers. They often suffer from an inexplicable fear of authority or concern about the future, and should find a way to develop self confidence.Capable of bringing stability into other people’s lives, by helping and organising those less fortunate than yourself.Don’t like to acknowledge figures of authority (including parental)

hopes this helps

posted February 25, 2012 04:12 PM            

saturn in or ruling 12th house can show a father either absent, missing or simply effectual in setting boundaries structures and alike in early childhood. psychological or physical absence of a father (or authority figure) who worked, or who provided a model for you in terms of discipline, organisation, and coping with the realities of everyday living, you were not encouraged to develop your ambition or your competitive spirit, or to believe in your potential for success. This can add listlessness and not finding ones direction
Serve or suffer are the keynotes here and the individual can choose which way he will take: but choose he must. Always a subconscious wish to retreat.
Craving for solitude. Great sensitivity. A deep seated selfishness has to be dissolved through suffering. These people need a sense of inner purpose and make good behind the scenes organisers. They often suffer from an inexplicable fear of authority or concern about the future, and should find a way to develop self confidence.
Capable of bringing stability into other people’s lives, by helping and organising those less fortunate than yourself.
Don’t like to acknowledge figures of authority (including parental)

Saturn can indicate deep seated loneliness, fear or guilt, despair or negativity which may be difficult to confront. But it also shows the ability to apply yourself with determination and/or ¬concen¬tration to some SOLITARY TASK perhaps to your work, which helps you to bring order to the internal chaos.

the often hidden weakness that having saturn here can suggest with Saturn or Capricorn here, you hesitate to openly express and come to terms with your negative feelings, particularly fear, guilt, loneliness, and mistrust. Because you haven't dealt with the fear and self doubt, which inhibit you, you may deny your desire for professional accomplishment. This Saturnian influence can manifest as psychological rigidity and withholding, due to inability to let go of past patterns. You above all, need to come to terms with your repression.

Saturn's strength and positive side here provides inner strength and self discipline, a capacity to cope with loneliness and handle responsibility, and a ¬willingness to work on your own with determination and ¬perseverance.

This house is where you learn to 'become whole' you could reject or deny someone you love.

for further clues as to how the 12th operates. look to where the ruler is and how it's aspected... http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/houserulerships.htm

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posted February 27, 2012 03:04 PM            

did you have your first romance age 14?
same time solar arc pluto conj Asc, was this majorly transformational? did anyone die?

age 12 solar arc saturn conjunct Asc, did something happen to knock your confidence?

sun square moon can show divorced parents.

Sun square Moon
"The square formed between the Sun and Moon shows conflict in certain aspects of the life. Self-expression is blocked by emotional hangups or habit patterns that may be inherited or conditioned by past events. Family and domestic affairs keep you from developing the way you would like. The conditions in your early family environment may have caused difficulties in understanding and getting along with the opposite sex. In these relationships you can be too argumentative and defensive. You may need to get the chip off your shoulder sometimes. This aspect suggests a conflict between the ego and the emotions. There is a presence of tension between your outer and inner self." http://www.skyscript.co.uk/sunaspects.html#susmo

posted February 28, 2012 11:45 AM            

perhaps you need to work on your communications skills, with mercury wide orb neptune, shows a vivid imagination and poss creative writing ability, whether acknnowledged or latent. This square tends to read too much between the lines and is typical mis communications, going out and coming in..

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Mercury square Neptune
The square formed between Mercury and Neptune suggests that your imagination often gets in the way of logical thinking. You are somewhat absentminded. Reluctant to accept responsibility, you have tendencies toward escapism. There is a need to focus mental energies and prepare yourself to face competition. Be cautious or conservative in your romantic alliances, for your imagination can play tricks on you. http://www.skyscript.co.uk/mercuryaspects.html#mesne#

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