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Topic: Am I imagining things?
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Chiemi Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 29, 2012 08:39 PM
For the past 5 months or so, I've had this weird experience with a guy whom I don't even know and yet I seem to think about him alot and do things out of my character (like look at his facebook etc.) and yet I have no idea why. I feel like it's an obsession and i'm pretty unhappy with myself for feeling this way over a guy I don't even know. For background info i'm a teen, not really into "high school" relationships and although I've found people attractive, I haven't really pursued or given room for someone to pursue me because I always feel that the relationship will be pointless (end in a couple of months). Also even after I get to know a guy I usually lose interest. Anyways I'd greatly appreciate it if someone could tell me why I feel so drawn to him and if it is mutual or not I'd just like to know so my mind can be put to rest. There's alot more to the story involving "coincidences" but I don't want to blabber on and on lol. Thanks IP: Logged |
Chiemi Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 29, 2012 08:47 PM
My DOB: September 20, 1995 Detroit, Michigan - 1:18His DOB: November 27, 1994 Livonia, Michigan - unknown My chart: His chart:
I couldn't do the composite or synastry charts on astro.com due to his DOB being unknown so I went to 800 horoscopes and did the love compatibility report, I hope this helps: IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16030 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 29, 2012 10:28 PM
Welcome!IP: Logged |
Chiemi Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 29, 2012 10:49 PM
Thank you ! IP: Logged |
yuting Knowflake Posts: 555 From: Hong Kong Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 29, 2012 11:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Chiemi: I couldn't do the composite or synastry charts on astro.com due to his DOB being unknown
You can still do a synastry chart, using 12noon as his TOB, and put yourself inside. Because you'd like to undestand his impact on you, not vice versa, we can still see where his planets fall in your chart (ignoring the angles). For moon, the daily movement is within 12', so using 12noon will give a +/- 6' Pls set orb to 50% to remove wide orb aspects IP: Logged |
Chiemi Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 11:15 AM
Here ya go IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 1939 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 11:52 AM
Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – (astrology)Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel… problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard. Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done
------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 1939 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 11:56 AM
you are obviously of a very similar age as your 'outers' are all conjunct.IF his moon were to be conjunct your sun it would be excellent, but as you don't know his TOB we cannot rely of this. virgo and Saggi are 90' square by sign and although both may appear adaptable and changeable it can create tension to,., his neptune or uranus or both look to be aspecting your mercury which ain't good at all.. IP: Logged |
Chiemi Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 12:54 PM
So there isn't any kind of attraction or is this just some out of control crush that my mind had just taken out of control ?IP: Logged |
Chiemi Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 03:26 PM
*bump*IP: Logged |
Chiemi Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 11:49 PM
anyone have some thoughts or input?IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 1939 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 03, 2012 02:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Chiemi: anyone have some thoughts or input?
In the beginning of Liz Greene's (famous prolific author on astrology), “Astrology for Lover's” book there is a good chapter on What astrology can and can't do. “Astrology is baffling because it works. What it's not is a way of foretelling the future, or of determining whether that tall dark stranger will turn up next week. To put it briefly the horoscope is a map of the psyche of the individual. it's a kind of blueprint, a seed plan, a model of the energies and drives which make up a person. Because it's calculated precisely for time and place, it's unique, unlike the sun sign column. Even identical twins are born at least four minutes apart, and in four minutes the picture has shifted.”
quote: Astrology can be used to help you in many ways. It can reveal damaging behavioral patterns or forewarn you of upcoming challenges. It can help you pinpoint latent talents you may possess and provide you with specific hints on how to best develop them. Astrology can also point out expansive, rewarding trends that are coming up and assist you in figuring out how to take advantage of them before they fade. Finally, astrology is an excellent means to determine the perfect timing for certain actions. The beauty of astrology is that it will help you to always be in complete control of your life. Astrology is not fortune telling: but it is a recognition that we have free will. We know we are not controlled by the planets, but the planets do create a certain atmospheres of constriction or ease, that keeps us on our toes. Alas, you cannot blame the planets and say, for example, Saturn made me do it! The few times I have said this to an audience, most people laugh it does sound funny. “The planets work to help us help ourselves. By applying pressure, planets help us to overcome inertia. At other times, they help us to see unproductive or even self-destructive behavior that we may have never noticed before but that we can fix. Astrologers believe we must be accountable for our actions and to recognize that we do have choices. The study of astrology will help you sort out all your options and to act at the proper time. http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/whatastrologycandoforyou.html
------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 1939 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 03, 2012 02:28 PM
Astrology is a very useful tool BUT it cannot make anything happen, that's upto you.You are the captain of your ship and have Free Will.. You may want to research juno and vertex when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel… ------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 1939 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 03, 2012 02:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Chiemi: So there isn't any kind of attraction or is this just some out of control crush that my mind had just taken out of control ?
who knows, if it feels real to you then it's real.. ------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |