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Topic: Can someone interpret this relationship for me?
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 434 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 09, 2012 01:57 PM
I have a feeling people will not post because of the title.I meant to write "Will somebody please interpret this synastry or composite for me?" Thank you for entering my thread! If you could interpret the following synastry or composite I would really appreciate it!
I met a boy who seemed like the perfect guy for me. We were fast friends, and he seemed interested in me also. I haven't seen him in a while, but I'm going to try and be able to hang out with him again. Our synastry and composite charts show a lot of bad neptune aspects, but what do you think? Is there an aspect that gives it a realistic tone? Does an aspect show the fantasy being so strong that there wont be enough truth to ruin the relationship? lol. Does the composite show a love affair happening? ( I heard some people relate synastries to how people met; So if you have questions about how the friendship came to be, let me know.)
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SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 2558 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 10, 2012 03:55 PM
firstly, do you have a confirmed TOB for this man? If not composite is worthless. Also composites ONLY function when together in a relationship.Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – (astrology) Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel… problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard. Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done North Node conj Venus is EXCELLENT and suggests a karmic link North Node conj Mars is EXCELLENT I really need to SEE the aspect grid and how wide the orbs are to/from Neptune pls
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 28904 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 11, 2012 06:39 AM
The synastry has a lot of positves such as personal planets conjunt Nodes.I see a close Chiron/Mercury. I was just talking about this. I wrote about it on my thread about being "just friends" in Astro 2. Chiron is the weirdest wildcard planet! Read what I wrote and tell me if it fits. I have had this experience many times since I started into Astrology.Before, I would not know it it was occurring or not. I will put up some info for you and tell me what you think! ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 28904 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 11, 2012 06:44 AM
Now that I am reading everyone's responses I have some new insights. In a platonic relationship which is intellectually on fire, there seems to be Mercury/Uranus strong in synastry.In relationships which are about lifting each other up and encouraging, there will be a strong Jupiter connection.It may be Mercury/Jupiter or even Jupiter/Chiron.I have that now in a platonic relationship.However, when there are exact Chiron aspects in synastry, that wild card thing seems to come in 80% of the time. Did you read what I wrote about that? Chiron is like a Mobius strip. It looks like it is going in one direction and then it changes all of a sudden and you lose the person Then, you never seem to get them back. You get close really fast too. This is the hallmark of it. You get close and open up really fast and it is very comfortable. You feel as if they are a best friend. Then, some misunderstanding happens and blows it apart when the misunderstanding should have been able to be resolved. That is my experience with Chiron in synastry in any relationship. What Ceri said about Yin planets squaring and making attraction dimmed fits too---VERY well. Brilliant idea Ceri--as usual! ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Mermaid Knowflake Posts: 116 From: From the deep blue seas Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 11, 2012 09:57 AM
In synastry,the mars conjunct NN and Venus conjunct NN seems very fated and karmic. It appears that there is venus square Uranus double whammy but one needs the aspect grid for the orb.Anyway the same Venus square uranus appears in composite too which is not so good.IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 434 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 12, 2012 12:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mermaid: In synastry,the mars conjunct NN and Venus conjunct NN seems very fated and karmic. It appears that there is venus square Uranus double whammy but one needs the aspect grid for the orb.Anyway the same Venus square uranus appears in composite too which is not so good.
Thanks. It's already taking affect, lol, we never see eachother. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 434 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 12, 2012 01:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by SaggiMC: firstly, do you have a confirmed TOB for this man? If not composite is worthless. Also composites ONLY function when together in a relationship.Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – (astrology) Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid*[b] THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel… problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard. Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done North Node conj Venus is EXCELLENT and suggests a karmic link North Node conj Mars is EXCELLENT I really need to SEE the aspect grid and how wide the orbs are to/from Neptune pls [/B]
Yes, the birth times are correct. I thought the Astrologers on Ll were too good for aspect grids. lol Jk. Ok here: http://i39.tinypic.com/2zgzrt3.png IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 434 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 12, 2012 01:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Now that I am reading everyone's responses I have some new insights. In a platonic relationship which is intellectually on fire, there seems to be Mercury/Uranus strong in synastry.In relationships which are about lifting each other up and encouraging, there will be a strong Jupiter connection.It may be Mercury/Jupiter or even Jupiter/Chiron.I have that now in a platonic relationship.However, when there are exact Chiron aspects in synastry, that wild card thing seems to come in 80% of the time. Did you read what I wrote about that? Chiron is like a Mobius strip. It looks like it is going in one direction and then it changes all of a sudden and you lose the person Then, you never seem to get them back. You get close really fast too. This is the hallmark of it. You get close and open up really fast and it is very comfortable. You feel as if they are a best friend. Then, some misunderstanding happens and blows it apart when the misunderstanding should have been able to be resolved. That is my experience with Chiron in synastry in any relationship. What Ceri said about Yin planets squaring and making attraction dimmed fits too---VERY well. Brilliant idea Ceri--as usual!
Interesting theory. Can you send me the link to your thread? I can't seem to find it. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 2522 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 12, 2012 04:02 AM
This is terrible. both synastry and composite are just terrible. Perhaps there is more to it than i thoughtIP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 2558 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 13, 2012 11:58 AM
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Yes, the birth times are correct. I thought the Astrologers on Ll were too good for aspect grids. lol Jk. Ok here: http://i39.tinypic.com/2zgzrt3.png
How can ANYONE visually SEE what orbs you used and they are far too wide inanyevent. the aspect grid is THE most important and you should disregard anything above 3' maybe stretch to 4' max... So, I'll list what is appropriate for you to research. sun sextile mars sun square jupiter mercury trine uranus mercury sextile pluto venus square uranus - bad/divorce aspect venus conj node - excellent mars trine mars saturn square jupiter saturn sextile uranus neptune square venus - not great neptune sextile saturn mars conj node - excellent saturn trine node moon square chiron moon trine Asc mercury sext Asc mars square Asc jupiter trine Asc Asc square saturn MC square pluto ------------------ In Astrology 2.0 forum, beginners learning astrology http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212463.html in Astrology 2.0 forum, What’s next for learning (intermediate) http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212464.html In Astrology 2.0 what’s next for learning (advanced) http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212465.html I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 2558 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 13, 2012 12:06 PM
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Venus in hard aspect (square, opposition, semi-square, or sesquiquadrate) to other person's UranusElectric attraction characterizes this pairing. However, both will have to deal with an inability to truly count on one another over time. The Uranus person may resent any hint that the Venus person wants more of a commitment from, or structure in, the relationship. Affection may be inconstant, or the two may often be separated from one another at key moments. In order for this relationship to work, both parties need to expect the unexpected. This relationship can be an emotional rollercoaster ride, particularly for the Venus person. When the Venus person is feeling especially romantic, the Uranus person may be just out of reach somehow, whether it is a physical reality or takes the form of mental or emotional distancing. This relationship has an erratic, unstable, but exciting quality. http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_uranus_aspects.html
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The square, aspects of Venus and Neptune in synastry generally emphasize the vacillating and withdrawing theme of Venus-Neptune described above. Venus needs to be aware that if he or she falls in love with a romantic ideal instead of his or her real partner, Neptune will most likely retreat. Venus may go through periods of excessive trusting of the partner and swing to excessive fear that the partner cannot be trusted. The emotional rollercoaster can be unbearable if Venus rides on it for too long. Neptune must be extra careful not to promise more than he or she can deliver, in an attempt to make Venus feel better, remembering that "errors of omission" count as misleading. Neptune might have a hard time dealing with Venus directly, especially because it doesn't seem that Venus will listen to reason or even wants to see reality. http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_neptune_aspects.html
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html
this site is great for Asc aspects in synastry You could have the best synastry in the world, but unless you have good communications, are honest with each other about your needs, wishes and desires and 'both' of you want the same things...........then nothing will happen. It cannot make anyone change, or love you more. Some challenging squares, oppositions in synastry can be healthy, and may require one or both of you to grow in some way. Astrological natal charts cannot explain environmental factors, financial handicaps/ restraints and what position you hold in society, neither can it tell you if you are of ‘Royalty’ or beggar. I am of the belief that people come in and out of our lives for a reason, either we have to teach them something or we have to learn something from them. There is Always an exchange, good or bad. Good luck with your journey
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Leonine8 Knowflake Posts: 125 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 14, 2012 10:26 PM
I'm not sure if the Neptune Saturn connection lends stability but it seems like it should. Have fun reading up on the aspects SaggiMC listed.IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 2558 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 01:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leonine8: I'm not sure if the Neptune Saturn connection lends stability but it seems like it should. Have fun reading up on the aspects SaggiMC listed.
yeh, that's if they can be bothered... there are plenty of free resources available. Free reading thread http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002828.html
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 434 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 07:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by SaggiMC: How can ANYONE visually SEE what orbs you used and they are far too wide inanyevent. the aspect grid is THE most important and you should disregard anything above 3' maybe stretch to 4' max...So, I'll list what is appropriate for you to research. sun sextile mars sun square jupiter mercury trine uranus mercury sextile pluto venus square uranus - bad/divorce aspect venus conj node - excellent mars trine mars saturn square jupiter saturn sextile uranus neptune square venus - not great neptune sextile saturn mars conj node - excellent saturn trine node moon square chiron moon trine Asc mercury sext Asc mars square Asc jupiter trine Asc Asc square saturn MC square pluto
Thanks!!! Will read up on these aspects!!! (DONT FORGET SAGMC SAID NO ASPECTS GREATER THAN 3/4DEGREE ORB COUNT.) IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 434 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 07:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by SaggiMC: http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html this site is great for Asc aspects in synastry You could have the best synastry in the world, but unless you have good communications, are honest with each other about your needs, wishes and desires and 'both' of you want the same things...........then nothing will happen. It cannot make anyone change, or love you more. Some challenging squares, oppositions in synastry can be healthy, and may require one or both of you to grow in some way. Astrological natal charts cannot explain environmental factors, financial handicaps/ restraints and what position you hold in society, neither can it tell you if you are of ‘Royalty’ or beggar. I am of the belief that people come in and out of our lives for a reason, either we have to teach them something or we have to learn something from them. There is Always an exchange, good or bad. Good luck with your journey
True. All relationships take work, than there are the outside influences.. Thank you! IP: Logged | |