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meaculpa
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posted March 17, 2012 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What could any of you tell about it? I have attached our charts as well as our composite.

my chart:

her chart:

P.S.: SaggiMC, thanks a lot for your reply.

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Randall
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posted March 17, 2012 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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meaculpa
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posted March 17, 2012 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Randall It's nice to finally speak out loud. I've been following up with the activity on this forum for a while now.

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meaculpa
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posted March 18, 2012 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The aspect that interests me most is how the other person's Venus/Mars conjunction in the 12th house or other placements could make her hold back from expressing towards me. Is there anything in my chart that wouldn't allow her self expression? Because it's the sort of "I like you" but I don't dare to approach you-kind of relationship. Her progressed chart also shows Venus, Mars and Eros now occupy the first house in Libra.
Considering my chart, is there some kind of tension that the other person may feel other than sexual which is pretty obvious for me?

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SaggiMC
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posted March 18, 2012 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by meaculpa:
The aspect that interests me most is how the other person's Venus/Mars conjunction in the 12th house or other placements could make her hold back from expressing towards me. Is there anything in my chart that wouldn't allow her self expression? Because it's the sort of "I like you" but I don't dare to approach you-kind of relationship. Her progressed chart also shows Venus, Mars and Eros now occupy the first house in Libra.
Considering my chart, is there some kind of tension that the other person may feel other than sexual which is pretty obvious for me?

you are asking about *house overlays* in synastry and everything you want it here..

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – (astrology)

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs. Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune).

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *ASPECT GRID* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…

problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard.

Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done


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SaggiMC
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posted March 18, 2012 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
please post the synastry bi wheel & ASPECT GRID from the syn bi wheel?

You can get a free composite reading from astro.com on free horoscopes tab, astroclick partner.

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meaculpa
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posted March 18, 2012 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SaggyMC, I so much appreciate your help and your patience. Whenever you have time, please take a look at them.

Have a nice day

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meaculpa
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posted March 18, 2012 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*SaggiMC, sorry.

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meaculpa
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posted March 18, 2012 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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SaggiMC
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posted March 19, 2012 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well done for posting the aspect grid. Is there anything in particular that you want to focus on. Can you give us some background info please?

every chart and every synastry bi wheel will have a mixture of easy and challenging aspects, this is normal. So I'm just going to focus on few of the morte challenging aspects, to see if you can identiy with them, if that's ok..

Moon opp pluto
sun square pluto
sun square saturn
sun square neptune
venus square saturn
mars square saturn
mercury square pluto
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
research these here.

3x nodal contacts can show a karmic link or Lesson.
5x saturn contacts, these tend to bind people together for good OR bad

If you go to my thread on synastry in basic forum, it will include 'house overlays'

you have two vertex aspects

Basic astrology forum, Vertex in synastry & natal http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000692.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….

also 3 Juno aspects
Basic astrology forum, Juno in Signs-houses-aspects http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000708.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….

How long have you been together as this seems as rather difficult synastry??

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meaculpa
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posted March 19, 2012 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SaggiMC, this is the issue. I have posted a thread in one of the other sections. We haven't been together, but it doesn't seem like we would ever be. For me it is another very important relationship which I believe won't happen. I am very concerned about it because I feel its tremenduous strength and potential.

I know the way Saturn behaves in synastry. The aspects seem difficult for me, too. But I also think that its impact is also beneficial since I like being challenged and to work things out.
I would like to know what causes the indecision on both parts. Why do I restrain myself, why does she do it in return. We both talked it out and there is a mutual feeling of belonging or attaining 'the object of desire' sort of thing, but it just won't happen.
Also, how does she look upon me, since she's very good at hiding it and most of the times all I get is a feeling of rejection. Should it be fear?

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meaculpa
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posted March 19, 2012 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for the Vertex and Juno info. I will look them up We can discuss whatever you think it is important regarding the aspects. I get the feeling of a very complicated and powerful bonding between us. There is a great deal of sexual attraction, but I don't feel like that is the most important aspect.

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meaculpa
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posted March 19, 2012 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meaculpa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I should add that we first met one year ago. For me, this is happening from the beginning.

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SaggiMC
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posted March 21, 2012 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by meaculpa:
Thank you for the Vertex and Juno info. I will look them up We can discuss whatever you think it is important regarding the aspects. I get the feeling of a very complicated and powerful bonding between us. There is a great deal of sexual attraction, but I don't feel like that is the most important aspect.

astrology is a great astrological tool, but it cannot make things happen either unfortunately..

have you researched all these as the are rather challenging..?

Moon opp pluto
sun square pluto
sun square saturn
sun square neptune
venus square saturn
mars square saturn
mercury square pluto http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
research these here.

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