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Jounia
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posted March 18, 2012 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Anongrl, How are you?
I am having a meltdown. I don't think I've ever felt this low in my life

I would like to know will me and FB be together? If so, what do I have to do in the meantime? Will it be the right desicion?
If there is a time indication, please let me know.
Many thanks for your help, I really appreciate it.

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SaggiMC
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posted March 18, 2012 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 18, 2012 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SaggiMC,

Be mindful when addressing another memeber's request.

Jounia can ask as many questions as she likes.

Such remarks are not necessary if you are not offering help. A little sensitivity to another person's pain goes a long way.

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Jounia
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posted March 18, 2012 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The main question I would like answered is I would like to know will me and FB be together.
Many thanks.

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posted March 18, 2012 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That was very rude and insensitive, Saggi. Best to say nothing than to kick someone when they are already feeling down. Who are you to tell someone what questions to ask or how many? I have tried to give you gentle reminders to exercise good decorum, but to no avail. Consider this a warning.

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posted March 18, 2012 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Every teacher is also a student, Saggi. A little humility goes a long way. Sharing your knowledge with others is a great thing and is very much appreciated...but those with wisdom know that knowledge must be imparted with patience, tolerance, kindness, empathy, and understanding. Knowledge is raw; wisdom is knowledge tempered with the traits heretofore described above.

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posted March 19, 2012 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Every teacher is also a student, Saggi. A little humility goes a long way. Sharing your knowledge with others is a great thing and is very much appreciated...but those with wisdom know that knowledge must be imparted with patience, tolerance, kindness, empathy, and understanding. Knowledge is raw; wisdom is knowledge tempered with the traits heretofore described above.

where HAS all this come from? Nothing like over reacating. how exactly was I 'kicking someone when they are down?'

I only asked,

"can you just focus on ONE simply positive question pls? rather than half a dozen?"

maybe I should have said FOR ME could you just focus on one simple question. and how this being rude??

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posted March 19, 2012 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
That was very rude and insensitive, Saggi. Best to say nothing than to kick someone when they are already feeling down. Who are you to tell someone what questions to ask or how many? I have tried to give you gentle reminders to exercise good decorum, but to no avail. Consider this a warning.

how is asking, to rephrase it into one simple positive question insensitive?

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posted March 19, 2012 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There was a tone to the way you asked. I was not the only one to see it that way. Maybe insert some smilies, since we can't actually hear your voice.

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted March 19, 2012 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I regret starting this whole thread

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posted March 19, 2012 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Jounia:
The main question I would like answered is I would like to know will me and FB be together.
Many thanks.

I do hope you weren't offended by me asking you to focus on just one question here??

Randell seems think this insensative and rude for some reason....

Anyways, I have just done a celtic cross for you.
This is all about building up a story or picture of what's going on here. In the recent past, in the near future, and 10th card answering your question..

1st card is ace of pentacles. This is the money ace and is to do with the question being asking. This is wanting a fresh start and new beginning and/or more commitment?

2nd card is crossing you is the obstacle, something that needs to be overcome or integrated before you can move forward and here we have the hermit (ruled by virgo) this is about feeling isolated and unappreciated, worrying and overanalysing things.

3rd card is beneath you. I see this as a time frame of 2-6 ago OR what's at the root of the question and here we have new moon. this suggests you either started a new relationship, drew closer in the time Or are wanting again a fresh start.this card can also suggest someone talking about or wanting to move house. so has living together been discussed? or in the agenda?

4th card covers past two months or so and here we have Saturn, Lord of Karma, master teacher. This suggests things slowing down, frustrations, being practical or just finding their own natural level.
so have things slowed down?

5th card above you is covering next 3-4months and her we have chinese rat. Someone bit of charmer, sweet talker poss bit unreliable, unpredictable, someine easily sidetracked or worst case scenario being a rat..

6th card is 4-6months in future (as an influence card. 10th Card answers your question) here we have cancer, the homebird, a worrier, someone being very sensitive, poss bit moody, having to watch the finances to.

7th card is telling me where you mind is at the moment. Here we have the Asc sign, this is your presentation, outer exprssions. Wanting more social life where you can get dressed up and go out, pay more attention to your appearances. But is can also suggest putting a brave face on things to.

8th card is the environment around you and this relationship. Here we have the Death card,this is about endings and new beginnings. It's about having a deep and meaningful with someone, to see what you have in common. Someone around you walking away for a while. Whether this is someone interferring, a friend or family member perhaps not approving of your choices.

9th card is hopes, wishes and fears. Wheel of fortune. here you are wishing all problems would disappear and bit of good luck and doors opening and opportunities to come your way.

10th outcome card. FABULOUS Aced of Wands
Positive, YES, new beginings, on the verge of different directions. Energy, enthusiasm put into the relationship and positive outcome.

In mid July to mid August hanging man suggests you are waiting for something or someone, feeling very much in limbo between one event and another

Mid sept The Star - wish fulfilled

Hope this helps? would welcome some feedback

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posted March 19, 2012 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Jounia:
I regret starting this whole thread

hey our posts must have just crossed.

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SaggiMC
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posted March 20, 2012 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
There was a tone to the way you asked. I was not the only one to see it that way. Maybe insert some smilies, since we can't actually hear your voice.



Ok Randell, in future I will add a caveat…

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I am a Professional Tarot card reader and I work with Russell Grants astro tarot cards as they make a lot of sense to me being a Prof Astrologer to. But these cards really don’t lend themselves to ‘general readings’. So when I first say hello to a client, I ask them to focus their minds on one simple positive question, either to do with Relationships or work/finances as the majority of questions why people want a reading, usually falls into one of these categories.

So if you do have multiple questions, maybe I’m not the right reader for you. But if you can simplify a question I will try my best to help you. What I don’t ask initially on the fone is some background info on the current position (only half way through reading), but I would ask here for some simple background stuff as the more info you give to me, the more I can help you…..

Also if you are extremely upset, just had major bust up with him/her, are very stressed and you cannot focus your mind on this, perhaps wait a while until a time when you can. I have found over and over, if a client is not focusing on a question and their mind is all over the place, the less they can identify with the reading unfortunately. So this is why it’s Soooooo important..

When thinking of the question, try to be objective if you can. If you ask will her/she fone me within the next 48hours (for example). Ask yourself what is the *bigger question/picture* here, are you looking for a reconciliation, closure perhaps? Or the other extreme, are you looking for commitment, marriage, but then ask does he/she love me?

I use a typical Celtic Cross which uses a 10 card spread. It’s all about building up a story or picture. What has been going on over the past six months, which influences are coming in. where you thoughts and emotions are currently, your hopes and wishes and finally the outcome card will answer the question.

If I don’t have time to explain the full Celtic Cross to you, I will give an overall quick appraisal and out come card… so please be patient. Lastly, I would very much appreciate some feedback….. thanks


If I attempt or bother trying to help members again, without major reprisals from Mods that is....

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Jounia
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posted March 20, 2012 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Saggi, Thank you so much for this, I really appreciate it!!

You didn't offend me as I understand that it's very hard to get accross the tone in which something was meant via text alone, however your response did seem a little abrupt to me personally, but again, I was not in a good place when I started this thread and was on the verge of a total meltdown!!

Anyway. Over all, your reading seemed to make sense. I will give feedback on each card.

quote:
Originally posted by SaggiMC:
I do hope you weren't offended by me asking you to focus on just one question here??

Randell seems think this insensative and rude for some reason....

Anyways, I have just done a celtic cross for you.
This is all about building up a story or picture of what's going on here. In the recent past, in the near future, and 10th card answering your question..

1st card is ace of pentacles. This is the money ace and is to do with the question being asking. This is wanting a fresh start and new beginning and/or more commitment?

2nd card is crossing you is the obstacle, something that needs to be overcome or integrated before you can move forward and here we have the hermit (ruled by virgo) this is about feeling isolated and unappreciated, worrying and overanalysing things.

3rd card is beneath you. I see this as a time frame of 2-6 ago OR what's at the root of the question and here we have new moon. this suggests you either started a new relationship, drew closer in the time Or are wanting again a fresh start.this card can also suggest someone talking about or wanting to move house. so has living together been discussed? or in the agenda?

4th card covers past two months or so and here we have Saturn, Lord of Karma, master teacher. This suggests things slowing down, frustrations, being practical or just finding their own natural level.
so have things slowed down?

5th card above you is covering next 3-4months and her we have chinese rat. Someone bit of charmer, sweet talker poss bit unreliable, unpredictable, someine easily sidetracked or worst case scenario being a rat..

6th card is 4-6months in future (as an influence card. 10th Card answers your question) here we have cancer, the homebird, a worrier, someone being very sensitive, poss bit moody, having to watch the finances to.

7th card is telling me where you mind is at the moment. Here we have the Asc sign, this is your presentation, outer exprssions. Wanting more social life where you can get dressed up and go out, pay more attention to your appearances. But is can also suggest putting a brave face on things to.

8th card is the environment around you and this relationship. Here we have the Death card,this is about endings and new beginnings. It's about having a deep and meaningful with someone, to see what you have in common. Someone around you walking away for a while. Whether this is someone interferring, a friend or family member perhaps not approving of your choices.

9th card is hopes, wishes and fears. Wheel of fortune. here you are wishing all problems would disappear and bit of good luck and doors opening and opportunities to come your way.

10th outcome card. FABULOUS Aced of Wands
Positive, YES, new beginings, on the verge of different directions. Energy, enthusiasm put into the relationship and positive outcome.

In mid July to mid August hanging man suggests you are waiting for something or someone, feeling very much in limbo between one event and another

Mid sept The Star - wish fulfilled

Hope this helps? would welcome some feedback


1st card - yes. I felt stuck in a rut, like my current realtionship wasn't giving me enough fulfilment.

2nd card - overcoming an obstacle - I had my eye on a guy (FB - about whom this reading was) and although I was sure about getting closer to him and having a relationship, he couldn't come to terms with admitting his feelings for me too and therefore him finally coming round to the idea was overcoming the obstacle. I did over analyse a LOT during this period.

3rd card - 3 months ago me and FB began our affair/relationship, which is in secret. We have fallen deeply in love, and yes living together is our ultimate goal and it has been discussed.

4th - the past two months. Not so much as slowing things down as huge frustration. Being practical - yes. we have been up and down emotionally, but have tried to be very practical regarding where we are and what we cannot have at this moment in time. However, I did try to call it a day to release myself from the pain of being in such a difficult situation - tow relationships - but it didn't last, we couldn't separate. so maybe that could be the slowing things down part.

5th card - this is the one that gets me. I cannot think who it could be?! and what involvement exactly would this person have in this relationship/situation? Is it possible to find out more about this chinese rat?

6th card - 4-6 months in the future.... well both myself and my current partner are like that (me being Cancer, anyway ). we do have to really watch the finances. so maybe it's one of us. Could it be my current partner learning of my new relationship? Or learning of plans to leave? what do you feel?

7th card - well I do have to put on a brave face - everyday. I do feel that with the guy in question I will have much more of a 'life' social or otherwise and that really does appeal to me. I also want to work on getting fitter and making my body look better - that is in my plans.

8th card - you have missed out a word in the sentence 'it's about having a deep and meaningful ____ with someone to see what you have in common' ..... would that be conversation? if so, I can see that being with my current partner to show that we don't have that much in common, or even with FB, although we pretty much know that we're made for each other. Someone walking away from me because they don't like my choices.... I can see that being possibly my mum not happy that I have decided to break off my current relationship for a new one.

9th card - I just want to check if I have understood - does this card mean that I WILL have good luck and doors opening/oppotunities coming my way regarding this new relationship?

10th card - well! that says it all. Endings - current realtionship. Beginnings - new relationship with FB.

The mid July to mid August comment - is that this year? all I know is that I may have an oppotunity to spend a lot of time with FB during that time period, this year.

Mid sept - again, this year? Seems very soon! I mean, I just cannot imagine how it can be made possible!! Do you have any more insight in to how this will become possible?

Thanks once again, I really am grateful. x

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posted March 21, 2012 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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5th card - this is the one that gets me. I cannot think who it could be?! and what involvement exactly would this person have in this relationship/situation? Is it possible to find out more about this chinese rat?

This card represents either one of you. the rat can be a smooth talking charmer for his own ends, but can be easily sidetracked, make promises to do or be somewhere and then not turn up...... or worst case scenario someone being a rat..

quote:

6th card - 4-6 months in the future.... well both myself and my current partner are like that (me being Cancer, anyway ). we do have to really watch the finances. so maybe it's one of us. Could it be my current partner learning of my new relationship? Or learning of plans to leave? what do you feel?


We were not doing a reading for your 'current' partner so this cannot apply. This whole reading is designed to answere the question of this new love interest. Maybe it will be a time of 'squirrelling some money away' for a rainy day, lots of worrying, over sensitive and of course worrying that your partner will discover your plans....

quote:

8th card - you have missed out a word in the sentence 'it's about having a deep and meaningful ____ with someone to see what you have in common' ..... would that be conversation? if so, I can see that being with my current partner to show that we don't have that much in common, or even with FB, although we pretty much know that we're made for each other. Someone walking away from me because they don't like my choices.... I can see that being possibly my mum not happy that I have decided to break off my current relationship for a new one.


You more or less answered this yourself. Deep and meaningful conversation

quote:

9th card - I just want to check if I have understood - does this card mean that I WILL have good luck and doors opening/oppotunities coming my way regarding this new relationship?


nope this is your *hopes, wishes and fears* position.

quote:

The mid July to mid August comment - is that this year? all I know is that I may have an oppotunity to spend a lot of time with FB during that time period, this year

yes... the Hanged Man is feeling very much in limbo between one event and another, it could be a time of rest or reflection and simply waiting for something to happen...

quote:

Mid sept - again, this year? Seems very soon! I mean, I just cannot imagine how it can be made possible!! Do you have any more insight in to how this will become possible?


I don't normally go beyond six months as I think a LOT can happen in this time frame inanyevent. Yes I mean this year

quote:

would like to know will me and FB be together? If so, what do I have to do in the meantime? Will it be the right desicion?
If there is a time indication, please let me know.
Many thanks for your help, I really appreciate it.

"Will it be the right desicion?"
this is 'such' a subjective question. Only you can make decisions in your life and can answer this. If this relationship was a non starter I would have mentioned this, but it looks like you are meant to be with this man. I had no idea you were already in a prior relationship and you need to be having that 'difficult conversation' with him to decide a way forward.

what I would say is, don't break away FOR this other man, break away for YOU as this relationship may have broken down anyway, as it wasn't working was it?

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posted March 21, 2012 05:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted March 22, 2012 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good advice Thank you once again Saggi!!

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