posted March 28, 2012 01:27 PM            

Thank you in advance!

posted April 15, 2012 12:13 AM            

Although you both strive to be responsible, respectful, and dedicated to each other, there is a strong tendency for this relationship to focus TOO MUCH on responsibilities and commitments. jon is likely to feel unjustly criticized, frustrated by ghani's moral and ethical attitudes, and eventually resent the limitations and responsibilities imposed by this relationship. Emotional distance, coolness, indifference to feelings, and a sense of loneliness or oppression can develop between you. To make this relationship work, you both must avoid the tendency to let your sense of responsibility and concern for the other person cause you to try to control your partner's life.

The necessity to get down to business, to work hard, and to be responsible adults is an essential aspect of your relationship. When the two of you are together a sense of heaviness, seriousness, purpose, or obligation weighs in on you, so it is not always pleasant to be around one another. You demand much - sometimes too much - of one another and of your relationship. One or both of you may become overly critical, oppressive, and restrictive toward the other. Financial hardships and burdens, difficult circumstances such as a chronic health problem, or other "battles" which require patience, endurance, forebearance, and toughness are also likely. Part of the purpose of this relationship is to develop these qualities within you both. While unlikely to be an easy relationship, it can be character-building and ultimately strengthening.

Unfortunately, even if it is not evident yet, you will notice you hold each other back and depress each other, even though htere is a lot of loyalty, comittment and security in your relationship. You just do not connect emotionally, you do not laugh enough together, and the relationship will eventually become cold from too much emphasis on seriousness and not enough on play. You will both grow to feel lonely.

Also sun square uranus in synastry is a very destabilizing influence, meaning this might just be an on and off relationship where you can't count on each other.

The love stellium is also very loose. True, venus trine pluto in the composite is awesome, but I don't it's worth it to get into this relationship.

posted April 16, 2012 12:21 PM            

That being said, I honestly don't see any of those things in reality. We are extremely lighthearted, literally laughing all the time and smiling so much our cheeks hurt. We have been supportive, and almost like the balm to any type of difficulty for the other on a less than great day. We seem to have very similar ways of coping, which are FAR different than what they were in the past. We communicate about everything, and are constantly doing small, heart enhancing things for each other.

There is a lot of emotional activity, and a great intensity which goes deeper than any other I've experienced. A true connection. It certainly started out much more tame and intellectually than the norm for me, it was not "flash in the pan" passion to begin with, more a steady flame that has grown in size and intensity.

I am certainly aware of the pitfalls and am cautious, but really have never felt so close to somebody, so appreciated for who I am and respected for my outlook on life.

posted April 16, 2012 03:42 PM            

I'm just saying be careful

I had a best friend for 10 years, I thought that it was so perfect between us. We had composite venus trine pluto with the love stellium and moon opposite saturn and uranus, and there is no one I have been closer to than her, but it didnt show right away at all. It took around 3 years to show up. And I clinged on. But she was rarely there for me emotionally and the uranus would make us not contact each other for long periods, even though we were inseperable at other times, and loved each other soo much. So I'm just saying, know it probably wont last forever. But she changed my life, and like I said I've never been closer to anyone. So, do enjoy your time spent with him