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Gem-Gurl
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posted April 02, 2012 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated this guy awhile ago and now im into astrology and i was wondering if we should have worked well together or not.... just give me your opinions please.... http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=275138605901304&l=f698009bec
P.S. the time on his chart is not correct! So dont pay attention to his rising and houses..... thx for your opinions. Also, if our compatibilty is exeptionly good, like outta this world good. Id think about giving it one more shot. Thank you so much

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Doux Rêve
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posted April 02, 2012 03:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Gem-Gurl,


So there are some good things and some not so good things in this synastry.

First, of course, his Sun/Mercury conjunction is on your Moon, and this is supported by a trine from Saturn. So there is a basic compatiblity and understanding, but the aspect is out of sign so some adjustment is needed for the potential to manifest.

Your Mars and Venus trine his Uranus, which is good for attraction, but this is more felt by you.

You guys have a Venus/North Node conjunction, although a bit wide, which shows that there is a strong fascination with each other, and maybe a sense of familiarity.

Your Saturn is on his Moon, it's a stabilizing factor but you may stifle his emotional expression, and he may feel uncomfortable being open with you. It also shows that you are probably more attached to him than he is to you. Your Pluto also squares his Moon, so there is probably an intensity about your attraction to each other but mind games and manipulation could be the pitfall.

Your Sun opposes his Saturn, so he may have a restricting, limiting effect on your ego, like he doesn't quite approve of your ways and it's your basic identity that feels invalidated. On another hand it can signify a sense of responsibility towards each other and can show a seriousness about the relationship, which can lead to a long term connection.

Now the things that aren't so good is that your Sun is afflicted, it only receives an opposition from his Saturn, and so is your Mercury, which squares his Venus and opposes his Uranus. This points to a difficulty in communication and you may misunderstand each other very easily. There may be a lack of real understanding or closeness, also.

His Venus only squares your Mercury (which is not a very good thing, although not catastrophic by itself), and his Mars doesn't make any major aspect to your planets. So while there may be feelings, he may not be very attracted to you physically, or the attraction may not be strong. There can be a sense of something missing.

Your Mars is quincunx his Mars, and while this can point to attraction, it also shows that there is some friction between your drives/the way you go about things. You may not really understand the way the other functions because you are quite different in your actions.


So, to sum it up, it's not that bad, but it's not an outstanding synastry either. Plus none if his planets fall in your 7th or 8th, which are basically the most important houses when it comes to serious relationships.

I don't think he's the right partner for you because he doesn't really embody the qualities you need in someone, ie Taurus/Aries blend. He is more Leo/Aqua, and that may be too different from what would actually satisfy you.

How does that sound to you? Yay or nay?

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Gem-Gurl
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posted April 02, 2012 04:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Right on the button!!! Wow. Impressive! You basicly just described ourselves and even made me realise some things i didnt see before! Thank you so much. Yea, it didnt last to long. And how you said i might be more attached to him, and heres me asking if we still have a chance... but its more out of curious-ness. We just didnt.... idk. Just didnt.

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Doux Rêve
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posted April 02, 2012 05:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aw I'm sorry it didn't really work out.

But don't worry, I'm sure life has good things in store for you!

The right guy will come along, for sure

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Gem-Gurl
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posted April 02, 2012 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh i aint worried!! And im not sorry its over. I think he was too emotional for me. Hey what do you think about these other 2 guys? I havnt been in relationships with either. They are potentiol prospects! Again, the houses and rising are not correct on either of them as i dont know their time of birth!
Guy one: the Sagittarius: http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=266065270141971&l=d22fbe7e1f
Guy two: the: Scorpio: http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=271399532941878&l=ce0053b4ad
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!

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Doux Rêve
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posted April 02, 2012 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, good then.


All right, so for the first one, the Sag, the orbfact is reduced to 40% which is too reduced imo, so there are like almost no aspects.. So if you could put the chart unmodified, that would help. However, I can see that some of his personal planets fall in your 1st house, which can be a sign of attraction and basically just feeling comfortable with each other, especially with his Jupiter on your ASC, probably feels really good! The thing that bugs me though is that your Venus squares his Uranus/Neptune conjunction, and while I believe you have it natally also, it's still a "dangerous" aspect to have simply because it points to rose colored glasses, and unstability. You may be deceived or strongly disappointed, because he may be unable to commit or lead you on. So, proceed with caution!

The fact that you have Venus in Aries and his Moon is in Aries also, while they don't conjunct, is a good thing. He may feel nurtured/feel secure with the way you show your love/affection and there's probably a feeling of sweetness/care for each other.

You guys also have a Mars/NN conjunction, you are the NN, so you may feel the pull more, but looks like attraction's in the air, because you have stuff to learn from each other.


Now, the second guy.
It looks really intense! With your Pluto on his Scorpio stellium, and his Pluto/Saturn square your Moon, wow. There's definitely attraction and maybe fascination, that could lead to obsessiveness/possessiveness. Strong connections there!
Your Mercury, Venus and Mars don't really aspect his planets though.. so there may be a lack of something, here again.
And the harsh Saturn aspects could lead to feeling a bit distant towards each other, maybe a fear of being vulnerable, so you may come across as cold/critical of each other at times. His Moon conjuncts Neptune but doesn't aspect anything in your chart, so it may point to a lack of nurturing/caring feelings; but then again we don't have the exact time of birth so it may be wrong.

Sun opposite Uranus can be a bit unstable or erratic, or it could just mean an unusual connection (the fact that he's older, for example).


I think you may be a bit too "airy" for him, because he's got that bunch of planets in Scorpio which shows that he's an emotionally intense person, and you may not be on the same level of intensity.

However it looks like there's crazy attraction going on (Pluto) but be careful of the mind games/manipulation.

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Gem-Gurl
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posted April 02, 2012 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whoops!! Idk why that chart was like that...! Wow, you are really know your stuff.... how long have u been studying astrology? And thx for all the info!!! Ill prob keep re-reading it all lol. Oh heres the link to us regular, the Sag boy and I. http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=264815856933579&l=623db9b76d
hmmm what kind of guy would be best for me? What should i be looking for? Or is that not how it works.... im an astrology noob.... heh

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Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh that's better, thanks!

Okay so, with the Sag guy, you have Moon trine Moon, and Mars trine Mars, so that's very good for compatibility on an emotional level and a physical level.

Your Mars squares his Venus and Mercury, so you're probably the one who is more demanding/attracted by him, because Mars is more sexual than Venus. Plus, you can come across as too pushy and there may be some heated arguments between you two, so careful what you say!

But you guys also have Moon opposite Jupiter and Moon square Jupiter, so there are lots of good feelings between you, you can make each other happy and spend good times together. It can sometimes be too much though, because you can exaggerate things or just overindulge in good things! Emotionally you can be quite "big" when together, so any feelings you arouse in each other have the potential to become larger than life, kind of. A little bit of control, and it should be fine! Oh and also it means that there are probably cultural differences between you two or just differences in philosophies and the way you go about life, so that could cause friction, too.

Again, your Mercury is unaspected and his is afflicted, so efforts will be needed if you want to truly communicate and understand each other.

Your Saturn squares his Sun, which is considered a serious, limiting influence, you may want to control him or restrict him in some way, maybe for fear of him being too "shiney", but it is also an indicator of seriousness and longevity, if a relationship does take place.

Your Suns oppose, so you're quite complementary overall, you are different but can still find a balance, and there is probably a good deal of fascination with each other.

About what guy to look for, really just go with your heart, but try to see the person clearly and still think with your head.
You are prone to wearing rose colored glasses in romance and it may take you some time to really see things and people clearly.


Oh I just noticed that you have Sun and Mercury in the 8th! That explains why you're so attracted to Scorpio influenced types, plus their planets fall in your 1st. Makes sense!


Good luck, girl!


Ps. Thank you for your compliment on my astrology skills. I've been into it for about 5 years now!

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Dreaming111
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posted April 03, 2012 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do the orbs need to be reduced?

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Doux Rêve
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posted April 04, 2012 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can reduce the orbs to see the main themes in your connection to someone, because obviously the exact aspects are felt stronger. However the other aspects add to the overall falvour of the relationship, so they need to be taken into account, too.

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Gem-Gurl
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posted April 04, 2012 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Doux Rêve!!! Wow five years!! That is a long time. This is all quiet interesting, i have to say. When looking at the sag and scorp charts i also noticed that thier was scorpio stuff all over the place. Sun and mercury in 8th, thats gemini. What does the 8th house influence?? Wait nvm. I can just google that! Lol anyways thank ya so much! Merci! (By your name im guessing you are french, but could be wrong) but merci anyways

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Doux Rêve
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posted April 04, 2012 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome Gem-Gurl, glad I could help.

I am not exactly French but I do live in France.

And yes, Google is your friend! Haha. You can find tons of info about any subject on there, and there are many astrolgical articles/threads that are very informative.

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