posted April 06, 2012 03:54 AM            

My ex sent me an email a few days back. Apparently I sent him a link (just a link) via email a few days back (i didnt) and he wanted to know if I sent it. He sent it twice to my yahoo mail (from which it came) and then forwarded it to his blackberry mail and then sent it from his blackberry mail to mine. So he has in effect sent me this enquiry three times.In it he also casually asks how I am doing.

We had a bit of a bitter breakup. I had invited him to talk back then and he ignored me.Now, five months later I get this comms

I am just now beginning to fix myself. A part of me wants to reconnect with him as a friend now that all is out in the open, Another says no, he is not finished with you and wants to hurt you again

I know it is the holidays and I know that my chances of getting a reading today are slim

posted April 06, 2012 05:26 AM            

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Pity from an Aries is worse than their contempt \m/

posted April 06, 2012 06:34 AM            

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Originally posted by love being Aries:
I will post your reading in a bit.

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posted April 06, 2012 06:40 AM            

Card 1 represents his action/intention
Card 2 represents what you should do
Card 3 represents the probable outcome

1 - Emperor:
The very first thing we associate with this card is protecting and defending. Emperor is a proud father who will let you have your way, but he will keep an eye on you. He is authoritative and he emphasises the importance of structure and being organized.
Here this card tells me he is doing this out of curiosity. The one association we make with this card is Aries which is the sign of curiosity, adventure and impulse. I think he contacted you on impulse, just to see if you are ok and then the usual curiosity "what is going on in your life?" .

Action: King of Wands
You are advised to not bother about him. The King in the picture is facing away from us, its like he is too busy in his own thoughts are looking around him and he does not care looking at us. The King is looking outwards, he is just ready to get off his throne and join the group or the fun he thinks he's been missing. This card advices you to ignore him, put your focus on more important things in life which make you happy and satisfied.

Outcome: King of Swords
This king is opposite to the King of Wands. He is staring directly at us, he looks cold, detached and he looks like he is very serious. He holds his sword in a way which reminds us that he is a very just person. This card talks about mental clarity, knowing what you have to do and how to do it. The suit of Swords is the suit of logic, reasoning, intelligence and analytical. You will gain these advantages in future. Simply put, you are better off without him and you will realize this soon enough.

You have one Major and two Kings in your spread which shouts "masculinity" , taking control and having self-esteem. You have to be Strong, mentally and emotionally. Two Kings also represent two well-developed, equal but opposite aspects of your self. Your one self (King of Wands) tells you to be curious in return and see if you can give him another chance , while the other half (King of Swords) glares at you and says firmly "NO" .

The Advice however is to ignore him and listen to the half which is saying NO.

Emperor is Fire, King of Wands is Fire and King of Swords is Air. This simply puts too much action and drive in your spread. Air and Fire mix really well and makes it a positive spread telling you to take a decision with reasoning and letting it go.

I will strongly advice you ignore the emails and if possible block him. Focus on other playful things around. There is lots of stuff going around you which can help you divert your attention.

Thank you for letting me read for you.

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Pity from an Aries is worse than their contempt \m/

posted April 06, 2012 06:44 AM            

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Pity from an Aries is worse than their contempt \m/

posted April 06, 2012 07:14 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by love being Aries:
I wanted to pull three cards for you which were all court/person cards. I had to pull three qualifiers for you to describe the situation.

Card 1 represents his action/intention
Card 2 represents what you should do
Card 3 represents the probable outcome

1 - Emperor:
The very first thing we associate with this card is protecting and defending. Emperor is a proud father who will let you have your way, but he will keep an eye on you. He is authoritative and he emphasises the importance of structure and being organized.
Here this card tells me he is doing this out of curiosity. The one association we make with this card is Aries which is the sign of curiosity, adventure and impulse. I think he contacted you on impulse, just to see if you are ok and then the usual curiosity "what is going on in your life?" .

Action: King of Wands
You are advised to not bother about him. The King in the picture is facing away from us, its like he is too busy in his own thoughts are looking around him and he does not care looking at us. The King is looking outwards, he is just ready to get off his throne and join the group or the fun he thinks he's been missing. This card advices you to ignore him, put your focus on more important things in life which make you happy and satisfied.

Outcome: King of Swords
This king is opposite to the King of Wands. He is staring directly at us, he looks cold, detached and he looks like he is very serious. He holds his sword in a way which reminds us that he is a very just person. This card talks about mental clarity, knowing what you have to do and how to do it. The suit of Swords is the suit of logic, reasoning, intelligence and analytical. You will gain these advantages in future. Simply put, you are better off without him and you will realize this soon enough.

You have one Major and two Kings in your spread which shouts "masculinity" , taking control and having self-esteem. You have to be Strong, mentally and emotionally. Two Kings also represent two well-developed, equal but opposite aspects of your self. Your one self (King of Wands) tells you to be curious in return and see if you can give him another chance , while the other half (King of Swords) glares at you and says firmly "NO" .

The Advice however is to ignore him and listen to the half which is saying NO.

Emperor is Fire, King of Wands is Fire and King of Swords is Air. This simply puts too much action and drive in your spread. Air and Fire mix really well and makes it a positive spread telling you to take a decision with reasoning and letting it go.

I will strongly advice you ignore the emails and if possible block him. Focus on other playful things around. There is lots of stuff going around you which can help you divert your attention.

Thank you for letting me read for you.

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Thnaks so much again, for this. I thought that I may use this opportunity to clear things up once and for all but it looks like I dont mean much to him. This is the story of our lives, and he has always been the one to make first contact. I want to use this opportunity to tell him all I want to say and to ask that we end it here. I need to get over him and he always seems to turn up just when I start to heal. I had a dream the night before I got the mail. He told me " I am an athiest" " I am married" and "I love you"

I know he isnt an athiest and I know he is not married so I guess he doesnt love me either

Curiosity kills the cat and this case the cat is me

posted April 06, 2012 08:21 AM            

You said "this is story of our lives he always makes contact first" it looks like its been more like a pattern than this one time?

If this has happened before, I assure you he is showing a typical Aries trait like the Emperor. The Emperor is not the bad card, but the way he is coming again and again, he is just curious.

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Pity from an Aries is worse than their contempt \m/