posted January 01, 2007 11:09 PM              

His birthday is July 5th 1980
Asmara, Eritrea
12 noon

My Birthday is May 8th 1984
9:48 am
Queens NY

It took me over two years to get over him

After him and I went our separate ways I dated other guys but I couldn't let any of them get close to me like he was.

Him and I are friends still.

When I first met him saturn was in cancer.

He has a cancer sun and mercury
I have a cancer ascendant
Do you think we will meet again when the full moon goes into cancer on January 3rd, 2007?

Or do you think we may meet when the new moon goes into cancer towards the ending of this year(07)?

After a long time I finally get over him and the all of a sudden (approx. 3 weeks- a month ago) I start thinking of him again!

And its been non-stop ever since

And I feel like apart of me is missing now that him and I are apart?

I would like to know if this man is my soul mate

Here are some of the aspects that stood out to me in our chart....

Can you please help me to better understand the meaning of the following aspects .... thank you in advance!

Here they are.....

His Sun and Mercury is in my 1st house conjunct my asc in Cancer

His Venus is in my 12 house in Gemini

His Chiron is conjunct my sun and venus in Taurus

His Saturn is in my 3rd and 4th house in Virgo

His North Node is in Leo conjunct my Moon in Leo

My Chiron is conjunct his Venus in Gemini

My North Node is conjunct his venus in gemini

Also in our composite charts we have the sun, moon and mercury conjunct in the sign of gemini

Thank you in advance for taking the time out to help me with this! I really appreciate it! This has been bothering me!

And do you think that when I started thinking about him (just out of the blue), that he was also thinking of me?

posted January 02, 2007 12:09 AM              

There are many easy connections between each of your personal planets, indicating you have an easy personal connection to each other. There are also many challenging connections to the outer planets, indicating there are long-term issues which need to be worked out if you will be in a long-term relationship. Particularly be careful of sudden anger since your Mars (being, also anger) conjuncts (energy is combined with) his Uranus (friends, also rebellion). You have easy connections to his Mercury (thinking, also talking), so perhaps you can talk with him about your feelings and see if he feels the same way.

Whether it is called "soul mate" or simply a "person I feel really close to" there does seem to be a bond between you...as you very well know!

Relating,

posted January 04, 2007 02:26 PM              

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Katie,
There are many easy connections between each of your personal planets, indicating you have an easy personal connection to each other. There are also many challenging connections to the outer planets, indicating there are long-term issues which need to be worked out if you will be in a long-term relationship. Particularly be careful of sudden anger since your Mars (being, also anger) conjuncts (energy is combined with) his Uranus (friends, also rebellion). You have easy connections to his Mercury (thinking, also talking), so perhaps you can talk with him about your feelings and see if he feels the same way.

Whether it is called "soul mate" or simply a "person I feel really close to" there does seem to be a bond between you...as you very well know!

Relating,

Tim

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Do you think me and this guy have a future together... i.e. marriage.... children

He does have anger outbursts, but do you think that is because he has a moon in aries.... because he doesn't stay mad long

I miss him soooo much, because he is nice to me.

Also can you please tell me what aspects between the synastry indicate if a person loves you?

I would like to know if (based on astrology) he loves me. I know there is always free will.... but I also know that there are astrology indicators to show if a person loves you or not.

So can you please tell me what those aspects are thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!

posted January 05, 2007 12:56 AM              

He has Moon focused in his 7th house (relationships). Wherever the Moon is there is change, either a change in something or a change in the person's feelings towards something. With his Moon in the 7th house there is change in relationships or changes in the way he feels about relationships. This could be why you have a "back and forth" sense with him and relationships.

In general easy aspects to Venus (relationships) indicate a "love connection" between two people. And you and he both have easy connections to your Venuses. However your Venus is in Taurus (physical, also desire), so you want a "down to earth", passionate love. He has his Venus in Gemini (thinking, also talking), so he may want to have a more "chatty" type of love. This will take some work to make your love a little more "chatty" and his love a little more "earthy".

There are astrological indicators to show if there is an "easy" or a "challenging" love connection between you. But as to whether this "love connection" becomes fully shared "love" between two people...that has to do with how the people USE the energies they have to work TOGETHER to solve their love challenges.

Lovingly,

posted January 05, 2007 09:58 AM              

And I guess he dosen't love me because he hasn't called me in about 2 years and I haven't called him either in 2 years (but I was the last person to call)

But thank you again.

posted January 13, 2007 02:17 AM            

When your Moon conjuncts your partner's North Node, you will be deeply affected by your relationship. Neither of you will forget each other, as this relationship is meaningful on a deep level to you both. There are life-size themes of nurturing and safety in this relationship. The Moon person expresses qualities that the North Node person, on a subconscious level, needs to develop in order to grow spiritually. The attraction can be intense, and the relationship itself will be a distinctly emotional connection. Issues of security, taking care of each other, and protection are dominant ones in this partnership. There is an instant bond between the two of you, almost as if this relationship feels "meant to be". The ties are strong, and the bond is hard to break. If you do part, both of you will feel attached to the memory of the relationship and the person, and if you were to meet again, you would not feel any distance between you. There is an instant attraction and sympathy between you. If there is discomfort in the relationship, it will likely come from the North Node person, as there is a sense of fatedness involved here. The Moon person may feel that he or she gives more emotionally than the North Node person at times, but will generally be comfortable with this role.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/moon_northnode_aspects.html

If I were you, I'd just call him. You really have nothing to lose anyways.

PS. I noted that Sue mentioned this in another thread that she "sensed" your panic. Well as a fellow water person....I do too, and your cancer will as well. Try to find a method of relaxation before you try and call him.

posted January 21, 2007 03:57 AM              

And in reference to me calling him.....
Belive it or not.... I'm shy

For the most part I'm always the one who calls him first and I don't want to make it seem like I'm pursuing him more than he's pursuing me....

I guess I'm chicken... lol

posted January 21, 2007 03:59 AM              

I always show him more love then he shows me.....

So this is the reason why I'm a bit hesitant to call..... even thoughI really want too