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Topic: Can someone offer insight on this compatibility
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Koda1969 Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Fairfax, VA, USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 17, 2012 08:10 AM
I met someone (Taurus male) I'm a Libra female, and it was instant chemistry even before we met, and when we met, sparks flew. I'm terrified because he "feels" like someone I've always known, but having been burned before, I guess I'm trying to see if there is some to this? Can someone offer some insight into this chart? http://i1067.photobucket.com/albums/u427/Koda1969/astro_61at_01_02_alexandra_john_hr4290329091.gif IP: Logged |
slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 190 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 17, 2012 10:17 AM
This is not the best - but workable. The breakup elements are not present, SA 63 Moon may be strong enough to hold you together. Any relationship can work if you are willing to work at it, including this one. Guard against intense disagreements and you may be alright. Good luck IP: Logged |
Koda1969 Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Fairfax, VA, USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 18, 2012 11:16 PM
Thanks, slowpoke Well, I found out an interesting "piece" to him today. For some reason I thought it was strange that he kept joking that with me being a "techie" that I hadn't researched him. I'm not that type, I don't pry or snoop. Ironically, he pulled a vanishing act on me, and hasn't contacted me, so today I started looking online. He told me he was a widower, but didn't elaborate and I didn't push (we are still getting to know each other). Well, it turns out, they weren't together when she died. He was in another state, she was living with a boyfriend and they were both found shot (murder/suicide). So, I daresay I tend to think this wouldn't be the smartest emotional attachment for me (to make it creepier, turns out she was a Libra like me) because I feel he's still holding a torch for her. Thanks, though. The initial chemistry was exciting, but sadly my "radar" was on so I knew something didn't seem right.IP: Logged |
slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 190 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 20, 2012 02:09 PM
When it comes to relationships and as we get older, we must prepare for the realities, and that is - the people of our dreams will begin showing up with their "baggage". This includes you too. People of our age are no longer perfect.Astrologically speaking, the potential for a good relationship exist here. But it will take compassion, time, honesty and trust in each other to make the bond happen. Good relationships are always a work in progress. You have been smart enough to seek understanding on what is good for you. Opportunity like yours does not come alone often. I am not saying take the chance. He has yet to learn about you. Just know when people of value are in front of you. Statistically and Synastry Astrology wise - he needs to be at least a good friend. I trust you will make the right decisions. The essence of you is very strongly describe by the planet of Uranus. This suggest a life of unconventional things happening in your life. For good relationships to happen in your life, you must be willing to blaze new trails in the way you do things as a couple, rather than going down the standard tried and true roads established by the general population. Slowpoke P.S. The Sun signs have nothing to do with the circumstances you see. IP: Logged |
Koda1969 Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Fairfax, VA, USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 20, 2012 06:19 PM
I agree about the realities..and I am definitely prepared for them in myself and others. I know that for me, what it is, is that I would like to have a little more "fun" in regards to dating, not jump head long into drama. Seems for most of my first dates lately, it's like having cold water thrown on me immediately and I have to kick into "understanding" mode as well as a nurturing mode rather than having even the slightest bit of the honeymoon period if you will. As for this guy, well the point is moot. I have not heard from him. So, no clue what happened, but after four days, I'm pretty sure he's gone. Interestingly enough, there is one man on the horizon..we've been casually talking for a few weeks now, and because of our busy schedules, haven't had a chance to meet. He's younger than me, his birthday is 9-24-71. Our conversations have been more low key, friendly...and last night while texting, at one point he said "I am actually really looking forward to meeting you" which shocked me..it's like we are friends already. So, who knows, maybe something enjoyable will come of it!IP: Logged | |