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Topic: in a jar of stinky pickles
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britbard
Newflake Posts: 4
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 20, 2012 08:34 PM
  
hi guys...if someone could shed even a little light i would really appreciate it...here goes
i am currently living with a fellow that happens to now be my business partner. i love him very much, but i don't see him as my future partner. it's nice enough, it's friendly, it's stable, but has become more or less platonic...
fellow number 2 i also love. he's from my past and i believe we had/have a soul connection, and we can't seem to let each other go, although we haven't seen each other in 9 years. i'm thinking about him before i open my eyes in the morning. i feel like i'm living a lie, as guy 1 thinks we are raging soulmates. i know for sure that i will move on, but will it be toward guy 2? or should i let it go and move on altogether? logic says move on away from him, but heart wants to break even considering it. i feel like the great lying pretender, and yes, it's stinky, and i don't like myself much right now  IP: Logged |
love being Aries
Knowflake Posts: 980
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 21, 2012 07:54 AM
HiI have been where you are right now. It takes a lot of strength moving forward, mainly because we don't know what will happen. The past is easy to cling to because we already know what had happened so we are in our comfort zone. If you have not seen this guy in 9 years then it definitely means it over. You are not moving on that's the issue. Do not feel bad about it because you are not doing anything wrong. May be the second relationship is not satisfying enough this is why you are unable to move on from the past guy. I was also stuck on the past guy and no man would help me in any way, but then one guy with whom I saw no future, came along and it lasted for 6 weeks to be very precise, but he was the one which helped me moving on from the past. I am still grateful to that person. So you do not have to feel guilty, try to help yourself, sometimes in life you have to be a little selfish because honestly you cannot make others happy if you yourself are not happy and till the time you are happy you won't be able to make the current guy happy and the relationship good. secondly, follow your gut, if it tells you the second guy is not the one, then he is not the one. But this does not imply the first guy is the one for you, why are you limiting yourself to these two? you should see other people as well. do not settle for the relationship which does not make you happy. you deserve to be happy even if that takes longer than you think ------------------
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