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Topic: FAO Venia - follow up reading exchange request
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seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 514
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 22, 2012 09:26 AM
  
Hi Venia,
Hope you're well  I just wondered if I could ask you to do another reading around this relationship - reason being I broke it off on Thursday because I got very very insecure around the way he speaks and focuses on his female friends. I'm devastated and I suppose I'm just looking for reassurance that I did the right thing or an indication of what will happen now... if anything. So to put that in a question... "What does the universe want for my relationship with Mark?" I've included the reading you did for me below... Death card seems strangely 'definitive' now!  quote:
Hi seeker!
I pulled the cards for you this morning as your question was: 'What is the purpose of this relationship?'Present: The Chariot and the Six of Pentacles. Is there a significant distance between you at the moment? Constant travel is indicated and a financial matter is on the front that will be resolved through important help, coming from him. Is he involved in your business?
Future: The Devil and the Ace of Cups.
I see you letting you fears get between you and even doubts. You should just relax and enjoy it cause there is tremendous love here and beautiful mutual feelings... that will evolve even more!
The Ace of Cups is an amazing card - so please leave your doubts and go ahead with faith. The purpose of this relationship: The Death card Huge transformation and rebirth. This is a no random relationship... follow the path where it is leading you, cause there is a great new beginning ahead.
I hope it made sense... Best of Luck and enjoy it as much as possible!!!
, Victoria
Always happy of course to return the favour and do a reading for you so please let me know your question. Thanks so much if you have time to help - struggling with this quite a bit
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Venia
Knowflake Posts: 399
From: Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 22, 2012 11:07 AM
Oh seeker!!!!I am really really sorry... I can understand how you feel.
I will do the reading in a few. Hang in there  IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 399
From: Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 22, 2012 11:33 AM
Well, dear! That's what I got...How he feels about this: The Knight of Cups He is being emotional at the moment. Yes, it did bug him cause he didn't expect it. What was his reaction when you let him know about your decision? How you feel about this: The Death You want this sort of 'situation' with him to end the way it is now (his comments/attitude to his female friends) and if you start afresh, you would expect a different behaviour.
You seem a determined woman though and you know what you deserve. What does the Universe want you to learn from this : The Four of Wands and the Ace of Swords The Universe sends us the right people at the right time to lead us to our personal path of our true destiny and happiness. This man is in your life for an important lesson... Things will get clearer but sit and look back at your actions as well. Do you feel you did the right thing?
A soulmate relationship does need work - we know that!
I strongly feel that you will get back in touch to sort things out. But as I said, was his behaviour that insulting to break it off with him or was it a lesson for you to start taking things in a more lighter way? (I'm not playing the devil's advocate here, just trying to help ... you know that!) Lastly, I pulled The Magician... Yes, you can have whatever you want and desire - it is in your hands!
Let me know if you need me to get deeper into this 
And don't worry! Everything is gonna be ok Be well, Victoria P.S. I would want a reading from you only if you feel like it! Otherwise, some other time... IP: Logged |
seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 514
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 22, 2012 11:59 AM
Oh Victoria thank you so very much for doing that!! It's helped a lot to clarify and reflect back to me my own behaviour as well as his. I would be interested to go deeper if you have time and don't mind and I suppose the other question on my mind is that if we will get in touch to sort this out, should I leave space for him to contact or be the one to do it myself? I do feel that in many ways I did the right thing - his flirting is getting ridiculous and it's as though he almost sees it as his 'right' of sorts! When I try to mention how it makes me feel he gets cross and starts talking about how he shouldn't have to cage his free spirit. I gently tried to point out that meeting someone you supposedly love half way isn't kerbing your freedom... it's just part of relationships. Fair is fair etc.In answer to your question about how he reacted well he hasn't replied. Complete silence from him. He's been busy being 'friendly' with his female friends from what I can gather so almost gone into overdrive to prove his point! I feel bad about the way I ended it - sent him an FB msg... not my finest hour! It simply said I thought I deserved better than waiting in the shadows whilst he got over his fears by behaving he was 100% single. Said if he'd meant anything he said to me then he knew where I was. So I suppose his silence speaks volumes doesn't it? I know you're right in what you say about soulmate relationships and I stuck with it for longer than I would normally have done with that kind of behaviour. But it had started to make me feel sick to my stomach wondering if I could trust him, and that's no way to be. Just don't know what to do or whether to leave it all alone. My friend said she looked at his FB page yesterday and he posted a couple of 'sad' songs (break up stuff) so underneath all the flirting looks like he's got some emotion. Just not enough to fight for me. I'm away from home until tomorrow lovely so I don't have my Tarot pack here but I do have my Romance Angel Oracle cards if you'd like me to use those? Thanks so much for all your help and support once again xxx IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 399
From: Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 22, 2012 02:27 PM
Hey It's my pleasure if I can help somehow! It is really weird that he hasn't replied to this... yet.
I know what you mean, if his comments/behaviour were insulting to you then I would have felt and did the same thing as you.
On the other hand, he has to understand that his attitude did hurt you and, in my opinion, he should contact you first. It may take him some time though.
Give him time to 'realise' what has really happened... wait and see! I pulled two cards - if you will get in touch again to sort this out. I got the Judgement and the Six of Wands. Yes, there is going to be contact between you and things will finally fall in place. You will definitely know if you will go ahead with this relationship or it's already over.
The Six of Wands, though, is a victorious card... And for me indicates that whatever you choose to do, will have a great result for you and I do strongly feel (it appeared in another reading as far as I remember  ) that you will have a very happy love life soon... Don't know if it's Mark, but your love dreams will come true. You are a generous and beautiful soul and always remember what you deserve 
Oh! If you can do a reading for me with the Romance Angel cards, that would be great! Sounds interesting!
What should I expect in the next two months regarding love? Hope it's ok!
Thank you in advance and don't worry at all!! Be well, V
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seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 514
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 22, 2012 03:48 PM
Well you were right - he contacted just after I read your message! However it looks as though he's either changed his feelings towards me completely or is pretending so as to save face. He said he was having trouble with the distance and needed someone day to day. So I'm just going to leave it now. Don't need to beat myself up if his heart's not really in it. ;-) Thank you again lovely for all your help xxxSo your reading is as follows...
Next 4 weeks - Calling in your Soulmate. Your prayers, affirmations and visualizations help bring you together. As this suggests you are being encouraged to send your prayer out into the ether for your Soulmate and it promises you'll be answered. I do still get the feeling this is someone you know already... just something about it all feels 'familiar.' Following 4 weeks - Flirt. Extend your lighthearted energy to others. So I think the way to find that person is to do as this suggests... open your heart with the warm energy of flirting (a subject close to my heart haha!;-) ) and you'll attract love energy in return because the universe responds to what you send out. I pulled an outcome card - past life relationship. You have known each other before... well I did tell you I got a feeling about this and looks like I was on the right lines!! I hope it all works out for you and thank you so much again for your help. You're such a wonderful generous soul I wish us both joy!! :-) IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 399
From: Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 22, 2012 04:18 PM
Oh dear seeker!I am sure he is pretending that he is cool with it... It's impossible to stop having feelings about someone in a matter of days.
But, nevertheless, yes - you are absolutely right! Leave it for now... and see how things will evolve. I strongly believe that whatever or whoever is here for us, will (eventually) stay! Wow... this reading you did for me
Sounds familiar to me, too! I wish I get in touch with him that soon... it looks like a dream... but I feel and know who he is - without doubt. You made my day, again! I will let you know! May true love find you soon, too V IP: Logged |
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