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Topic: Junethird... a thank you :)
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seeker3030
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posted May 17, 2012 04:22 AM
  
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Originally posted by Junethird:
seeker3030: i should mention that until you have a ring... i dont see one coming until closer to your birthday. i know when i posted the first reply i got nervous... just a tad. i strongly suggest you should be on guard for cold feet. give him the freedom to roam in the relationship. cool as a cucumber should be your motto when delays set in, and they will. sooner than you think.
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Just wanted to say a huge thank you for all your help to me and to everyone on your thread. I hadn't noticed this post from you the first time round and it makes perfect sense because he's all of a sudden expressed 'doubts' and 'fears.' I have a feeling I might have blown it since your reading but if that's the case then so be it... because he's annoying the hell out of me at the moment haha! ;D Anyway, thank you once again and I really hope you feel better  IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 17, 2012 08:16 AM
Again from page 2...mark mark mark.... i once knew of a mark, and i know one now... the issue with marks are that they are smooth talkers. a bit of a player at first and in early age too. They like to come on fast and strong... but once the dust settles, the real issues surface.
According to most rational human beings on the verge of maturing that includes, settling in, getting married, buying a house and welcoming a baby.... I do honestly believe that mark has been thinking alot about his future and the next phase in his life. BUT like any sugar phase, and i use that lightly, more to get my point across, someone always hesitates, gets cold feet. so dont bet on a quickie engagement/wedding. You have doubts because you have prolly dealt with him in your past... you can never get what you once lost, as now you are both a little older, a little wiser and a little more guarded. But if you play your cards right, and make him work a teeny tiny bit for it, and show him praise when he does good. speak openly about your doubts and hopes for the future... slowly. more so than you, he could be spooked by too much too soon. You i am not worried as you seem to have your head on straight about this dude... it will come up a little later on, but you must re assure him that you are still the same person he fell inlove with... by this time next year you could very well be on your way to the marital bliss. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 17, 2012 08:21 AM
Thank you seeker3030. U are so sweet  Watch that verbal diarrhea on your part.... All you habe to do is to simply remind him and show him that you are still the same gal he fell inlove with. You are still you and marriage wont change that. Be open and cool babe. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 17, 2012 08:23 AM
Maybe you missed this one too? Also on page 2
lol no no. its not the same mark lol...
Good. then you know how to deal with him and his antics. you now know how to predict his behaviour and how to re act to it. you tap into that and you are sailing high my friend. altho i dont believe its his 'biological clock' ticking away as more like feeling the pressure of being the odd man out when all his friends/co workers are settling down...its better this way. let him be the one getting all wrapped up in love and future bcuz that means he is really really thinking and has thought long and hard. He knows better than to get your hopes up and bail this time around. But still be on guard for deer in the headlights syndrome lol
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Junethird
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posted May 17, 2012 08:40 AM
And no lol you have not blown it with him... But watch it. No more tantrums from you lolGive it a few days to cool off... Reach Back out and start talking niiiiiiceeely please. So to speak "mother him" a little bit. At heart he really is a big kid lol You guys have the tigers eyes stone.... Its passionate, fiery but tempermental... Mmmm. I will come back to it tonight. Its actually a tricky energy to mold :/ i need to consult double check with this stone. IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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posted May 17, 2012 02:13 PM
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Watch that verbal diarrhea on your part....And no lol you have not blown it with him... But watch it. No more tantrums from you lol
Give it a few days to cool off... Reach Back out and start talking niiiiiiceeely please. ---------------------------------------- So to speak "mother him" a little bit. At heart he really is a big kid lol You guys have the tigers eyes stone.... Its passionate, fiery but tempermental... Mmmm. I will come back to it tonight. Its actually a tricky energy to mold :/ i need to consult double check with this stone.
Haha you're soooo right about me and 'verbal diorrhoea'!!! ;D Will can it as of now. Yep saw the rest of what you posted and found it spot on! No more tantrums I promise and I'll treat him like I do my 4yr old son haha ;D He has such an ego on him though and it drives me mental!! Would be so interested whenever you have time and feel like sharing more about the tigers eye stone... Thanks again Junethird! x IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 17, 2012 09:58 PM
i have to admit i have never used this stone before, i completely forgot i even had it in my collection... weird.its essence is the cat.... be like the cat when hunting. patient determined focused until the perfect time to pounce on your prey... so you must work behind the scenes and slowly prod him without him realizing it... dont ever hesitate. always be ready with an answer to calm him. its a good stone... its practical and has determined passion. IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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posted May 18, 2012 06:02 AM
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so you must work behind the scenes and slowly prod him without him realizing it... dont ever hesitate. always be ready with an answer to calm him.
Brilliant advice!! Thank you so much Junethird We spoke for 4hours last night on the phone!! It was back to our best and I really felt for the most part that he was genuine in everything he said. The only thing is there is still an imbalance and that bothers me. So far I've been the one to do all the leg-work - we live 2.5 hours drive apart and due to financial problems, so far he's been unable to afford the trip. This Sunday we were supposed to meet at a half way point between us as a gesture... it was an outdoor place (an old castle that we were going to visit) but the weather forecast is very bad so he asked if I'd consider coming to him again so that we could spend time together unhampered by the weather etc. I caved in and said yes and now I'm kicking myself because I've let him get his own way again. I feel like asking him for some other 'gesture' and I know what I'd like him to do but don't think he's ready to (deer in headlights etc.) I want to ask him to acknowledge the relationship publically (i.e. change his relationship status on FB to show he's not single) but I have a feeling he'll let me down again or think I'm being pushy... even though it really is his turn to show some effort. Don't really know what to do about that one! Sorry... rambling now haha! Will think on what you've said about the 'cat-like' qualities and see if I can come up with something calm and measured
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Junethird
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posted May 18, 2012 08:01 AM
sometimes it is up to you...iam sorry to say to you, that i did not pick up on anything that you have expressed... the tiger stone is unpredictable fiery, determinant and passionate...i wonder if its that that keeps me going back and forth... go for it and go see him a few times until the perfect opportunity pops in for him to visit you... dont change your fb status keep it single until he says something... you really want to fight him on that? oh we broke up because of an fb status change lol tag him in one or two simple pictures... nothing mush or romantic. yes i do believe that its deer in headlights syndrome... so watch out. he could pull for awhile.
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seeker3030
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posted May 18, 2012 02:18 PM
You're right - yep will go with it and try to find that balance between encouraging him to work for it a little and just being cool and calm. He keeps telling me "you're wife material..." - well we'll see! ;D Thanks for all your help IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 18, 2012 02:43 PM
You are. He sees what a great mom you are to your boy too. He likes that.Cool as a cucumber. Flexible like the cat. Cats always land on their feet. Cats have 9 lives. Mmmm. A baby takes 9 months to be cooked lol today is the 18th.... Thats another 9. So i say 9 months of this bull before you get what you want. Or better said before you start seeing the results and getting your way more and more. Your little boy is gonna get sick soon... Nothing serious flu like... Get him to wash his hands more and have a first aid kit handy. Again nothing serious. Please Dont worry. I just wanted to put it out there for you. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 18, 2012 10:36 PM
I bought a new card set today. The romance angels.So if you want to be my lab monkey. I can do a love reading for you.... I have no idea how accurate they are... First time ever using angel cards... So take it with a grain of salt lol. Ask a specific question.... IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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posted May 19, 2012 06:25 AM
"Cool as a cucumber... flexible like the cat" is my new mantra!! ;DYep I think you're right... right now this minute all is rosy in the garden. But as all things ebb and flow (and as you could put money on his knee jerk 'deer in the headlights' reactions) I am sure of one thing and that's that it's going to be a looooooong road haha!  Thanks so much for the heads-up re my little one too! He's actually got a cold at the moment funnily enough but will watch out for flu like symptoms. Thank you Oo Romance Angel oracle cards?? That's what I use!!! Yes I'd love to be your guinea pig thank you! My question is what does the Universe want the outcome of this weekend to be for Mark and I? Thank you again! IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 19, 2012 06:36 PM
Your answer....Reconciliation. Someone from your past is returning to your life. So kiss and make up lol and hopefully it will be in person and not via phone IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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posted May 20, 2012 05:39 PM
Well you are amazing!!! Not only did we 'reconcile' in a sense (yep in person but still not sure we're back together as a couple) but I got home to collect my boy from his dad and he's been ill all weekend! Sore throat, sickness and a temp. He's a lot better than he was thank goodness so fingers crossed! So there we are... several hits!! Thank you so much!! IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 20, 2012 06:03 PM
Aww poor babe. I hope he feels better soon  Yes, the more confirmation i get back, the more confident i feel about what i am getting back from the energies surrounding you. They get stronger in a sense. Baby steps my dear. Pace yourself. You want to win the war not the battle. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 20, 2012 06:21 PM
I wanted to add that i normally dont read children unless their energy pops in, and even then i tell them to go away.They are curious creatures, playful and so innocent, they get in my way, distracting me. Wanting to play games and tricks lol but your babe was just a little slow for my liking. He will be all right. Lots of hugs and kisses. He is a little sweetheart. If you didnt tell me boy i would have said little girl. He is a little darling. I love him already lol Maybe rub some vicks vapor rub on the soles of his feet for that chest congestion. IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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posted May 20, 2012 07:47 PM
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He will be all right. Lots of hugs and kisses. He is a little sweetheart. If you didnt tell me boy i would have said little girl. He is a little darling. I love him already lol Maybe rub some vicks vapor rub on the soles of his feet for that chest congestion.
Ahh that's so lovely of you, thank you hun! Yes he's my little star and I love him more than anything! Will definitely give the Vicks idea a go! It's funny... lots of readers have seen a girl around me, but no it's just my little lad Thanks again xx IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted May 20, 2012 07:56 PM
mmm interesting... i was starting to get confused... i will look for this young female energy. but not tonight. As i have done quite a few readings tonight and i am tired. 
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seeker3030
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posted May 21, 2012 04:25 PM
Ok thanks so much lovely! xIP: Logged |
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