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Betjany
Newflake

Posts: 8
From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Apr 2012

posted May 19, 2012 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betjany     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi! I'm pretty new here. So, greetings! I look forward to being acquainted with you all .

I'm posting to request some help/insight on my recent (last night) breakup with my boyfriend. He did the dumping. It was unexpected for us both, I think. We still live together. It's really confusing. He said it was what he felt was best for both of us and that there wasn't enough chemistry between us for liking anymore .

I still love him and am in a state of shock, having difficulty accepting what is happening. I am trying not to indulge in
any false hope of us getting back together when venus goes direct (as it is said that we often go back on decisions made during this time).
I'm sure that I am to blame for this. I have not been handling the energy of my Pluto oppose N venus transit well. I'm sure that I've been driving him insane with the cancer venus clinginess that Pluto is working on.

I'm grateful for any feedback. I'm hoping to find the karmic lesson in this to apply it to overcoming the pain. Thank you in spades!!

Here's our composite and synastry:



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Thefish
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Registered: Apr 2012

posted May 21, 2012 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're not to blame unless you actually did something like cheating on him, lying etc.

When people break up it's both parties who own the break-up.

Looking at the composite it seems that with Venus unaspected save for for semi-sextile and at 135% degree angle. It seems there was a disconnect from a venutian perspective.

The otehr issues would be saturn tightly conjunct pluto opposite mars.

Saturn conjunct pluto is like throwing a wet blanket on a roaring fire.

Moon in the 12th square mars suggests difficulties with emotions.

In your natal you have south node conjunct your moon and seing that it's a pisces moon that would tend to suggest that you need to get away from being too emersed in the subconscious and 12th house issues and be more grounded in day to day practicalities.

North node is conjunct saturn.

So we see that you're being pulled in two opposing directions.

Easy is staying emotionally rooted in daydreams fantasy subconscious or the difficult yet needed transition to being a day to day task master.

As far as relationships go. You've got rule of the 7th in 5th meaning that you are in love with love.

You trine his scorpio pluto in the 8th which brought lots of romantic and sexual intensity, but your venus opposes his sun and neptune which suggests he doubted if you were in love with him or in love with the idea of being in love with him.


His ruler of the 7th the sun is in his 10th which suggests marriage is about career.

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Betjany
Newflake

Posts: 8
From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Apr 2012

posted May 24, 2012 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betjany     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Thefish,

I appreciate your perspective.
It seems that I will always have my hard
lessons in the 7th house, it could be worse though

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