posted May 24, 2012 11:23 AM            

3 of Swords
The High Priestess reversed
Queen of Wands reversed

I'm having trouble with of course the high priestess and queen of wands I know they are reversed and not very positive. Not sure if they are saying that he's too shallow and finds me unattractive or that he's jealous that I'm in a relationship long term with somebody else because both cards reversed can mean jealousy. I know I feel heartbroken about what he has told me so that explains the 3 of swords but how would you read these cards if you got them for yourself about what you most needed to know how someone felt about you?

I know I'm not jealous so the high priestess reversed and queen of wands reversed can't mean that I'm jealous here because he's single and he hasn't given me a reason to get jealous at all on the other hand I have since I'm in a relationship..really having a hard time..

posted May 24, 2012 11:57 AM            

The high priestess reversed - I'm gonna rattle off some of what my book says about it. Cuz it breaks down each meaning into 3 catagories (key words and phrases, situation and advice, and people).
~key words and phrases: misuse of intuition, shallowness, manipulativeness, repressed feelings, hidden enemies, superficiality
~situation and advice: HP r suggests u r paying insuficient attention to ur true needs and feelings. Or someone around u may b hysterical and emotionally out of control. Ur unconscious it trying to tell u something but u r unwilling to listen.
~people: manipulative ppl, secret enemies, esp a woman, shallow or superficial individuals.

Ok I'm not sure whether this card is describing u or if its how he views u. Something to take into consideration. Considering how u worded ur question, it may b how he sees u at the moment. Which would explain his bitterness right now. Doesnt mean he's right, its just how he's viewing it.

Queen of wands reversed - I'm gonna do the same thing here to try to help.
~key words and phrases: narrow mindedness, jealousy, demandingness, envy, moodiness, lies, paranoia, hatred of male authority, domination
~situation and advice: a neurotic and rigidly inflexible woman may interfere with ur plans by insisting on getting her own way. U or someone close to u may b resorting to emotional blackmail to block another efforts at independence. Beware of sticking ur nose where it doesn't belong.
~people: an unyielding, tempermental woman who demands her own way, a woman who is domineering, bitter, strict, and possibly unfaithful, someone who interferes in others' affairs.

Not sure how to take this one. Queens usually represent ppl. Is this u? Or is there another woman who is giving him ideas, like a female friend of his who he is turning to for advice?

Or I could just flat out say he's mad he can't have his own way and is lashing out at u for it lol but I don't know him or u or the situation so I'm not gonna judge any of u.

posted May 24, 2012 05:23 PM            

Yes I'm the Queen of Wands..I always get this card or The Empress but I get the Queen of Wands more so yes it is me..

" U or someone close to u may b resorting to emotional blackmail to block another efforts at independence"

THIS is what he's doing and he's enjoying it he told me that he loves the fact that he can control me any time he wants to because he knows I have deep feelings for him and he likes toying with it. He's very angry and bitter but I haven't done anything that I know other than the fact that I'm in a relationship and I guess I ignored him the day before he lashed out at me.

He probably also sees me as unfaithful although I'm not and never was.

" Is he at all manipulative towards u??"

Lol, read above. Yes he is and extremely manipulative.

I know about the question and that's how I tend to think go by the question and apply it to all 3 cards but some people in the past told me I was wrong for thinking this way and that "tarot is a personal thing" so it's not all about him but I disagree and I agree with you these cards should all apply to him since it's him I'm asking about..although Tarot also sometimes tends to reflect our feelings as well so I tried to keep it realistic I guess.

Well what I can pick up is that he's feeling heartbroken and he feels like I'm a "witch" (replace that w with a b, lol?) and right now his view of me is very negative.

posted May 24, 2012 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979:
Aha! I thought it sounded like there was manipulation goin on lol ok gotcha. I didn't say u were a *witch* just that in his mind that's how he's viewing it lol he sounds like a scorpio or has scorpio placements. it he is hurting then yes he def has feelings for u but control/mind games? Nah that's ok I'll pass lol if u were told u were looking at it wrong then I'm doin it wrong too haha that's how I do it - read the question 1st and then look at the cards? Oh well. U sound like a strong woman so he can get glad in the same pants he got mad in

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LOL!! Don't worry it was just specific people who thought they were so much better than me but trust me I have worked with people who I have personally blown away with my readings lol and this is how I read them too so don't worry!!

posted May 24, 2012 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979:
I love virgos! I usually get along good with other virgos I'm the same way ughhh I can read for other ppl easier than myself lol so when I do them for myself I stick to like no more than 3 cards to keep the confusion to a minimum lol its nice having that outside perspective sometimes. I'm cool with u disagreeing with me lol its ur reading and u will intuitively know what to think. And pisces....one of my best friends is married to a pisces and he's really really controlling and another friend of mine just got out of a 7 yr relationship with a pisces and he was controlling too lol I dont wanna believe they r all like that. Must b the lower type. Ah but I dated one once. Didn't work out but there's that pull to them, ooo he was yummy lol well good luck with him

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posted May 25, 2012 01:27 AM            

I actually had the same situation & asked the same ? & kept getting those cards. I think it means exactly what has been said here.

posted May 26, 2012 12:57 PM            

He's vague on purpose I think. And I think you know this but are denying it. I haven't read the thread because I didn't want to be biased, so I hope you don't get upset with me being so blunt.

Another way to read them is he is being vague to avoid hurting your feelings. What stands out to me most is there a reason for his vagueness though and we can see this in the 3 of Swords being the only upright card out of the two.

posted May 26, 2012 01:11 PM            

We had an argument about somethings and he said hurtful things to me.

It makes much more sense now that you put it that way. His vagueness stems from possibly me being in a relationship. The high priestess and Queen of Wands being reversed could mean an unfaithful or promiscuous woman..you have just shed great light on this

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
3 of Swords
The High Priestess reversed
Queen of Wands reversed

He's vague on purpose I think. And I think you know this but are denying it. I haven't read the thread because I didn't want to be biased, so I hope you don't get upset with me being so blunt.

Another way to read them is he is being vague to avoid hurting your feelings. What stands out to me most is there a reason for his vagueness though and we can see this in the 3 of Swords being the only upright card out of the two.

Is it possible at all, even a little bit, that there is another woman he finds attractive but one you ignore or do not know about?

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posted May 26, 2012 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Also with the trio of cards, he may be vague as a way to keep the control. He may see you as a little nosy or you come off as the boss. There may be simply an imbalance in the way you communicate or come across to him - perhaps too abrasive?

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