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Topic: venus rx? should i get back with the ex? help
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leighella
Newflake Posts: 5
From: australia
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 25, 2012 11:42 AM
  
so it's venus retrograde and the ex pops out of no where and wants me back, is this venus retrograde at work? does this mean we're going to break up when it goes direct? please can anyone help me, do we have a future together?IP: Logged |
phoenixxx12
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: VIA COMBUSTA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 25, 2012 12:21 PM
Hey, I believe that unwritten rule with venus rx and boyfriends comin back, is not to make any decisions during venus rx, wait till July or August when Venus goes direct and out of its shaddow, because people tend to show their real selves when Venus is direct again....i would love to comment on composite but dont feel quite that good at it, but i would suggest maybe posting it in Rosalinds readings, she is excellent - hope it helps  IP: Logged |
leighella
Newflake Posts: 5
From: australia
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 25, 2012 12:33 PM
thanks phoenix for the reply, thought I should wait it out as well. I would love Rosalind to do a reading, but she doesn't do readings anymore and don't want to bother her. So, now I'm avoiding him, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea because he is a Leo and needs the attention, I also want him back as well, but am scared he'll hurt me again  IP: Logged |
Rosalind
Knowflake Posts: 913
From:
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 25, 2012 12:47 PM
Leigh, this guys sees you more as a coworker and friend. You don't seem to have romantic feelings for him either. You just love his company and the comfortable way he makes you feel. Composite shows just a fling. Composite NN in first ruler falling in 10th shows that if you have a relationship it will be only to develop yourselves in the career area. You too might help eachother in career but nothing else. 5th and 8th house switch rulers. A fling based on a strong sexual attraction.
Now, judging from this Composite chart, your relationship with guy does not deserve a come back. There are no marriage indicators, there arent even indicators for a relationship on a long run. In your 4th house you have only Chiron which is enough bad for your home life. Your 7th house has no energies from the planets. Ruler, Mercury falls in 5th house, being another indicator of a flling. My answer is no, do not bother.IP: Logged |
leighella
Newflake Posts: 5
From: australia
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 25, 2012 01:01 PM
Thanks for the surprise reply rosalind. I must admit, I'm gutted by your reading. I know I should move on, it's been 8 months since he decided to call it quits, but he was my first actual boyfriend and I just don't know how to, I can't help but still be attached to him. With venus in retrograde, I guess this is my oppurtunity for closure, but I just don't know how to go about it.IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 290
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 25, 2012 01:10 PM
I disagree, Rosalind. Entirely. Not with that natal 8H Sun on the other's IC. There's some depth here.However, it's not even THAT unwritten of a rule that exes pop back up during the Venus Retro; more of an accepted thing. BUT. This is because we have something that was left unresolved. Do you have a future? Maybe. I don't see any degrees for the synastry, so I can't tell if that's Sun quindecile Moon or not. They tend to introduce long, obsessive relationships which can break off rather suddenly. I'd need more to evaluate real romantic potential than what I'm seeing here - i.e., degrees, a few asteroids (Eros, Psyche, Sappho, Amor, and Valentine), and, if there's karmic potential, Karma and Destinn. Just don't be too hasty with that 6H energy. It doesn't tell the whole story. But the bottom line in the here and now is to resolve what's been unresolved. Is there more to this relationship? Potentially. Is it time to tie up loose ends? Definitely. Where does that lead you? Depends. -A.
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Rosalind
Knowflake Posts: 913
From:
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 25, 2012 01:13 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I disagree, Rosalind. Entirely. Not with that natal 8H Sun on the other's IC. There's some depth here.However, it's not even THAT unwritten of a rule that exes pop back up during the Venus Retro; more of an accepted thing. BUT. This is because we have something that was left unresolved. Do you have a future? Maybe. I don't see any degrees for the synastry, so I can't tell if that's Sun quindecile Moon or not. They tend to introduce long, obsessive relationships which can break off rather suddenly. I'd need more to evaluate real romantic potential than what I'm seeing here - i.e., degrees, a few asteroids (Eros, Psyche, Sappho, Amor, and Valentine), and, if there's karmic potential, Karma and Destinn. Just don't be too hasty with that 6H energy. It doesn't tell the whole story. But the bottom line in the here and now is to resolve what's been unresolved. Is there more to this relationship? Potentially. Is it time to tie up loose ends? Definitely. Where does that lead you? Depends. -A.
Karmic house over karmic house? Of course. People want to see good where there is no good. However, its your right to dissagree.
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