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Topic: Does my chart indicate I can only attract damaged men?
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 11:27 AM
I'm tired of only dating "unavailable" men. Most are emotionally damaged. I get that I have Uranus in my 7th and perhaps when I was younger I was seeking men who I could run from. But I feel I have learned all my lessons and I am trying to find a stable partner who wants more from me than just sex or for me to be their therapist! Can anyone offer can help, please!? IP: Logged |
Wild Places Knowflake Posts: 368 From: Bend, OR, USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 11:34 AM
Make sure Ami sees this - shes amazing with asteroids!IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 11:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Wild Places: Make sure Ami sees this - shes amazing with asteroids!
Hi, I don't know who that is? How do I ask her? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1351 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 01:05 PM
It's a little different because there's no PMing option here, but she's usually around these parts and might drop in if it inclines her. She's really nice about helping new members (well, ALL members.)IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 11:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: It's a little different because there's no PMing option here, but she's usually around these parts and might drop in if it inclines her. She's really nice about helping new members (well, ALL members.)
Ok, Thanks! IP: Logged |
slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 29, 2012 03:33 PM
Uranus is strong in your chart and is difficult to work around. There is hope for you, though.Here is a note: The older we get, the greater the possibility of finding people with their share of baggage. You may have your own as well. Be flexible and you may find what you seek. slowpoke IP: Logged |
slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 29, 2012 03:36 PM
Based on Synastry Astrology (Relationships) and your DOB, these birthdates may suit you well. Please note: 0913.60 = birthdate September 13, 1960. 905.78 w X
913.60 923.60 925.60 824.62 325.63 1008.63 804.64 815.65 818.65 819.65 822.65 520.70 522.70 523.70 526.70 529.70 825.70 826.70 828.70 901.70 502.72 503.72 728.72+ (For you this is rare.) 729.72 730.72 805.72 1120.72 1122.72 1123.72 1125.72 1126.72 405.74 128.75 823.77 824.77 826.77 827.77 828.77 730.79 731.79 804.79 1120.80 1123.80 1124.80 1126.80 908.81 624.83 625.83 628.83 629.83 617.84 618.84 620.84 621.84 922.84 926.84 928.84 728.85+ (For you this is rare.) 729.85 802.85 1216.85 1222.85 505.88 506.88 514.88 518.88 808.88 1119.88 1122.88 1125.88 1126.88 1030.89 1031.89 Disclaimer: Astrology is nothing more than statistics. It is a tool that suggest the potential in human dynamics. It is a method of putting into words, the possible potentials that a person may have as an individual or, on how two or more individuals may interact with each other - with the operative word being "may". The results for any given person or persons will never be one hundred percent good and whatever results are given, do not represent an absolute given. The dates given above are derived from Synastry Astrology (relationship) calculations using 5 degree orbs and pertain to the person the dates were researched for. No guarantees are given or implied, as to the accuracy of results given and or to the potential failures and or successes the chart and aspect readings suggest. No other astrological resource can produce a Synastry birthdate list in this manner. Data Sources: The American Ephemeris at "Noon" were used. The Moon moves approximately 12 degrees per day. Using a "Noon" Moon ephemeris cuts the movement in half, this allows for the best possible results with the Moon aspects when not knowing or using the exact time and place, of birthdate prospects. The primary Synastry aspect interpretations were acquired from "Do It Yourself Relationship Astrology" by Lyn Birkbeck 1999. How to Apply Your List: In the real World, your family values, mindset and, social influences tend to dictate your actions and interactions with others. It is quite possible to meet two or more people with the same birthdates that are provided above. But how these people influence you will depend on your mindset. People with these birthdates come in all colors, gender, intellect, shapes, sizes, handicaps, religious beliefs and, sexual preferences. So when trying to locate people with these dates - temper your expectations and treat each new person as a fresh new beginning. Keep in mind, that you are working from your list of possibilities, but the people you are researching do not have a list of any sort and will not be looking at you in the same light. So keep your excitement in check and carefully work towards the results you hope to have. Also, keep in mind that having this list will not insure that each person researched will be law abiding, healthy, wealthy, and or honest. This information will not protect you against Aids or STDs. If you are looking for a love relationship, then it may be quite possible to find a suitable selection from your list. But, there is much much more here than just a love potential list, the list also represents some of the finest potentials for solid friendships, study partners and working companions best suited to you. There are plenty of good people around for you to know who are not part of this list. But, astrologically speaking, you would be very wise indeed, to use this list as a reference to help identify quality people for you to know, after you have found the love of your life. Best of Luck!
Slowpoke http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html The following are good days for you in any given year: 209 = February 09, of any year.
209 - 223 + 316 - 326 + 612 - 626 812 - 827 918 - 928 1101 - 1110 1212 - 1226
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2998 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 29, 2012 04:38 PM
I have my Uranus in 7th House as well. Mine's in Virgo since I'm older. Don't be discouraged. I've been in a happy marriage for two decades. Uranus in 7th House does not necessarily mean relationship disasters. I'm male. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 29, 2012 05:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I have my Uranus in 7th House as well. Mine's in Virgo since I'm older. Don't be discouraged. I've been in a happy marriage for two decades. Uranus in 7th House does not necessarily mean relationship disasters. I'm male.
I know Uranus means that I like change and my freedom. I'm ok with that and feel I have worked through that, but I don't get why I keep getting emotionally hurt men?! It's one after the other! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2998 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 29, 2012 10:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: I know Uranus means that I like change and my freedom. I'm ok with that and feel I have worked through that, but I don't get why I keep getting emotionally hurt men?! It's one after the other!
Brenda, Would you please define "emotionally hurt" for me? Many thanks, Ian IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 29, 2012 10:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Brenda,Would you please define "emotionally hurt" for me? Many thanks, Ian
Sure. I had two serious rel. with men who I thought were past their divorces, but weren not. In both cases the wife left and through time I was able to see that they were not ready to get past their hurt feelings. That's also what I meant by me being their therapist. I did care about the men I dated and tried to help them as much ass I could. But I could see they were not going to make me number one. 2 other guys I dated before them also seemed to have self esteem issues. I refused to advanced either rel. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2998 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 30, 2012 07:27 AM
I would suggest that you look past men like these. Divorced men carry emotional baggage and there's an intrinsic tendency to make parallels and comparisons, which is rather insulting. Consider why their wives left them in the first place. I know I'm harsh, but the whole concept of a divorce is nothing but a failed relationship and an inability to resolve differences. Doesn't exactly bode well for a track record. If I were still a bachelor, I would stay away from divorced women myself. But I'm very happily married for almost two decades. At 34, you are still young and attractive. There are a ton of eligible successful bachelors out there. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 41 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 30, 2012 03:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I would suggest that you look past men like these. Divorced men carry emotional baggage and there's an intrinsic tendency to make parallels and comparisons, which is rather insulting. Consider why their wives left them in the first place. I know I'm harsh, but the whole concept of a divorce is nothing but a failed relationship and an inability to resolve differences. Doesn't exactly bode well for a track record. If I were still a bachelor, I would stay away from divorced women myself. But I'm very happily married for almost two decades. At 34, you are still young and attractive. There are a ton of eligible successful bachelors out there.
As I get older the only men that are free are divcored or too young for me!! Ha ha! IP: Logged |