posted May 29, 2012 06:40 PM            

Most recently I met a great guy, we flirted, and I felt the mutual attraction (I can always feel it, I'm a pisces!) Then comes time to go our separate ways, we text for a few days and then he stops replying. It's not like I'm stalking him or something, and I've only sent 2 texts that were unreplied to, and it's not like they were horrible and desperate. They were nice and friendly, non-committal and short. So what's the problem? I know the saying "he's just not that into you", and I get it, but is that really the problem with all of them? Every single guy I meet that acts attracted is just putting me on until he can get far enough away to ignore me? It just sucks to feel like you'll never be good enough for anyone. Can anyone do a reading or something for me and tell me what's going on? B-day is 3/9/84, 2:30P.

posted May 29, 2012 10:39 PM            

I just randomly chose Chicago for you so I could get a sneak peek at the other stuff in your chart. I'm NO expert but some things stand out even for me.

Your Venus is square Mars, exact. You also have Venus square Saturn.

If you search those aspects you will get a lot of interpretations, some harsher than others. Just put "Venus square Saturn" in the search engine.

Your moon is more or less opposing Uranus, that's another difficult one.

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People with these aspects in their natal chart are studies in contradiction. When they are able to fulfill their emotional needs for closeness, support, and intimacy, another part of their personality rebels. They feel closed in, restricted, and uncomfortable with feelings of dependency. However, when they are left alone on an emotional level, they can feel left out. They begin to crave closeness and intimacy once again. They keep people at an emotional arm's length often enough, yet struggle with their emotional independence.

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People born in the second decan of Pisces tend to be loners who are more interested in physical beauty than many people are.

You are born in the Year of the Rat, so you are probably good looking yourself. There's a chance that you are getting into superficial relationships that don't serve your much deeper nature (looks like your sun-Mercury is in the very deep 8th house. It could change depending on where you were born.)

On a positive note, you have Venus in the 7th house and that bodes well for a lasting relationship.

Not sure how much you know about astrology so I apologize if this is too basic or not understandable enough.

posted May 30, 2012 10:53 AM            

Best wishes...I dearly love Pisces people and it bothers me that they give and give but don't seem to get back enough.

Hopefully someone else here can tell you that there are good transits ahead or other astrological phenomena that will change your luck! As I said, with Venus in your 7H, you do have an advantage.

posted May 30, 2012 02:41 PM            

Thank you for your response, Faith! You certainly have a link to my brain :-) I have been researching the aspects as you put them and it makes a lot of sense, I've just never put it together before. I know for sure that I have issues with intimacy, stemming from several directions. In the last year or so I have learned more about myself than I ever knew previously. But what I don't know is how to overcome such issues. I'm going to continue to research on my road to self-discovery, but I am hoping a knowledgeable soul will be able to help me sort it.