posted June 02, 2012 12:19 AM
I'm cringing here.There seem to be two key points here. First, there is a Pluto square Pluto going on, which indicates a strong power struggle.
What caught my eye however, is that the outer person has a natal T-square between their Moon, Mars, and it manifests through their Saturn.
Mars in Aquarius can lend an unpredictable nature to their temper, and the Leo Moon can indicate self-righteousness. Join these together with intense Scorpio Saturn, and you have someone who is very stubborn, emotional, and hard to change their opinion.
This Saturn falls right into your 11H of friends. Immediate red flag. Someone else's Saturn in your 11H is usually hard to deal with. In addition to this placement, Saturn is conjuncting your NN and Venus. You're trying to work forward and establish order in your life, but Saturn is overwhelming, and acting like a huge, powerful roadblock.
The outer person's North Node falls in their 7H, which means they have to work on creating equal and respectful relationships with people.
I should probably mention you both have Scorpio Venus, as well. Being one myself, I understand the fierce intensity it lends to your feelings, so you both feel it.
On your end, your Mars is squaring a Merc-Merc conjunction. Mercury conjunct means lines of communication are open, but that only means you don't hold back with each other, and during arguments, this can get ugly. Mars squaring Mercury is an outlet for that bottled up aggression you feel inside.
I keep looking and looking, trying to find a path out, but it's hard here. Your Moon conjuncts your Chiron, which can be a positive thing. If you can master your feelings, you can gently ease the tensions you feel, but it will be an uphill battle, and painful.