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posted June 12, 2012 07:57 AM            

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I have always been interested in the astrological relationship I have with my father and his chart in general because he's had an extremely turbulent life and he was abusive toward me when I was a child mentally and physically.
One thing I have noted, which is something I have read in quotes of Barbara watters, is that he has a grand trine in water, in the water houses. This man has alcohol and drug problems and he was raised by orphans. If you can give me any insight that would be lovely, I will post the chart shortly

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posted June 12, 2012 08:07 AM            

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posted June 12, 2012 09:01 AM            

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First thing I have noticed was Moon and Jupiter in Pisces in 4th house damaged by Chiron and ruler falling in 12th house. Then, Saturn in 3rd house. He doesnt know how to communicate with people around him. He has communication deficiency. Ruler of 5th house falls in 6th house and its Mars at 29 degrees. Mars at 29 degrees shows abusive behaviour regarding children. He treats them as they are SOLDIERS.Ruler of 7th falls in 8th and its Mercury. His relationship with his wife aka your mother isnt and wasnt good at all. He practically tortured her mentally at least. Vertex and Venus are in 8th house. ruler falls in 4th. Again bad. Your father has a heavy karma and he doesnt know how to deal with. Ruler of 9th house falls in 7th and its Sun. He tends to have religious fanatics attitudes towards his relationships of any kind. His karmic lesson was to not repeat history. Was to not do to his created family (7th house) what he lived in his home life with parents. Unfortunately there is nothing that can be done become he doesnt want to see the reality. That Neptune in 12th makes him unable to see the reality and blocks him into learning his karmic lesson. Through his attitude and behaviour he refuse to burn his karma by doing good. Moon in 4th house shows this is his last reincarnation. I do hope that getting older like 60 or 70, he starts to realize things until its too late.

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posted June 13, 2012 09:02 AM            

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He was more emotionally abusive to me, than he was my mother. If anything he caused her emotional turmoil and stress. I do believe Neptune in the 12th is the main problem, even when we went through rehab with him he could not see reality and blame himself.

He was very good at manipulating our life financially to feed his drug habit. But when he was sober he was the kindest man. It was very confusing to me as a child.

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posted June 13, 2012 09:06 AM            

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He was more emotionally abusive to me, than he was my mother. If anything he caused her emotional turmoil and stress. I do believe Neptune in the 12th is the main problem, even when we went through rehab with him he could not see reality and blame himself.

He was very good at manipulating our life financially to feed his drug habit. But when he was sober he was the kindest man. It was very confusing to me as a child.

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posted June 13, 2012 09:11 AM            

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Also, is there any way you can look at my chart and see if we are somehow karmically connected? I know I have a heavy chart and I have lived through a lot, but I have always felt like the adult between my parents and myself. Like I carried the burdens. And I'm fine, actually doing really well but the past perplexes me and I feel I have more to learn from it.

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