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posted June 12, 2012 10:41 AM            

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Hi Guys,
Can you look at this synastry please?
I met this guy about 6-7 months ago. He was single at that point of time. However I was not overly interested in him due to other issues not related to him. However, somehow we developed more close relationship (not sexual) through long conversations over the phone.
He told me about his problems and problem with a current GF. What is interesting I was/never jealous about this relationship.I guess I was not so interested in him as a potential bf material,I was/am interested in him as a friend (he is very interesting person, loves to talk , very educated and most importantly I think he is a kind person)
On other hand, he was/is interested in me (even though he is currently in a relationship). He checks my statuses on FB, and always asks "How many guys I already dated from the time we met" The funny thing is I did not date anybody, I was so concetrated on my legal problems that I completely closed myself off to ANY potential connections. Even though the legal problems still persists I started to question my attitude toward dating. I am still young and good looking and i think now it is a time to explore a little bit. Of Course my baby-girl is my biggest priority in life. But I still want to explore.
Anyways, making the story short. Can you please look at our synastry chart and tell me what you see.
Even though he is with somebody I began question myself. Background: According to him his relationship is not serious he knows about it she knows about it. But I would never try to separate them. They should do (if they do) on their own accounts.
Other thing is my lack of physical attraction to him. (which is strange my mars is in close conj with his Venus) I adore him, I really do, but just not in this way. But.... there is a big but. I do not want to end up like with my previous co-called relationship. Were was TONS of physical attractions. Even disturbing, but ...... it only gave me a pain in my rear XXX.

I am inside
I also put my name Asteroid "Victoria"

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posted June 12, 2012 02:00 PM            

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posted June 12, 2012 02:08 PM            

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I see only friendship on this chart. Post the Composite chart.

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posted June 12, 2012 02:23 PM            

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Rosa thank you!!!
I will post it right away

Ha, I just noticed we are both neptunians! he has Neptune in a first house as well.

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posted June 13, 2012 03:14 AM            

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Composite does not look good in my opinion. Looks like a karmic relationship with no happy ending. I seriously dislike that Mars in 7th house and Saturn in 4th. Yes your communication style is lovely, you two love to talk but relationships require more than communication. Neptune in 1st is cunning, delusive. Ruler of 7th falls in 4th. You may feel comfortable with one another but sometimes you also feel like you are suffocating each other. You two have a family karma. you might be destined to get married or live together but your home life will not be peaceful. Saturn and Mars are bad in 4th and 7th house. Composite Sun is at 0 degrees. Karmic point but in 4th house is quite good. Another positive thing is that your Composite 12th house is empty. No suffering karma. But like I was saying your relationship seems pretty stormy and not long lasting.

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posted June 13, 2012 09:02 AM            

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Rosa, thank you
Why Mars is bad in 7th? Is not it gives some vitality?
I understand why Saturn can be bad in 4th. restrictions in a inner "home" house.
I also noticed we have saturn conj venus,whic can be a 'wet blanket" for a rel.

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