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posted June 12, 2012 12:52 PM            

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This is between me and my best friend and he just confessed feelings or romance and truthfully I don't see him that way at ALL..matter of fact ever since he's said that I feel like he just killed our friendship and I don't feel the need to talk to him..

This is our synastry and composite. Could someone please pin point out as why I'm not interested at all. This is the person I tell all my secrets to but there's just no romance feeling on my part.

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posted June 13, 2012 03:18 AM            

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Julz, I need to know if the Synastry Chart is outer or inner theme. If is outer with your chart over his, only HE is in love. Not also you. Composite shows clearly a frienship relationship and nothing else. Thats why you don't feel any connection. Because there is NONE.

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posted June 13, 2012 01:29 PM            

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Thank you Rosalind, on the synastry chart I'm on the inside and he's on the outside.

I just don't feel no romance connection at all it's as if he's asking em to like my brother because that's how I see him like a confidant a brother but nothing more.

I feel really bad for hurting his feelings and I've been avoiding him for over a week now. We have pretty close birthdays same year also I'm October 1 and he is October 17.

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posted June 13, 2012 02:12 PM            

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It's all in the house overlay. Your Sun, Venus and Mars fall in his 8th house. He is soo very very attracted to you. None of his planets fall in your 8th house, or even 5th or 7th so as you said you don't see him that way at all.

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posted June 13, 2012 03:29 PM            

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I agree, with you on the inside wheel, you can see that you are Pluto and he is Venus. That is a very strong energy, especially when you're the Venus person (which he is). His Moon falls in your 11th house which indicates feeling of friendship on your part (that's how you feel his Moon). And what Pure said about your planets falling into his 8th is also another factor.

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posted June 14, 2012 01:25 AM            

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Thank you, Pure and Sorcha. And yes he is very attracted its just I don't feel the same way and I feel like our friendship is ruined now. It's all awkward.

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posted June 14, 2012 03:32 AM            

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Maybe just give it some time. Perhaps he'll start dating someone and then you can slowly work your way past the awkwardness. Is it only you who feels weird about it or is it him as well?

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posted June 16, 2012 03:01 PM            

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try here:
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

Slowpoke's Aspects To Live For
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html

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posted June 16, 2012 04:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Sorcha:
Maybe just give it some time. Perhaps he'll start dating someone and then you can slowly work your way past the awkwardness. Is it only you who feels weird about it or is it him as well?

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He makes me feel weird about, it's like I can't tell him anything anymore because his judgement will be clouded with feelings of romance. He acts as if everything is fine but I know him he suppresses and hides it.

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posted June 16, 2012 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by slowpoke:
try here:
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

Slowpoke's Aspects To Live For
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html

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Thank you!

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