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Topic: Lost love - Why cant I stop dreaming or thinking about him after a year ??
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Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 12, 2012 06:25 PM
for some reason, I feel like I'll never be able to get over him... Sometimes it's like living with a ghost, I talk to other people from time to time and it helps a little but not much... Just curious why?I'm not completely sure of his Birth time please keep that in mind however for some reason 7:32 AM is burned in my mind... I'm almost certain that's what it is, however not 100% Me
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 975 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 13, 2012 03:23 AM
Post the COMPOSITE CHART. Otherwise I cannot help you.IP: Logged |
Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 08:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Post the COMPOSITE CHART. Otherwise I cannot help you.
Composite Synastry
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Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 08:35 AM
Here is the composite and the synastry, thank you for looking at thisComposite Synastry IP: Logged |
Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 10:39 AM
Bump... Is it letting me post now?IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 386 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 12:01 PM
Hi, I'm not very good at interpreting but can you also add the synastry aspects chart? The one that you get in pdf on astro.com?IP: Logged |
Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 01:07 PM
It wont allow me to save the pdf on photobucket so this is the best I can do http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?pdf=d&cid=6d7file80FoK9-u1334452327&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=12&btyp=61&mth=gw&sday=14&smon=6&syr=2012&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&add=18&add=19&add=2 0&add=22&add=14&ast=433%2C16 Thank you!IP: Logged |
Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 08:18 PM
Bumpity bump bump IP: Logged |
andstuff Newflake Posts: 9 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 08:39 PM
Hi Lexy, Was there some kind of a spiritual need to be around each other without any real necessity to do anything else? Did the physical aspect come naturally? Also I can see venus conj mars for the intensity. And moon sextile neptune for interaction on a spiritual level. Moon trine pluto as well, organic communication + interpenetration. I don't think there's any point in lying to yourself, this kind of thing was unique, you will probably be dissatisfied with normal "earthly" "healthy" dating and relationships because it shall not be able to cater to your emotional needs anymore. I happen to know this from personal experience, having been in a similar situation (btw, I know it for a fact my lover can't get over me either, even after more than 2 years). They say it takes a nail to drive out a nail. It is statistically possible you'll happen on someone who'll make you feel the same. Some people are more replaceable than others, but still. IP: Logged |
andstuff Newflake Posts: 9 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 08:48 PM
also, his chart looks like he's a totally screwed up casejupiter sq saturn - doubtful, anticipating failure, low self-esteem moon sq venus - unsure of how others see him, scared of not being acknowledged jupiter opp. mercury - overestimating himself, no strategy/structure in achieving his goals venus opp. saturn - delays in love, probably reservations in love and tendencies to alienate lovers by being cold to them (true?) sun conj. mars - tons of determination to name a few...... IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 386 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 15, 2012 12:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lexyr14: It wont allow me to save the pdf on photobucket so this is the best I can do [URL=http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?pdf=d&cid=6d7file80FoK9-u1334452327&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=12&btyp=61&mth=gw&sday=14&smon=6&syr=2012&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&add=18&add=19& add=2]http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?pdf=d&cid=6d7file80FoK9-u1334452327&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=12&btyp=61&mth=gw&sday=14&smon=6&syr=2012&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&add=18&add=19 &add=2[/URL] 0&add=22&add=14&ast=433%2C16 Thank you!
From the aspects that I'm familiar with, His sun conjunct your venus means he loves everything about you and you feel beautiful in his presence. I had this with a guy and someone told me that it could mean genuine love as well or it could mean the venus person simply likes the attention. lol You also have your sun sextile his venus. So it's pretty sweet hehe. Moon semisquare venus means that you guys miss what the other is trying to convey emotionally. Your expressions of love may be different and hence the neither of you feel that the other person meets your needs completely. Your harsh saturn aspects to his moon and sun: means you behave like a wet towel. You dampen his enthusiasm. Also it's hard for him to share his feelings with you as you can be really critical about them. He learns to hold back in your presence but he's a cancer, so I'm sure it's hard for him to hold back his emotions. Ok so you have a lot of saturn aspects to his planets and he has a lot of pluto aspects to your planets. I guess that means that you are one, who is patient, willing to wait as long as it takes, while he doesn't have as many saturn aspects, so that means he might be more flighty. Your saturn also means you suppress him. His plutos aspects mean he wants to be in control. I'm not sure if that's good if he's also flighty in comparison to you. Can I ask you: which one of you in your opinion is better looking/ more charming/ well dressed/ groomed? Also were you each other's "type" when you met or did it grow for both or either of you?( Random but it's something I wanted to see with your aspects.) His chiron is opposed to your saturn. Maybe that means that you might have smothered him, critiqued him too much? IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 386 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 15, 2012 12:29 AM
Oh!! And speaking from personal experience. Your overlay shows that your venus falls in his 12. That means unrequited love on your part, or that he doesn't notice your love. It means though that he his more creative in your presence. My guy and I had the same overlay and he too had mars and sun in 12th. :O IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 386 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 15, 2012 12:31 AM
Take my interpretations lightly. This is basically based on what I read during my reasearch about my own synastry etc. Again I'm not very experienced. I'm sure the senior members will give you a better idea. IP: Logged |
Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 15, 2012 01:00 AM
Wow you guys THAT WAS RIGHT ON. I felt so beautiful when I was with him, the first 1.5 years was like a freakin romance novel and then BOOOM... he started getting jealous having drinking/drug problems disrespecting me... I still think about him and I'm having the hardest time getting over him, even though he is with someone else.... also I noticed everything happened so easy when I was with him... like he was my lucky charm... We did buy a condo together (luckily it was in my name) and I was diagnosed with cancer( am fine now )... then he flew the coop shortly after I was healed yet had a ruff spot for a couple days.... so yeah it has not been the easiest to get over... IP: Logged |
Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 15, 2012 05:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: From the aspects that I'm familiar with, His sun conjunct your venus means he loves everything about you and you feel beautiful in his presence. I had this with a guy and someone told me that it could mean genuine love as well or it could mean the venus person simply likes the attention. lol You also have your sun sextile his venus. So it's pretty sweet hehe. Moon semisquare venus means that you guys miss what the other is trying to convey emotionally. Your expressions of love may be different and hence the neither of you feel that the other person meets your needs completely. Your harsh saturn aspects to his moon and sun: means you behave like a wet towel. You dampen his enthusiasm. Also it's hard for him to share his feelings with you as you can be really critical about them. He learns to hold back in your presence but he's a cancer, so I'm sure it's hard for him to hold back his emotions. Ok so you have a lot of saturn aspects to his planets and he has a lot of pluto aspects to your planets. I guess that means that you are one, who is patient, willing to wait as long as it takes, while he doesn't have as many saturn aspects, so that means he might be more flighty. Your saturn also means you suppress him. His plutos aspects mean he wants to be in control. I'm not sure if that's good if he's also flighty in comparison to you. Can I ask you: which one of you in your opinion is better looking/ more charming/ well dressed/ groomed? Also were you each other's "type" when you met or did it grow for both or either of you?( Random but it's something I wanted to see with your aspects.) His chiron is opposed to your saturn. Maybe that means that you might have smothered him, critiqued him too much?
He was my ideal everything physically,Emotionally, How he loved me ( the beginning )How he got along with my family, His Hobbies... and everyone saw how crazy he was about me... people are still surprised to this day we're not together..
I can honestly say my happiest memories in life were with him so far.. That's why its still so hard... IP: Logged |
Lexyr14 Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Tucson,AZ,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 15, 2012 06:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by andstuff: also, his chart looks like he's a totally screwed up casejupiter sq saturn - doubtful, anticipating failure, low self-esteem moon sq venus - unsure of how others see him, scared of not being acknowledged jupiter opp. mercury - overestimating himself, no strategy/structure in achieving his goals venus opp. saturn - delays in love, probably reservations in love and tendencies to alienate lovers by being cold to them (true?) sun conj. mars - tons of determination to name a few......
Thank you for making me feel better! IP: Logged |