posted July 15, 2012 08:39 PM
Honestly I wish I had more experience with this so I could give you a better idea, but here goes. About you:
- You need take time outs for yourself and delve into your own happiness from time to time.
- You can put on a good show for others when deep down you might feel differently.
- Sometimes you want to be with someone but then while in it you can't help but crave being alone or running away.
- I feel you have a very confused and clashing life. Maybe you have 2 inner selves. What I mean is on the one hand you want to be responsible and fulfill all your duties/ dharma, but inside you have this rebellious streak wanting to bubble up to the surface. I think you ae afraid of it because you know that the rebellious streak is very destructive and will never bring you happiness.
- You might be prone to affairs.
- Having a happy home in general is not something you have experienced growing up. It's something you want and crave for badly. You just can't figure out how to go about it.
- You enjoy chatter about aspects that are very airy and light hearted.
- Either you may have health issues or you are related to the healthcare field.
- Relationships are a headache for you...Like they aren't for everyone right? lol
But for you, they are a way you must learn to repay or help the other person learn and repay his debt. It's a painful process.
- Sexually you seem to be here and there. By that I mean, you might be someone that is very very sexual in mind and with the right surrounding, but you can also be very strong and self disciplined when the time calls for it. I think that it's a could way to be toward sexuality.
- You can be a very very caring and sweet person. I think that if you use this in your career, relationships, life in general, you will come out on top. Empathy and compassion are real assets and key to your happiness and fulfillment.
- When the world views you, they might see a very erratic and confused/ foggy person. You might change your appearance, career, associates quickly.
- Maybe growing up you witnessed someone have an affair or hurt someone emotionally like in an affair. You in the back of your mind want to hurt other people/ men/ women that way. It's not something you are proud of but oddly it's a revenge you seek.
- You friends might be helpful and nice to be around but you should always remain wary because that which is too sweet and too good is probably phosphoric acid, carbonated water.
About him:
- He has a way about him that charms people.
- He might be the one that stands silently in a corner but he commands attention.
- He's a very disciplined human being like yourself he knows his vices and tries hard to contain them.
- He finds the most fulfillment in building a home and family. Or just being around those he truly loves and cares for.
Initially he might not be very good at it, but it's something that his life revolves around and strives toward.
- While he wants a home and family sometimes he wants to be alone like yourself. But his alone time is far shorter. He might need a some time to commit to having a family but he will eventually.
- He is extremely sexual. lol
- To him he's in love with love and his imaginary partner. He might not find what he dreams for which will hurt him, but he'll learn to deal with it and get on with the show.
- He will marry someone very attractive--It may not be looks but may be the attractive personality.
About the both:
- You feel beautiful in his presence.
- You seem to complement him in relationship matters because he needs an intellectual and not so clingy partner.
- He maes you emotional though. I don't know if that's bad or good. I guess it depends on the emotions he evokes.
- He will give you trouble regarding your siblings. He might cause you to drift away from your siblings or friends that are like siblings to you. The reason he does this is because it makes him insecure.
- I see a conflict in that he wants to give you that home environment but you...might be too detached or not even want it, because of what you have seen, heard nad formulated in this life about family. In any case, this is a painful aspect to have since we come into a r/s generally to settle down.
-You might just enjoy him as a friend. Maybe some time down the road you will realize you were meant to be friends or that your romantic r/s functions better by acting as friends within it. It might be light enough then for the both of you to breathe and be individuals while having a foundation.
- You might fall for one of his friends...
- He might find you too detached and unemotional for his taste.
- He might be too restrictive to you regarding how you dress, behave in public. He might actually help you look better.
- But he can be possessive of you.
- He however feels like you restrict him regarding sexuality and romance. He gets turned on by you but you don't really take it into account every single time.
- Around him you are emotionally foggy.
- You seem to be falling for either your friend, his friend, a mutual friend or you start falling for him as a friend. The last option is quite a good thing for you since you aren't too sure about family and roots.
Ok soooooo again like I said. I'm really superficial and I wish I had more formal teaching and knowledge. I hope though you do have someone else look at on here so they can correct my mistakes and guide you properly.
Take care. 
Lindaland
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