posted July 18, 2012 10:58 PM            

anyway, hard to explain, his girlfriend is a really good friend of mine, and we've known each other for ages, but sometimes there's just this vibe of regret that something might have happened

so today he's been going on about how he's not sure where his relationship is going, how different she is and how it is obvious she'll never understand him

we live in different countries and all, i feel no desire or anything. just sometimes i get this feeling we are consubstantial and he fulfils me emotionally.

is this visible at all? if not, then what? PS - his birthtime is unknown to me, so I just put 12pm

posted July 19, 2012 12:25 PM            

Moon trine moon in synastry- this is one of the best aspects in my opinion, in relationsips and friendhsips. You two totally get each other's emotions, feelings. You dont really need to explain yourself!

Venus trine jupiter- guys guys get along really well, you canhave fun together, there is a real 'feel good factor' to this friendship. You two are genuinly happy with each others company!

Venus trine mars- You sure there is no attraction!? Seems like there can be since Venus and mars are harmonious with eachother!

Mercury Trine Saturn-you guys can talk to eachother, one learns a lot from the other. So learns a lot from you, values your advice.?

you know i was just looking at the synastry, and forgot what your question was! It seems likes its very natural for you two to be friends, all this easy flowing energy must feel good. there are some oppositons too, whichcan cause attraction. How do you really feel about him!!??

posted July 19, 2012 12:32 PM            

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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
ok I dont have time but some things I can point out..

Moon trine moon in synastry- this is one of the best aspects in my opinion, in relationsips and friendhsips. You two totally get each other's emotions, feelings. You dont really need to explain yourself!

Venus trine jupiter- guys guys get along really well, you canhave fun together, there is a real 'feel good factor' to this friendship. You two are genuinly happy with each others company!

Venus trine mars- You sure there is no attraction!? Seems like there can be since Venus and mars are harmonious with eachother!

Mercury Trine Saturn-you guys can talk to eachother, one learns a lot from the other. So learns a lot from you, values your advice.?

you know i was just looking at the synastry, and forgot what your question was! It seems likes its very natural for you two to be friends, all this easy flowing energy must feel good. there are some oppositons too, whichcan cause attraction. How do you really feel about him!!??

Sorry I wish I can do more but I gotta rush for dinner, but I try analysing some more when I get the chance.

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cheers for looking!! and i do hope you enjoy your dinner

what caught my eye also is this grand trine between sun, plutos and venus/mars. in water signs. might it be relevant?

how i feel? this is why i'm asking, i feel really stirred by this last stuff that happened.

posted July 20, 2012 10:52 AM            

So you mentioned water grand trine, thats amazing, an easy flow of emotons when you two get together. That must feel great, thats why its so easy to talk and communicate because when the two of you get together, the triangle forms, and makes a nice flow of emotions. Thats very important in any relationship, to be able to understand eachother without having to really explain yourself! so im guessing thats what you two have. This is where probably both your emotional needs are being satisfied!

Its nice to start of a friendship with this feeling, and if more develops, it can only get better because you have this foundation to build on!

Now composite, since you dont have birth time ill only look at aspects and not houses. You have sun opposite mercury, and conjunct venus. Runroundscreaming suggests that when this occurs in the composite it shows a beautiful relationship. the opposition work similar to a conjunction here. So there is really nice happy feeling of the relationship when you two are together, like soulmate kind, like you known eachother for ages, no awkward moments!

You do have venus square neptune in the composite, (7 degrees though). Just make sure you guys see the reality of the relationship/friendship and not with rose tinted glasses, as this aspect can make you see what you want to see, rather than what really is.

Moon in cancer in composite, you two are emotionally at home, and could get very attched to eachother!

Synastry Neptune opposite sun- ok so you have a dreamy way of seeing him, and I think he likes that, but just be aware of deception here. You will get to know him much better over time and the way you see him will change.

His sun trine your pluto- He will have the ability to transform you, he inspires you, and your friendship can tranform (maybe more than once) through the experiences you two will have with eachother)

posted July 22, 2012 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
Hi!
I'm glad some stuff resonates!

So you mentioned water grand trine, thats amazing, an easy flow of emotons when you two get together. That must feel great, thats why its so easy to talk and communicate because when the two of you get together, the triangle forms, and makes a nice flow of emotions. Thats very important in any relationship, to be able to understand eachother without having to really explain yourself! so im guessing thats what you two have. This is where probably both your emotional needs are being satisfied!

Its nice to start of a friendship with this feeling, and if more develops, it can only get better because you have this foundation to build on!

Now composite, since you dont have birth time ill only look at aspects and not houses. You have sun opposite mercury, and conjunct venus. Runroundscreaming suggests that when this occurs in the composite it shows a beautiful relationship. the opposition work similar to a conjunction here. So there is really nice happy feeling of the relationship when you two are together, like soulmate kind, like you known eachother for ages, no awkward moments!

You do have venus square neptune in the composite, (7 degrees though). Just make sure you guys see the reality of the relationship/friendship and not with rose tinted glasses, as this aspect can make you see what you want to see, rather than what really is.

Moon in cancer in composite, you two are emotionally at home, and could get very attched to eachother!

Synastry Neptune opposite sun- ok so you have a dreamy way of seeing him, and I think he likes that, but just be aware of deception here. You will get to know him much better over time and the way you see him will change.

His sun trine your pluto- He will have the ability to transform you, he inspires you, and your friendship can tranform (maybe more than once) through the experiences you two will have with eachother)

What do you think?

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Hi sc0rpioRising, thanks for checking back!!

Thanks for pointing those things out!! It does all hit home more or less, I just know how difficult it is to enter my "first circle", and well to drop out of it, but he's kinda stayed.

The trouble is I suppose that I am simply scared of a mess that might result from carrying on with my friend's boyfriend. Or even by having feelings for someone I feel no desire for. It's never too late to get laid, but it might be late to recover this beautiful stuff that was before. Says Venus in Aquarius

We do inspire each other a lot. We both know what stuff the other will dig. And last time we met it was hilarious when he said "i posted this on facebook 2 months ago, don't you remember? you 'liked' it!". So it is pretty plutonian.