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Topic: Not attracted to soulmate?
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ethereal Newflake Posts: 9 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 18, 2012 11:03 PM
I've been best friends with this guy for years, he has feelings for me but I'm just not attracted to him. I even sort of resent him because I feel like our friendship stunts my growth, we're too similar.. any ideas on why? I can't decide whether to continue the friendship or not.We have all harmonious aspects, except my mars squares his venus.. lol. Sun Sextile Venus 1.32 118 Sun Sextile Neptune 0.00 96 Sun Conjunction Pluto 3.60 87 Mercury Sextile Saturn 1.16 65 Mercury Conjunction Pluto 4.12 71 Venus Sextile Venus 0.48 96 Venus Sextile Neptune 0.44 60 Venus Conjunction Pluto 3.16 77 Mars Square Venus 0.22 -167 Saturn Conjunction Saturn 1.25 98 Uranus Trine Mercury 2.57 55 Uranus Conjunction Uranus 1.04 89 Neptune Trine Mercury 2.40 53 Neptune Trine Venus 1.04 64 Neptune Conjunction Neptune 0.28 85 Pluto Sextile Saturn 1.13 39 Pluto Conjunction Pluto 1.42 66
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slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 281 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted July 19, 2012 11:06 AM
Try here too. http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f http://www.astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/ IP: Logged |
Anchi Knowflake Posts: 374 From: Planet Vulcan Registered: May 2012
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posted July 19, 2012 01:29 PM
slowpoke synastry/composite is not my expertise, but your stellium(Sun/Venus/Mercury/Pluto) conjuncts his AC, goes into his 1st house. he is very attracted to you indeed/really feels understood by you. his stellium though (Sun/Venus/Mercuy/Moon) falls into your 3rd house & planets are not conjunct an angle/planet. you see him more than anything just as a friend. the composite Saturn falls in 5th and squares the Sun/Venus/Mercury. One of you would definitely feel oppressed. That's a heavy load. Maybe he doesn't feel it as much cause he has lots of earth in his chart + 3planets in 10th house of Saturn, you have lots of water in your chart + no 10th planets? Also all the nice aspects are perhaps to 'easy' for a Scorpio like you. I've got planets in 8th house(Scorpio) and I prefer a couple of hard aspects. Specially Pluto stuff needs to be there. I mean he does have his Pluto conjunct your stellium but you two were born pretty close by, so that one probably isn't enough. lol You have no major Pluto aspects in the composite either and the composite Virgo AC probably suits him more than you too. yeah. =)
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ethereal Newflake Posts: 9 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 19, 2012 07:50 PM
yeah he has a very heavy Virgo chart, I tend to make good but complicated friendships with them. it's weird because I also think he's attractive, but I'm still not attracted. I don't know why it's hard for me to draw boundaries with him.. we just feel so comfortable understanding each other.thanks for the help guys! IP: Logged |