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Topic: Can I please have a reading?
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Libreo Knowflake Posts: 998 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 24, 2012 09:59 PM
I am driving myself crazy with my imagination and with my Pisces asc I know I can suffer from delusion from time to time. I also have Mercury in Scorpio so I am naturally suspicious. In the past I have been very wrong about my suspicions so I am looking for outside help. Is my live in boyfriend cheating on me? Or has he?IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire Knowflake Posts: 312 From: The Crossing Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 24, 2012 10:13 PM
Im a novice at reading here, so hopefully this is helpful I pulled out the 8 of swords, king of wands, and the star. My feeling is that no he isnt cheating on you, but for some reason communication btwn you has been distant as he has been really distracted w pursuits that dont include you, which has left you feeling cut off from him & insecure/fearful of where the relationship is heading. For some reason, also get the feeling you have been cutting yourself off from things/people outside the relationship & havent felt like yourself lately. Your love appears to be a very warm & energetic person and may be feeling alienated from you, like he isnt sure if the changes you are both going through are resulting from something he did/ said, or external circumstances. With the star as outcome, long as you both take time to clarify things, it seems you will gain what you most wish for. IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 998 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 24, 2012 10:18 PM
Thankyou very much, I am so relieved. And yes I have cut myself off from my outside world, and have also been distant from him, I really can't explain why. I just feel so insecure. Again, thankyou.IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire Knowflake Posts: 312 From: The Crossing Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 25, 2012 12:36 AM
Glad it helped Maybe you feel insecurity because youve distanced yourself? Have you tried reaching out to him, say taking a walk together & talking, or grabbing a cup of coffee or tea? He might be very relieved if you suggest something that brings you closer together, as maybe he is feeling insecure as well. IP: Logged |
whereabouts Knowflake Posts: 82 From: USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 25, 2012 12:02 PM
Lebreo, the 8 of Swords is telling you why you feel so insecure - self inflicted bondage that is a psychological/neurological paradox. You feel helpless and that leads you being helpless which makes you feel helpless, etc., hence the paradox.Give yourself time to rejuvenate your senses and recharge your batteries after your protracted struggle with yourself. Do things for you. Get a pedicure and a manicure. Lay out in the sun or swim in a pool or at the beach. Make yourself pretty in all ways inside and out so you feel to be the princess that you are. Get a massage. We project what we feel about ourselves onto others and they in turn treat us accordingly. Project outward what you want to feel inward. And most importantly, lighten up, Francis. IP: Logged |