posted July 26, 2012 09:58 PM            

My question is suuuper original lol (sarcasm) but it's about the guy I'm interested in. I'm sure I've become too invested in this person as is obvious by how many posts I've written about him, but this is sort of a turning point and I can't help but wish I had some answers. For anyone who doesn't know the story lol I'm moving away for a year and he's getting back together with his ex. I know they have a heavy connection (not necessarily positive but heavy), and even though he hasn't cut ties with me I know he's comitted to her. And I am comitted to focussing on the things I need to in my own life while I'm away lol, even though I am having a hard time with the transition right now. So if there's anything about distance or another woman that's to be expected, I guess my question is more long term... I'm wondering if this is where we will part ways for good or if we will cross paths again once we've faced our own individual situations...

posted July 26, 2012 10:07 PM            

I like your words. You've posted on my thread once or twice before

You sound like you have accepted the situation and are really mature about it. Iam so impressed. You have learned a lot. I I may... Why is he a part of your life if you know he is committed to her? why does he have a place in your heart? Iam sorry if this is too intrusive but I am so taken aback by how calm your energy comes across despite how your situation is perceived by mysel as a tough push pull. I will do a reading for you. I will post soon

posted July 26, 2012 10:22 PM            

Question:
When firemoon moves away will this be the end for her and the guy she is currently interested in?

King of cups.

For the most part. Yes.

Sun rx
Strength rx

Ahhh. This won't be as easy as you think. still a lot of loose ends to tie up. Dissapointment, regret. Loss of faith and dark and gloomy clouds. He actually meant something to you. Wow. He was an important significant person for you. This loss kinda hits you hard. It made you question a lot of things and in yourself as well.

As for the future with these cards... Don't let this experience be an obstacle. Don't let this cloud your judgement or give up on guys or love.

Rest assured that this is not an easy path for him either. He feels defeated as well. Although he is in a "power position" as being the king of cups... He is clouded and conflicted as well.

What will moving way bring firemoon.

Queen of cups

Lol oh the irony. Lol... He might come to regret his path but you will be long gone with brand new emotions.

Ace of Wands.

A brand new passion/love affair is a very probable possibility. It will come out of the blue and totally unexpected. But it will be a welcomed and happy opportunity.

posted July 26, 2012 10:32 PM            

I was once in a similar situation, it's hard since you can't help who you love. One thing to keep in mind is if he is getting back with his ex, then there's obviously unresolved issues he has about his feelings for her or their relationship. Maybe he's confused. Either way you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with only you. Either way, my personal opinion is to let him go, in the sense that you need to continue to live your life. Maybe not let go of the idea that you will never be together, but let him go for now. In other wards, don't shut the door to him, but don't close other doors because of him either. Enjoy your year away. Let yourself grow. With that being said, the cards I pulled for you seen to indicate that yes, you'll reunite after some healing has been done. Here's what I pulled:
Situation: Chantal: reignited passion in your existing relationship
Block: Adriana: I am leading you to the answer of your prayers. This card is also telling me that him getting back together with his ex might actually be a blessing in disguise.
Guidance: indriel: this card usually means yes or puts extra emphasis on the next card which is the outcome: Archangek Uriel: your emotions are healing which enables you to open to greater love. I will help you release anger & unforgivable as from your heart & mind.

posted July 26, 2012 11:41 PM            

We met over 4 years ago when we were both in high school, and I think we both expected a typical superficial dating interaction with each other but we connected on a much deeper level. He was there for me when I was going through a pretty dark time in my life, and even though we had no obligations towards each other he always supported me and saw me for my full potential despite my flaws when I was pretty much at my worst, which I’ve never forgotten. Anyway we have been close since (as friends, and sometimes more lol) but circumstances have never allowed for it to be an official committed relationship. We’ve both dated other people on and off and we’ve respected that and backed off when another person has been involved. It’s just that up until now it’s sort of been a carefree situation, we’re both young, we have this special attraction, no one can compete with it… Except we are both getting older and moving on with our lives and now reality is hitting me really hard that he really is serious about this girl, and I am moving across the country… I really do have feelings for him and don’t want to lose him, but I need to face that it may not ever be anything long term…

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Firemoon,

Question:
When firemoon moves away will this be the end for her and the guy she is currently interested in?

King of cups.

For the most part. Yes.

Sun rx
Strength rx

Ahhh. This won't be as easy as you think. still a lot of loose ends to tie up. Dissapointment, regret. Loss of faith and dark and gloomy clouds. He actually meant something to you. Wow. He was an important significant person for you. This loss kinda hits you hard. It made you question a lot of things and in yourself as well.

As for the future with these cards... Don't let this experience be an obstacle. Don't let this cloud your judgement or give up on guys or love.

Rest assured that this is not an easy path for him either. He feels defeated as well. Although he is in a "power position" as being the king of cups... He is clouded and conflicted as well.

What will moving way bring firemoon.

Queen of cups

Lol oh the irony. Lol... He might come to regret his path but you will be long gone with brand new emotions.

Ace of Wands.

A brand new passion/love affair is a very probable possibility. It will come out of the blue and totally unexpected. But it will be a welcomed and happy opportunity.

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Thank you so much for your reading!

Wow this is exactly how I’ve been feeling about the situation. He really did/does mean a lot to me, and I don’t think either of us were mature enough to see it for what it was, but part of me strongly regrets not figuring it out sooner and just taking the risk to say “you should be with me”.

And yes, I’m seeing things in a much different light for whatever reason

Also I know he is conflicted, which just adds to my regret, because I feel like we were both playing it by ear, waiting for the other person to make a move, and then I tell him I’m moving… But yes he still is in the power position because this has been an ongoing break up-make up situation with this girl for quite some time. I’m sure they have important lessons to learn from each other, but I don’t think they’re right for each other long term, and I think he knows that, but that doesn't mean he wont' try to make things work since I know he cares about her...

On the other hand, I have no doubts that moving away is the best thing for me. I feel I am sinking here into negative habits and thought patterns, and I know this will be a fresh start that I need. I know he feels he is getting “trapped” as well, and I really wish I could take him with me lol but once I break free of this I don’t foresee myself coming back to this place or situation (permanently at least). Which is why this is such a serious turning point…

But anyway thanks again I appreciate it!!

posted July 26, 2012 11:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Hi Firemoon,

I was once in a similar situation, it's hard since you can't help who you love. One thing to keep in mind is if he is getting back with his ex, then there's obviously unresolved issues he has about his feelings for her or their relationship. Maybe he's confused. Either way you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with only you. Either way, my personal opinion is to let him go, in the sense that you need to continue to live your life. Maybe not let go of the idea that you will never be together, but let him go for now. In other wards, don't shut the door to him, but don't close other doors because of him either. Enjoy your year away. Let yourself grow. With that being said, the cards I pulled for you seen to indicate that yes, you'll reunite after some healing has been done. Here's what I pulled:
Situation: Chantal: reignited passion in your existing relationship
Block: Adriana: I am leading you to the answer of your prayers. This card is also telling me that him getting back together with his ex might actually be a blessing in disguise.
Guidance: indriel: this card usually means yes or puts extra emphasis on the next card which is the outcome: Archangek Uriel: your emotions are healing which enables you to open to greater love. I will help you release anger & unforgivable as from your heart & mind.

Whether you reunite or not, enjoy your year away!

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Spirtualjourney, thank you for your response Your words are so very true lol, I need to let myself heal and grow, and he needs to make sense of whatever unresolved feelings he has in that relationship.

Thank you also for your reading! After your
and Junethird’s responses I am even more intrigued and interested with tarot readings!! I’d love to think we could just reunite once neither of us have any baggage or obligations, but I guess I shouldn’t get my hopes up lol And for right now it probably is a blessing in disguise. And…I really like the last card you drew, because I feel that the past two years have been a slow process of holding on to and processing past wounds and anger, but I am finally at a point where I am ready to let go of those things, and see what could be in store for me without holding myself back with these past issues as I’ve been doing…

Thanks again!

posted July 27, 2012 12:08 AM            

Thank you for your wonderful words. My mars in Libra can't help but be diplomatic. I must adopt this same outlook of yours. I am in a better place emotionally. But need to be more detached. It's hard for my little cancer moon. I hope this move brings you the clarity and freshness your soul needs. Have an open heart and let life take you wherever it may. And welcome to personal readings. It's quite the party in this forum.