posted July 27, 2012 10:45 AM            

OK... SO I REMEMBER ceri's horary for me... she said there would be a longgg pause between me nd my ex after which smthng wud be revealed to me..it has been 8 months.. n i think the time has come...

he has made it very clear to me that he dsnt need to be with me anymore... his father however, played a double game trying to reconcile n at the same time , bitching about me (AH , PARDON MY SELECTION OF WORDS)....all in all , i really dnt know why its taking so long wn i hv myself accepted his decision of divorce... nd frankly , even wn i lv him so much much much , dnt think wud be easy to live with him now even aftr sm out of the blue event joins us...

still , his father n uncle wants to meet me (o my !!!)... am nt ready for it...mentally , i mean... i feel all those wounds will open up again n the hard work i put into healing till now , wud go wasted...damnit ! i still lv that cheater....

CAN SM1 PLZ READ IF WE R GONNA HAVE ANY FUTURE EVEN NOW? WHY R THE COSMOS MAKING IT TAKE SO LONG ? WTS MY FUTURE WITH HIM ?

2. WTS GONNA HAPPEN WITH THE MEETING WE SET UP WITH HIS FATHER , THIS SUNDAY ? ANY POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE OUTCOMES? ANY CHEATINGS N BLUFFS FROM THEIR SIDE ? WT IS THIS WHOLE DRAMA ABOUT MEETING ME , ABOUT ?

posted July 27, 2012 04:23 PM            

i felt drawn to your post so decided to do a quick reading to answer question no. 2 for you .
here is the reading :

-what will happen at the meeting ?

king of wands , 8 of pents , 8 of swords

if we take this king as his father i think he might have set up the meeting to find out the facts (may be regarding you two?) . whatever the case this meeting is going to bring you a great disappointment at first .it is time to be practical and get down to work .you will feel that you don't have the power to change the situation .

- why has this meeting set up
hermit

may be his father wants you to learn something about this relationship that you are not paying attention to or know anything of yet ?! that's why he has set up this meeting .

-will he create a difficult situation for her ?
10 of cups , 2 of wands
i don't feel he has bad intentions behind it. he has some kind of plan for you to consider . he has the best of intentions for setting up this meeting with you as wants everyone to be happy .

-what will be the outcome of the meeting
the emperor , the lovers , king of pentacles

i feel he is the authority figure here and i feel you will be given a choice to make as the outcome of this meeting and it will bring you more stability and control in whatever situation you will be/are dealing with in this case.

-will it be positive or negative ?
10 of cups , 6 of swords

-well i see a sure movement towards great future leaving all your sorrows behind

i would suggest go for it with an open mind . the road might look rocky at first but it will bring you positive/happy outcome in the end.

i hope it helps you finding at least some clarity in what you are heading for

and please do provide us with the feedback when the meeting is over . i am a learner and would love to know how it turned out for you.

posted July 28, 2012 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by start6030:
Awww thnk u britania i nevr met u here b4, so first of all, thxxxxx n a big Hello

Abt the reading: that seems exactly very true.. Though m lil wondering abt his authority .. No doubt , he shoulddd b the Authority figure bt his son hardly listens to him ... Moreovr , he himself plAyed a couple of games wid us before, so lets see how he deals wid this meeting tomorrowंंं... Hmmm, hwever, i feel lil too sensitive to discus it or rpl to their queries n face them all , tomorrow bt yes u r rt , i need to b open n strong... Thnk u so soso much i wil giv u the feedback tomorrow

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posted August 01, 2012 05:31 AM            

well, its august , n i must hope for the best in the new month!

ok, so yes , they came (his dad n some friends).... they tried putting all the blame on me first (u mentioned that!)

then after a while , i showed them some proofs , whereby he was found guilty....
so, tables were turned instantly!....everyone started pointing towards him....

some thigns became clear , like , either he was hiding the facts from his dad as well , or , his dad n he both r hiding facts from us...

so , two days time was given to them, which had been a painful waiting period for me....whereafter , their cheater nature got clear...

n now am filing for a divorce and talking to my lawyer in the evening... who wanna see if i should file for a mutual consent or a fraud case

...well , i clearly dnt understand why he dsnt reply at all !!!not even to discus any proceeding or anything...

can u plz , if u get time , see to it , that why isnt he communicating (with anyoneeee) ...nd will he ever communicate ? will we meet soon ? (hmm he need to travel from overseas to sign divorce...n m worried he might not come or delay it...though i dnt understd , WHY )

THANK U ...
b/w > about the future.... i have been putting on hold an exam application since all these months...couldnt make up my mind....i finally decided to go for it...and would be filling the application....so i guess that resonates with the better future n clearer thoughts