posted July 27, 2012 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I peeked at my solar return for this upcoming year and I have Uranus in my 7th. I also peeked at my boyfriends and his Uranus will be in his seventh too.
We re both Leos so I kind of jumped the gun a little early.
Any input on what this means?

I had Pluto in my 7th from 2011 - 2012 which seems fitting seeing as how I think what I look for with love has transformed over the last year.

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posted July 27, 2012 03:53 PM            

We must make a distinction here between two different relationship processes, and three different levels at which you may choose to work. The two different processes are love and hate, and the three different levels of interaction include non-intimate partnerships, intimate relationships, and soul-level attractions. (All three will be defined and explained.) It makes a difference whether you choose to learn through lessons of love or hate. Certainly the information gleaned will be different; however, the compulsion to see remains the same. Those who choose to see through love excel despite despair, while those who choose to hate will despair despite their ability to excel. The issue of power is innate to this placement and cannot be taken lightly. One must acquire and maintain personal and relationship power through new insight and understanding. Power may be acquired through love as easily as through hate; the choice is yours, but generally those who seek to love gain power over self, while those who hate (control) seek to gain power over others.

Non-intimate relationships consist of everyday acquaintances and business partnerships. At this level, almost anyone can trigger the need to face the issue of power as it flows through relationships. Conflicts are either specific or diffuse; one person in particular may become the trigger to powerlessness, or a power deficit may exist in all relationships in general. For example, you may be locked into a business partnership in which each individual is trying to meet certain goals and needs. This type of struggle relates to a specific area of your life, and the intensity is mostly restricted to that area, though insight and tension may affect interactions with other people.

Generalized power struggles are caused by an inability to actualize personal power in any relationship. In this case we are not dealing with one particular situation, but with a diffuse problem which encompasses all interactions. The inability to be assertive is the most common manifestation of this nature. Both types of struggles, whether specific or generalized, cause external confrontations which force the individual to look at the unconscious need to maintain power while interacting. This need can be met through an increased understanding of the mechanisms which govern the power flow.

Psychological issues are crucial with this Pluto placement. It is at the Non-intimate level that one first begins to understand how psychological motivations and fears affect the way one communicates and relates. Blatant manipulation can be the primary form of expression, in which case much of the struggle will be nonverbal in nature. You may be the instigator or you may be the victim; it makes no difference since each position correlates with psychological complexes you must understand and conquer. There is never the one-sided attack; all struggles represent a mutual process whereby the aggressor either knowingly or unconsciously triggers reactions in another. In the most negative manifestation, power struggles are difficult hate battles that last most of the year. Legal confrontations are possible. Enemies can arise and some attacks seem unwarranted. But those who master the psychological influences create new patterns of relating which represent power delicately balanced. Old partnerships, regenerated, become cooperative. Even those with generalized assertiveness problems can learn to express personal needs to others.

Intimate personal or family relationships lead the individual to make further distinctions in the understanding of psychological influences as they affect relating. External conflicts may be very apparent (similar to the Non-intimate level), but it is only in intimate relationships that daily exchanges can produce the subtle insights necessary for understanding psychological complexes at a deeper level. It is within this context that old psychological problems such as obsessions, compulsions, addictions, jealousies and control issues tend to surface full-blown and begin to play a much larger role. Personality traits and idiosyncrasies also affect the ability to relate in a meaningful manner. During the year, your relationship with another, usually a lover or spouse, will go through a period of transition. Both of you must look at the mechanisms by which you relate. The desire to control another is usually a central theme with manipulation and game-playing inherent in the process. You need to be aware of these ploys since they are impediments to greater intimacy and freedom. Complex power dynamics involving love and hate eliminate the possibility of freedom for one or both partners. Each must do as the other bids in order to suppress the unconscious fears motivating the need to control.

It is only through insight and an understanding of the underlying fears that one is able to dismantle the psychological complexes and begin to handle relationships clearly. The year can bring greater intimacy to those who are willing to work together to strengthen their commitment to one another while at the same time dismantling the control mechanism. Because of the placement in your solar return, you must make the transition, but it is up to others to decide whether or not to also make the necessary changes. If you are in need of a deeper, more intimate relationship than your loved one is capable of at this time, you may seek counseling, sever your present commitment, or seek other avenues for intimate exchanges. There are no easy solutions to the complex problems of relating.

If you are not already in a relationship, this can be a milestone year for you, one in which you are strongly attracted to someone new or someone you have been previously only acquainted with. Lost loves may return. Intimacy needs are increased at this time and you now need in-depth encounters. Intensity will be the norm and you do not care to waste time on superficial interactions. Even nonromantic relationships can have an overpowering effect on you. Your psyche is vulnerable to the insight of others. Even those you meet only briefly can have a tremendous effect on your life.

Soul-level manifestations involve new relationships which are karmic attractions that force the individual to seriously question all past and present relationships. The triggering mechanism is a desire for a new level of intimacy. The person you are drawn to may not be representative of someone you would choose for yourself on the conscious level. The implication here is that the unconscious chooses and there is no room for cliched romances. Only something very different will create the intensity necessary for the overwhelming growth pattern associated with this placement.

The issues that are dealt with this year involve a serious challenge to your ability to handle intimacy in a new way. The questions one should ask when faced with a relationship of this intensity are, "To what depths am I willing to go in order to acquire the insight necessary to understand my relationships as they exist now? Am I willing to face myself truthfully as one-half of and contributor to a complex interaction that affects both my capacity for soul growth and also the ability of others to excel? Am I willing to pay the price of vulnerability and honesty to acquire the highest level of intimacy to which I may aspire?" Intimacy at this level and intensity demands that one dismantle all defenses, and stop all ploys for power. True power comes from shredding the persona to reveal the true self. By doing so, one gains power over self and encourages all others to let go of useless power ploys also. It is at this point that meaningful relating on a karmic level can begin."
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posted July 28, 2012 04:41 AM            

i got married in april n had a breakup in december, after deception ....

this year's solar return shows pluto in my 7th ...lets see

posted July 28, 2012 10:17 AM            

like in
@ start6030 's case. her sr 7th house saturn opposing natal uranus is an indicator for a break-up, since in particular uranus seems to be associated with divorce/break-ups. as well as saturn.

posted July 28, 2012 10:40 AM            

I kept meeting very aggressive and bossy men. There were just too many little dictators in my life. Because this is also the house of open enemies, my adversaries were the same, but they were mostly men. The worst of it was someone went whining to his boss about me and I was treated like a Victorian wild woman/child. It was unnecessary when all I was trying to do was get the creep to do his job in advising me. I gave up. He was hell bent on not helping me and I had to do things on my own. There's a lot more to it, but I'm trying to not make this my running diary. Lol.

Depending on what aspects it makes, you both may meet people who are totally unreliable, but fascinating. Don't give too much thought into thinking that they'll be around for long though. Because you both have it, there's a chance that you will meet someone who can be exciting or an enemy to you both. Just off the top of my head. Also, if this is a long-term relationship you may need space from each other. Doesn't mean breaking up, but you'll give each other freedom.

posted July 28, 2012 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Anchi:

like in
@ start6030 's case. her sr 7th house saturn opposing natal uranus is an indicator for a break-up, since in particular uranus seems to be associated with divorce/break-ups. as well as saturn.

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yup , i think my ex husband's last year's SR showing both sun nd uranus in 7th pointed towards his marriage nd breakup with me..as well as his mercury was an indicator..pardon me if am wrong , m just novice..

as for me , i hav a great opposition of natal uranus in 1st nd natal venus in 7th... again a big indication , they say ! nd last year's SR showed the abovesaid opposition between 7th house SR saturn nd 1 house SR uranus... hmm , so also , my SR uranus ws conjunct my Natal Uranus..

posted July 28, 2012 01:21 PM            

@ Spritualjourney the SR is tricky to properly interpret indeed. i'd think Neptune in sr 7th would bring either a spiritual connection or delusion and unclarity ; Uranus exciting, unique relationship, or an on/off one or a break-up ; Saturn delays, obstacles or commitment. it gets confusing lol but i've seen Saturn in sr 7th as an indicator of marriage quite a few times, including in my mothers. so it really depends on each chart differently. it's usually easier to see after the sr and find patterns for what happend and how the aspects & planets-house positions related. lol