posted August 03, 2012 09:57 AM            

We spent a lot of time together. He did a lot of little things to make me happy that surprised me. But I feel like now we're at a draw: both very pleased with each other but, neither of us are bold enough to take the plunge and do something *seriously* romantic. We haven't known each other for very long but the chemistry is just that good, for it to be sudden but irresistible! He's a Virgo type and cautious, polite and I can be introverted so, the issue isn't chemistry, it's just knowing how to go forward. Here were the main points:

A. Will he accept my affections towards him? Will he mind if I kissed him on the cheek very sweetly but, couldn't myself to lip lock yet? :')

B. Does he really consider me someone he'd date and not just a friend? WIll the mixed signals end soon?

C. How should I act to improve the situation or make things actually get off the ground?

Thanks to everyone who contributes anything. If anyone can't, that's OK to but I figured I'd ask since I'm so giddy about it! I'm really excellent with astro but I'm still a tarot beginner.

posted August 03, 2012 10:29 AM            

I'm a novice here, so please take my reading with a pinch of salt.

I asked pertaining to C, on how to advance the relationship.

I got 3 cards, no positional meanings, just all for advice.
King of Wands, Knight of Pentacles, Knight of Cups.

Clarification card: Strength.

I'd say, be confident and be patient (control urges), he will act in favor of your relationship.

Edit: Something to add here, the 3 cards read:
Have no doubt (King/Wands) that though slow as things progress (Knight/Pents), just be your charming self (Knight/Cups), tame the urges (Strength) and things will get to the next level.

But may I also ask, do you guys have any common friends? Or do you get along well with his friends? It could be that with so many court cards, perhaps 3rd parties can help (give him hints, encourage him to take it to the next level..)

Pardon me if my reading is off.
Good luck to you

posted August 03, 2012 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I was wondering, if anyone was not too busy today, if they could help me with a quick romance tarot reading. I needed some guidance to discover a few things based off of yesterday's/last night's events.

We spent a lot of time together. He did a lot of little things to make me happy that surprised me. But I feel like now we're at a draw: both very pleased with each other but, neither of us are bold enough to take the plunge and do something *seriously* romantic. We haven't known each other for very long but the chemistry is just that good, for it to be sudden but irresistible! He's a Virgo type and cautious, polite and I can be introverted so, the issue isn't chemistry, it's just knowing how to go forward. Here were the main points:

A. Will he accept my affections towards him? Will he mind if I kissed him on the cheek very sweetly but, couldn't myself to lip lock yet? :')

B. Does he really consider me someone he'd date and not just a friend? WIll the mixed signals end soon?

C. How should I act to improve the situation or make things actually get off the ground?

Thanks to everyone who contributes anything. If anyone can't, that's OK to but I figured I'd ask since I'm so giddy about it! I'm really excellent with astro but I'm still a tarot beginner.

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Hello,

I will try tonight to help you with your questions. I'm a newbie too but you never know

posted August 03, 2012 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by friture:
Hi hi

I'm a novice here, so please take my reading with a pinch of salt.

I asked pertaining to C, on how to advance the relationship.

I got 3 cards, no positional meanings, just all for advice.
King of Wands, Knight of Pentacles, Knight of Cups.

Clarification card: Strength.

I'd say, be confident and be patient (control urges), he will act in favor of your relationship.

Edit: Something to add here, the 3 cards read:
Have no doubt (King/Wands) that though slow as things progress (Knight/Pents), just be your charming self (Knight/Cups), tame the urges (Strength) and things will get to the next level.

But may I also ask, do you guys have any common friends? Or do you get along well with his friends? It could be that with so many court cards, perhaps 3rd parties can help (give him hints, encourage him to take it to the next level..)

Pardon me if my reading is off.
Good luck to you

Cheers,
Friture

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Wow, this is really lovely! I can see so much truth in your words. Thanks for answering one of the questions.

In truth, we have so much chemistry as I said. And it was really hard for me NOT to lip lock on the first outing, lol. So I settled on something more vanilla due to my impulsivity. I knew I'd have to do something, but I tried to make it less shocking. And I can see there how the Strength card plays into the entire thing. I definitely think this is a good sign, since it probably shows also we're not just going to be 'friends with benefits' and I don't want that at all. Also, I can see how the Knight of Cups plays in - I think it's trying to tell me, to just be my real self, poetic and compassionate and a little modest, and he'll appreciate that.

posted August 03, 2012 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
Hello,

I will try tonight to help you with your questions. I'm a newbie too but you never know

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posted August 03, 2012 12:35 PM            

Again, I wish you all the best

Cheers,
Friture

posted August 03, 2012 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by friture:
Glad you liked it. I can understand how hard it is to tame urges and act against desires but I'm just reading what the cards are trying to tell me LOL. And thank you for the feedback, it really helps me learn. I've never gotten all male court cards in a 3 cards settings so I was a bit befuddled, but doing some research some advised many court cards can mean other people being involved, so it's great to know about the friends situation.

Again, I wish you all the best

Cheers,
Friture

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You're welcome!

I hope everything will work out. As I said, I feel like both of us like each other but, for some reason, something is keeping it from moving along. I feel I could maybe ask one of his friends about it in the near future but, not too soon.

I was just curious, what do you think of this card I got for my own reading on this?

I asked first, what is keeping things slow. And got the Hanged Man and also, the 5 of Cups. What is interesting is that his ex was a Cancer and, the 5 of Cups is related to the Water signs. I feel like it could mean, maybe something really bad had happened with her that's leading to him fearing a similar bad outcome with us, not being able to take a chance on someone else yet, and sometimes stuck in the past about what happened between them instead of looking ahead.

I asked next, what we need to do to get over this. And got the Tower. I actually wasn't scared but, more relieved. Since to me this means, we have to both surrender to what is going to happen to us. This doubly convinces me something bad DID happen to him in the past that could have made him hesitant to fall back in love or date. And that those bad experiences should be purged to make way for the new. To me it means that something stagnant is lying in his heart that needs to be demolished for things to keep going. And in mine as well - likely my anxiety and my control issues.

I asked third, what am I doing wrong? And got the Knight of Wands. So basically, the opposite of Knight of Pents which it's clear, I should be modeling my actions on. I guess the Knight of Wands as the 'wrong' card for me, reminds me to avoid being too saucy...? Lol.

I asked fourth, what is he doing wrong? And got the Queen of Cups. Does this mean that he is emotionally numb? Looking at the worst traits of this card that's what came to mind. I also feel like it could mean he's messing with my emotions or something... like taking advantage of my empathy?

Finally I asked, what needs to be done to correct our wrongs? And got Temperance! I feel like this one is more hopeful, and means we need to see things with balance and understand the different sides of each other. I also think it could mean, we should try to stick it out.

posted August 03, 2012 03:33 PM            

What I get from all these (vibes), is that you are very keen to advance the relationship, which is understandable. We all will pursue our wants and desires, and yours is to take things to another level, to make it official.

What is keeping things slow: Hanged Man & 5 Cups - As you've said.

What we need to do to get over this: Tower - Could this be something sudden? Like falling in love? I know you guys have chemistry and are in a stage where both likes each other, but you need that moment where 'lighting' strikes and 'breaks the wall', sudden rush of emotion that will make both of you *realize* and *break through pretense*. What will inspire this moment I have no idea :P I trust you know more than I do :P

What am I doing wrong? the Knight of Wands - LOL what you've said.

What is he doing wrong? the Queen of Cups - I don't know him, plus you mentioned his ex. If you haven't mentioned her, I'd say he's not listening to his heart, he's in denial of something, or . But as I know (I could be wrong) QoC is a Water sign card? Could this mean his Cancerian ex? D: D:

What needs to be done to correct our wrongs? Temperance - What you've said, plus moderation. This is also another patience card. For me personally this is a slow card. Perhaps... take it slow?
Temperance as advice for a budding romance (how I interpret): slow down, get to know each other, mingle, until both parties get it right. Once I had a similar experience to yours, only knew the guy for a while but it was so intense, more so than anything I've ever experienced, and this card keeps coming up (but I ignored it LOL).

Okay last thing on my mind about this whole read, I feel that it really is asking you to slow down and wait for the right moment. But of course you have free will, a reading is always only a reading and we don't need to abide by it. Maybe someone else will give you another interpretation?

posted August 03, 2012 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by friture:
Thanks for giving me the chance to practise hehe.

What I get from all these (vibes), is that you are very keen to advance the relationship, which is understandable. We all will pursue our wants and desires, and yours is to take things to another level, to make it official.

What is keeping things slow: Hanged Man & 5 Cups - As you've said.

What we need to do to get over this: Tower - Could this be something sudden? Like falling in love? I know you guys have chemistry and are in a stage where both likes each other, but you need that moment where 'lighting' strikes and 'breaks the wall', sudden rush of emotion that will make both of you *realize* and *break through pretense*. What will inspire this moment I have no idea :P I trust you know more than I do :P

What am I doing wrong? the Knight of Wands - LOL what you've said.

What is he doing wrong? the Queen of Cups - I don't know him, plus you mentioned his ex. If you haven't mentioned her, I'd say he's not listening to his heart, he's in denial of something, or . But as I know (I could be wrong) QoC is a Water sign card? Could this mean his Cancerian ex? D: D:

What needs to be done to correct our wrongs? Temperance - What you've said, plus moderation. This is also another patience card. For me personally this is a slow card. Perhaps... take it slow?
Temperance as advice for a budding romance (how I interpret): slow down, get to know each other, mingle, until both parties get it right. Once I had a similar experience to yours, only knew the guy for a while but it was so intense, more so than anything I've ever experienced, and this card keeps coming up (but I ignored it LOL).

Okay last thing on my mind about this whole read, I feel that it really is asking you to slow down and wait for the right moment. But of course you have free will, a reading is always only a reading and we don't need to abide by it. Maybe someone else will give you another interpretation?

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You're welcome sweetie! Thanks for reviewing my insights too.

Your view on the Tower card could definitely be closer to the truth. I was thinking something a little similar and this brought a lot of clarity to me. Maybe something will happen to suddenly get us from here to 'there', like out of the stagnation period. Hopefully.

Stupid Knight of Wands... trying to get me to lip lock right away... ugh! :P I'm glad I only ended up kissing him on the cheek, not the lips as I planned. Also, he was going to take me to his place again with a friend tonight - ughhhh I hate being in groups! He just doesn't get this for some reason since he's so group oriented. He really wanted me to go, but I thought back to this reading for loose guidance and figured, PATIENCE X 10 IS A VIRTUE. So I politely, and kindly declined. I don't want to be seen as just a friend anyway, plus I don't want to seem cheap since, I don't think I'll be able to control myself if he drives me home at night again from doing some serious kissing. 8'D Haha. And although it's natural for me to want this from our good chemistry I have a feeling in my gut I need to wait until HE responds further to me and starts pursuing me a little to actually kiss intensely. Our exchange made me think, Why is patience a bad thing anyway? Why not try to sort out the other stuff first and avoid going down the Devil card route - and scary enough I've gotten this as our negative outcome, which makes me think for some reason he'd think I was just trying to be too slutty or sexy around him for physical reasons only not emotional, if I jump into it right away.

The QofC... yikes. It very well could be his Cancer ex. Because he said that it was his longest relationship he's ever had but it was a high school thing, I believe. Still, it makes me think that combined with other cards I've gotten for us, like 5 of Cups, he might be still too focused on what she did or what she acted like, or maybe just the whole relationship itself and I guess how it ended to be as emotionally free with me. But it's confusing since, he'll sometimes flirt a LOT with me... and that's like a green light to me. But then he won't make any other move. So frustrating. I'm guessing his heart is still a little tied to the break up? :'/ But I'm not going to even bring that up with him, ever. I just can't.