posted August 05, 2012 10:00 AM            

Card 1: Your current feelings for him: The Knight of Wands. You appreciate how Tyler has a fiery, passionate sexuality. You might not mind that his intense feelings can sometimes, come and go. His zealous romantic attitude is what draws you in. Wands are Fire, and you feel like with Tyler life is warm and possibly very exciting.

Card 2: His current feelings for you: Page of Pents. Are you a little younger than Tyler? I can see this being a slight possibility. He appreciates that despite being younger, you are Earthy, stable and practical while remaining sweet and lovely. You are the Earth that grounds his Fire.

Card 3: The immediate state of your relationship before any action is taken: 2 of Cups. An excellent card for passion and romance, in my opinion. Shows a young man and woman joined together by the cups they hold in a pleasant, subtly sensual ceremony. The state of your relationship right now is all about communication, emotional and sexual exchanges that make you two feel connected and happy. This is also a companionship card but that does not work for you two since we're focusing on sensuality/romance.

Card 4: The sexual and emotional nature of your relationship: 4 of Wands. This is basically the answer to your question! 4 of Wands coming up shows that two people who seem to be wed are standing beneath four decorated Wands. There are so many good things about this for you two. I see a higher chance of Tyler wanting to be grounded and stable but, just as passionate with you, but more consistent in his fiery feelings... since the 4 Wands are planted firmly in the Earth in the card, and you were an Earth card. Also, 4 of Wands generally shows in romance the high possibility of, you guessed it, commitment! In this position for you two, the sexual and emotional aspects of your lives could indeed, possibly lead to commitment. The challenge could be, making this possibility a reality, since a Wands person, impulsive and not always stable, can be hard to ground despite their good hearted nature.

Card 5: What is improving chances of commitment: The Star. Having faith, the simplest of things, and trusting in your instincts and a hopeful future could help your chances of committing with Tyler through your relationship now. Sometimes not even concrete advice from a tarot reader can show you the way... and that's what the card seems to be saying. I can give you an outline on what to do, but your own gut holds the answer. You have to look deep within to see if this commitment is what you really need and if it is possible. Trust your instincts. The good thing is, this seems to say you're more positive than negative about it.

Card 6: What is decreases chances of commitment: The Chariot. This card warns that, you should remain grounded and not be too aggressive in your perusal of commitment with Tyler. He likes the fact that you have an Earthy, sensual nature... you go for what you want but, it seems like you aren't the type to impulsively and heedlessly charge in. You can use your drive in constructive ways, but don't bully or manipulate or nag about the possibilities of commitment, since this will only decrease your excellent chemistry.

Card 7: Will sexuality help their commitment? (judgement card/final word of advice): Knight of Swords. Although I've shown that your sexual relationship has a high chance of leading to commitment, this card reminds you to remain assertive and independent even in a more serious relationship. Also, according to research, this card can indicate someone who can easily become a bit too assertive and forceful, and it can show that a man you care about can be too controlling, especially of the way you think. Committed relationships don't have to mean sacrificing your own individuality and lifestyle choices, and the things you like to do alone.

posted August 05, 2012 04:39 PM            

So, it is interesting that Tyler came up as Knight of Wands..a feiry person..he does hold those qualities, and he also has a TON of Leo in his chart!

Yes, I am a little younger than him (2 years younger) and I do take on those qualities of earth..and I am an earth sign (Capricorn). Crazy!

I know that he does like the fact that I keep some distance and I'm not too pushy. I have never mentioned commitment to him because I don't want it right NOW, and the situation doesn't really allow for that, but now I know to really keep myself in check if I ever feel like bugging him about it.

posted August 05, 2012 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Wow, thank you so much. You have given me a GREAT, in-depth reading!

So, it is interesting that Tyler came up as Knight of Wands..a feiry person..he does hold those qualities, and he also has a TON of Leo in his chart!

Yes, I am a little younger than him (2 years younger) and I do take on those qualities of earth..and I am an earth sign (Capricorn). Crazy!

I know that he does like the fact that I keep some distance and I'm not too pushy. I have never mentioned commitment to him because I don't want it right NOW, and the situation doesn't really allow for that, but now I know to really keep myself in check if I ever feel like bugging him about it.

This was a very spot-on reading. I am most interested in how he views me and our involvement..since, of course, I already know what I think What you and your cards said sounds very likely to be true.

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