posted August 10, 2012 11:30 AM            

I kind of realized I really need my space after I've spent time with a loved one.
For example, when I have a deep conversation with someone I like, I avoid talking to them the next day or else I get a feeling of being not able to breathe -.- i feel pressure inside. It's like I can't give too much of myself in a short amount of time

Isn't this weird for someone with the moon, venus and mars in in cancer (which i have)??

I looked at my chart and I thought maybe it's because of my venus opposite uranus orrrr my moon/venus/mars being in the 9th house, but i'm not sure.

What do you guys think?

Here's my chart:

posted August 10, 2012 11:56 AM            

The Venus opposite Uranus I would think is a big one. You have trouble feeling independent while in a relationship. You see-saw between wanting to be in one, then wanting your own space like you said .

As far as the 9th house stuff, I don't think that applies to what you are saying as much. That just means that you want a very adventurous, explorative, philosophical, outgoing partner/relationship.

posted August 10, 2012 12:30 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by TheManticore:

The Venus opposite Uranus I would think is a big one. You have trouble feeling independent while in a relationship. You see-saw between wanting to be in one, then wanting your own space like you said .

---

Exactly! thank you for your input themanticore

posted August 10, 2012 12:38 PM            

Saturn is debt/obligation/karma and Aquarius is a sign of wild/erratic/unique/weird

In your chart saturn is also tightly conjunct your IC and tighly opposite jupiter and your MC. There's also a square to mercury. Remember that the natural 4th house is cancer so it's clear you have a shell on when you talk about philosophy/religions and spiritual and educational issues as your moon is cancerian/leo

That suggests that your debt/obligation is in a aquarian way to your home/family etc so you retreat there when your moon is feeling threatened.

Your jupiter tightly conjuncts your MC in leo strongly suggests a life of fame/recognition or life in the public eye.

I'd almost go as far to say as an actor/actress of sorts (I'm still working on understanding how to detemine a person's career from their chart)

however the square from jupiter to mercury and saturn to mercury shows challenges in talking about partnerships/marriage/enemies/divorce etc.
as well as home issues and career/fame/public eye issues.