posted August 19, 2012 10:31 PM            

I am trying to understand a little more about a friends personality traits. Can someone please give me a chart reading.

posted August 20, 2012 03:13 AM            

seems like he has a very strong personality but it is somewhat repressed....very magnetic also and possibly very good looking

might have a tendency to have romantic delusions...like in putting some qualities in his loved ones that dont really exist....when he gets disappointed i guess he just runs off to the next person

does he have problems in home....maybe his parents restric him or are harsh and he fights against then bacuse of it

needs that the partner will give a feeling of closeness and stability...while keeping things changing and interesting might keep the flame

maybe he had some trauma that concers sexuality or intimacy....and may have to face it in the future

strong emotional tension with intensity are problems he may want to take notice of

for now....tell me what you think

posted August 20, 2012 08:23 AM            

You are correct, a majority of that is very much correct. When I am around him, I did sense a strong personality and it did seem repressed. I was attracted to that strong personality, that is what drew me to him. Now I feel like the communication is lost. We talk here and there and like you said he just goes inside. Especially when I reach out to him, after he initiates his confidence. Then there seems like a communication block. We have actually known each other for 10 years now.

posted August 20, 2012 08:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Primarose220:
Hi Doomlord,

You are correct, a majority of that is very much correct. When I am around him, I did sense a strong personality and it did seem repressed. I was attracted to that strong personality, that is what drew me to him. Now I feel like the communication is lost. We talk here and there and like you said he just goes inside. Especially when I reach out to him, after he initiates his confidence. Then there seems like a communication block. We have actually known each other for 10 years now.

I think now he is going through a transformation so he might not want to be bother much it's hard to tell with him. He use to pick me apart, like read me. Is that normal for a scorpio to do.

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ah scorpios are natural readers of human behaviour XD

just know that communication is important to him...atleast imo...and keeping the communication with him will probably mean much to him

and being closed inside himself during a transformation is not uncommon among people with scorpio/8th house influence......i was the same too when moving through one

take some time and try to reach into him....but beware...i belive that he is a bit fragile inside....

posted August 20, 2012 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Primarose220:
Yeah, that's the hard part and I always knew he went through a traumatic experience but I didn't know what. The reason why I went into transformation is because Saturn is about to go into Scorpio. He was born at the second decant of Scorpio which is ruled at Pisces.

Are you a Scorpio doomslord?

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im a libra sun with scorpio venus

mars and pluto conjunct in scorpio

posted August 20, 2012 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Primarose220:
Can you see anything in the chart in relationship with mother or father. He did have rough relationship with his dad. As he has retricted him alot. His more was more open at least that what he told me.

During our graduation we went through similar situations, in our households and that is another thing that made me closer to him. There is another posting of our charts in a forum I posted called: Loss Communication with a Scorpio. Could you look at the charts individually or would you need a composite chart?

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he has mars right on the IC in cap....usually the IC talk about the mother but many times its about the father actually....since more and more woman take the dominant part in the family

his father might have been restrictive and harsh towards him and so he wanted to fight against his father and gain some sort of freedom...or respect from him...

the mother imo was his little source of stability in all this...but probably didnt stop the treatment he got from his father

my composite skills still need work so il check your individual charts first ^^

posted August 20, 2012 04:23 PM            

you are probably deeply sensitive and can feel others hurt farly easily

personally....i belive that you are very important to him and i think that with time he will open up....i think that he feels like he is not "ready" yet

i think you have some restraint in your personality as well....but not as hard as his...

your sensitivity and your ability to feel deep intimacy probably makes you one hell of a lover XD but outside that box you are also able to understand your close ones deeply and help them with any pain they have

feeling that you might work on something religious or with a religious overtones....or handeling people weaknesses

is partnership important for you?

posted August 20, 2012 09:36 PM            

You are correct, I did have problems at home. My father was a major issue when I was little, he wasn't there on top of the fact that my twin sister had just passed. We were identical. I also had some issues with my mom, she seems to always have tried to restrain me out of fear and critized me alot. As I am a free spirit, and I do find that having a relationship is important with the right person. You don't have to go through life suffocating through a unfit marriage that is not equally yoked. In replace of my biological father. My grandfather stepped and and was a huge part of my life when I was smaller uphill i was 10. When he passed I felt very depressed. My grandmother has been a huge part of my life up until I was 25 (24 and a month.)

Personally as I learn more about my family history I am learning more about myself as when I was a kid I was very shy and picked on mostly by girls or females. I tend to gravitate towards strong male and I have a very high and blessed gift. I am very selective about my friends as they tend to come and go, I can count close friends on one hand. There tends to be alot of jealousy towards me, because I am different. My grandparents knew that about me so they were my comfort zone. When both passed I felt so alone. I could be myself around them and be accepted. I am very close with 2 of my uncles.

Very True:

your sensitivity and your ability to feel deep intimacy probably makes you one hell of a lover XD but outside that box you are also able to understand your close ones deeply and help them with any pain they have

No one knows that I am an empath and I am not the only one, my grandmother was one too and I think my grandfather, one of my uncles are. He is one of the younger ones, the youngest uncle I don't know so much. He can read me well. I am the strong one that my mom and sister lean on.

posted August 20, 2012 10:42 PM            

Sun-Saturn conjunction is very tough... this shows a spirit that is quite serious and sometimes taciturn in nature and easily weighted down by the difficulties and depressions of life. Also shows possible difficulties with authority figures and the father figure. The conjunction sits in the 1st house, showing a nature that can be both a bit too somber but also, influential of other people. Sun in the 1st and/or on the ASC is a powerful placement. Definitely a Notice me now! placement. They are noticed when they come into a room. But Saturn can make it a little more weighty... they are also probably seen as a more serious type, and I'm guessing not always very open to speak about intimate details. Still, these factors all make them an influential person sometimes on an almost unpredictability subconscious level... they don't have to say much especially, to seem influential or powerful in their own right.

There's a below the horizon emphasis which shows that most likely, the native focuses more on intimate personal and home matters in this life versus world matters and things far from home, like traveling, fame, making connections world-wide, etc.

Mars sits almost on the IC, showing a volatile home life characterized by Martian traits, like fighting, arguing, upheaval, etc. A Martian person probably dominated the home. The Cap in their Mars will stabilize somewhat but could make the action nature cooler, more rigid.

Venus is widely conjunct Neptune which can be quite a difficult aspect to have. It makes the love life confusing, elusive, almost like a 7 of Cups feel to reference tarot... building castles in the air sometimes to deceive others or deceive the self. A lot of illusions, confusions and dissatisfaction in love. The conjunction is pretty wide though, 7 degrees, so it won't be strongly felt as one 2 degrees for example.

ASC in Libra can increase the attractiveness of one's appearance automatically. Venus, the chart ruler, falls in Sagittarius which could increase the chances of them having a more fiery look, also the wide Neptune conjunction increases the chance of them having a dreamy, slightly Piscean appearance... wide eyes and/or blue-green eyes. Venus trines the Moon too which is a good aspect to have, showing generosity of the heart, and as the chart ruler this connection can make one seem like they are emotionally available and intuitive, an easy person to reveal things to at a first glance... in actuality this aspect probably takes some of the Saturn-Pluto edge off of their 1st house traits, but just a little. Still, good to have. They are also generous in love, big hearted deep down since they have Moon in the 7th, showing the heart is very much tied to Libran matters of balance and partnership. They could be a romantic deep down, at heart.

posted August 21, 2012 04:41 PM            

The sun and saturn conjunctions are true. If one is an emapth could they pick up on one's depressiveness? I always felt that he was influenced by others in a negative way. When I was around him, he seemed normal strong, protective and open and fun to be around. I notice when he was around others he seemed somber, anal, negative, kind of snobbish, and very distant when I would try to communicate with him. It seems he tends to attract very negative friends, which influences his attitude towards his other friends and how he treats them. He tends to get the short end of the stick it seems.

He did have a volatile home life and he is pronoun to deceive others almost use them whenever he needs a person. He has only black dark hair.

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Pluto in the 1st is intense magnetism, Plutonian features. You can be seen as dominating, magnetizing, controlling, and repelling all at once. 8th house types will be drawn to these 1st house Pluto people; others who shy away from 8th house matters could easily feel manipulated or frightened by these people. Famous examples of 1H Plutonians include Kurt Cobain, who we all know is a powerful rock symbol even post-mortem.

Sun-Saturn conjunction is very tough... this shows a spirit that is quite serious and sometimes taciturn in nature and easily weighted down by the difficulties and depressions of life. Also shows possible difficulties with authority figures and the father figure. The conjunction sits in the 1st house, showing a nature that can be both a bit too somber but also, influential of other people. Sun in the 1st and/or on the ASC is a powerful placement. Definitely a Notice me now! placement. They are noticed when they come into a room. But Saturn can make it a little more weighty... they are also probably seen as a more serious type, and I'm guessing not always very open to speak about intimate details. Still, these factors all make them an influential person sometimes on an almost unpredictability subconscious level... they don't have to say much especially, to seem influential or powerful in their own right.

There's a below the horizon emphasis which shows that most likely, the native focuses more on intimate personal and home matters in this life versus world matters and things far from home, like traveling, fame, making connections world-wide, etc.

Mars sits almost on the IC, showing a volatile home life characterized by Martian traits, like fighting, arguing, upheaval, etc. A Martian person probably dominated the home. The Cap in their Mars will stabilize somewhat but could make the action nature cooler, more rigid.

Venus is widely conjunct Neptune which can be quite a difficult aspect to have. It makes the love life confusing, elusive, almost like a 7 of Cups feel to reference tarot... building castles in the air sometimes to deceive others or deceive the self. A lot of illusions, confusions and dissatisfaction in love. The conjunction is pretty wide though, 7 degrees, so it won't be strongly felt as one 2 degrees for example.

ASC in Libra can increase the attractiveness of one's appearance automatically. Venus, the chart ruler, falls in Sagittarius which could increase the chances of them having a more fiery look, also the wide Neptune conjunction increases the chance of them having a dreamy, slightly Piscean appearance... wide eyes and/or blue-green eyes. Venus trines the Moon too which is a good aspect to have, showing generosity of the heart, and as the chart ruler this connection can make one seem like they are emotionally available and intuitive, an easy person to reveal things to at a first glance... in actuality this aspect probably takes some of the Saturn-Pluto edge off of their 1st house traits, but just a little. Still, good to have. They are also generous in love, big hearted deep down since they have Moon in the 7th, showing the heart is very much tied to Libran matters of balance and partnership. They could be a romantic deep down, at heart.

Uranus and Mercury in H2 show one who can make a profit in unusual and Mercurial ways. This could include writing in a unique and original way. But this can also mean, someone who has unique opinions and ideals about who they are and what is important to them in life, since 2nd house also represents our core and natural values... the unique things we carry about ourselves. I'm guessing they value unique and Uranian things also? And writing, literature?

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