posted August 24, 2012 12:49 PM
I'm not an expert, but I'd love to take look at it. Tell me where I have interpreted incorrectly and where things simple seem way off base. 
About you:
- You are firey, active, alert.
- You will start off lanky/ skinny to becoming full figured and curvy.
- Someone that would first look at you would be mesmerized. You would get noticed a lot. There is somethign about that makes people want to stop and take a nice look. lol It maybe because you are beautiful or that you are odd/quirky looking but in a fascinating way. Both ways you are pleasing to the senses.
- You have a lot of family/ material support. This is also something you want to procure for your future.
- Oh! You are a family girl. This is very canceresque of you. You want a warm stable home. I would say that you are out of your depth if you would never achieve a family in this lifetime. Life would not be very important if you were without creating your own family. You'll have many children. You'd actually love being pregnant and would look even prettier then.
- You need and want a stable partner, who also shares your vision. You need someone with a good mix of boring stability and with exciting dreaminess. You want someone that shares your ideals.
- You have many enemies but FORTUNATELY you can sniff out who they are. You should keep your words in check as they land you into trouble often. You could if you would be focused on pursuing it be a lawyer. You'd do really well in the corporate/ business sector, most probably as a lawyer/ legal aide for the firm.
- You need someone that will in a way baby you, cuddle with you, want to spend every second with you. (That's what I need too. :P)
- You are very charming and graceful. I don't know if you happened to come across my other post about faking curves or not, but you are onee that has real feminine curves. There is nothing masculine about your physique. The only thing masculine is your straight forward desire to get things done.
- You are a checklist/ to do girl.
- You will really do well in any career you choose and will learn immensely from ANY experience.
- You pick your friends wisely and may not have a huge facebook following. (I never quite understood the point of having nonfriends on your friends list anyway.)
- Your spirituality takes sharp turns through out your life. I think the biggest transformers are the legal proceedings you are involved in and your career. You should always have some anchor especial for you. Without which you'd be a fish out of the water. So though new ideas and ideals are tempting have somethign to hold onto while you attempt to discover something new. The last thing you want is to venture into something you do not need and lose yourself in it.
- I think your chart from my perspective is wonderful. It would be a chart I wouldn't mind having.
About him:
- He's a tall guy, on the thinner side.
- He's charming. easy to look at hehe.
- Family life is what causes him the greatest pain. He might want it, but might not be as expressive causing people to think he's not really interested.
- He is um..someone that likes to be well liked. He needs adoration from people. It may not need to come from a significant other. He might be shrewd and use his contacts to climb the totem pole. He will get his way fast and through shrewd methods. It looks unsavory for romantic, monogamous relationships though.
- He's a very sexual person. He might like domination. He enjoys curves.
- I think if he when he does get married, it will transform him. The transformation being good or bad no one will know. It will be something that he might feel resticted with.
- He's a bit of a braggart.
- He forms tons of contacts and makes tons of superficial friends. This is his downfall though.
- He's not very centered spiritually.
- In the end I think that his life will unravel because he might be a user. I know that sounds terrible, but he uses people to get ahead and can never be satisfied with one. If he does stray it will be with a friend. And looking at his overall chart I would paint the scenario as him straying with maybe a coworker or a friend. He would use that to either get ahead or simply because he's lustful. In the end he'll ruin his relationship with his family. This will be difficult for him as he is confused as to whether he wants his family or not. He's not sure. I don't think he ever will be.
About the two of you:
- You two are attracted to each other's looks. I think you are more attracted to him.
- There is sexual tension.
- You provide him with security. You also might be his stepping stone to a better life. I know that sounds bad.
- Somehow you help his family relations with his own family.
- You are someone he feels a sense of familiarity with.
- He will cause you pain as he won't satisfy your need for a family.
- You stimulate his need for romance. Now that may be good if he's stimulated to be with you romantically. Otherwise you plain stimulate him to be romantic. It may not necessarily be with you. Also you give him trouble in romance. You tend to hold him to something and that gets him to get annoyed or hurt. He might look for other people for support. This is something I would be cautious of. He might just lean on the wrong person.
- You remind him a lot of his problems and his faults. This is not bad, but maybe something he dislikes? Depends on the person. I would personally love to be told of a potential crack in the ground by someone I love. Someone else might find that annoying.
- Seems like he does want to be with you. He feels it's important to be with you and he also tries to get you out to mingle with people.
- You bring love and charm into his life. You actually make him look good.
- He makes you very aroused.
- You might not feel it now but he stifles you. I think if you get married you will feel it more. to you he somehow is restricting your growth. Maybe after marriage you might become a housewife or dissuaded from pursuing a career by him and that will cause resentment.
- He will however with his restictions cause you to want to pursue your career even more so. He might waver between denying you to supporting you.
- He gets along with your friends. He also gets along with you or talks to you like a friend. The fact that he gets along with your friends would have me remain cautious about exposing him to them. lol
- You may dislike his going out with his friends and try to have him cut it down to a more normal amount, but he will resent you for that. He on hte other hand will push and prode you to go out more.
- You cause him to be erratic and he causes you to be emotional. I mean you already are but he pushes you into your emotional core even more.
Advice:
- You need to enjoy things beyond family life. It should not be the only thing you concentrate on.
- You need to make your own set of friends and keep them away from him.
- Basically it's better to go out with your man and see what he's upto than to be at home wondering. I would go out with him often.
- Don't let him use you. So first you need to make sure he loves or likes you for the right reasons. He might end up really hurting you. He would walk away from the relationship not as emotional burned as you, so be very caustious while entering into a relationship with him.
- He will never fulfill your perfect and most ideal scneario of having a family or being stable together. that is somethign you either learn to accept or learn to totally not accept. As an unbiased person having lookd at what makes you tick, I would say it's quite unacceptable.
- You however are confused and emotional about him and don't like to think that. I wouldn't either in your position. We all want out relationships to work out perfectly; don't we?
- You need to be very unbiased intitally then slowly let your guard down.
- Don't give him so much that you can't repair yourself if things go dow nthe drain.
- Also his ways are very subtle and will take tiem for you to see them. It's quite difficult to believe 100% in astology and assume some random stranger is telling you how it going to happen in the future.
- Now that I think about it, I don't want to tell you to break abything off. Hell no.
But this is what iwould do in your situation:
1. Be cautious, slow, practical.
2. Find out why he likes you and see if it's the right reasons. Don't flat out ask him that's never the best way to get the answer. Do it subtly. Pose questions to him as if about another couple. etc
3. Have your own circle of friends and keep them away from him.
4. Go out with him as often as he wants to keep tabs abd to get to know his friends and possibly of his mentality and background.
5. Do not expect that he will give you 100% what you want regarding love, emotional stability or family.
6. Never compromise your independence for any man. Continue to pursue a career and education, EVEN if all you ever want is a family. Remember you need to take care of yourself before you can ever take care of a family. It's basically about security that you have independence.
7. Don't try to tolerate everything the world throws at you. Even this relationship, if it gets intolerable, LEAVE. You can't pamper and shelter and fix everyone. You have to take care of yourself first. Do not put anyone before yourself.
8. You seem like a really sweet person, so never think anything other than that. 
Good luck!
Also, he's damn lucky--I mean insanely lucky-- to have you.
Lindaland
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posted August 23, 2012 06:09 AM
