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Topic: Decided to make a new thread: Please help with Synastry and Composite!
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asclibrasagsun
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posted August 24, 2012 07:28 PM
  
Hello,I have really been in love with this man for over a year - Obviously, I want to marry him and have a baby and all of that fun stuff!
Also it is no wonder that I have a lot of sweet and romantic feelings for him (hello - my venus conjunct his sun I JUST ADORE HIM AND CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT THAT) then of course my venus conjunct his moon - mmm dreamy. Anyways, I am also super sexually attracted to him - he just seems like the ideal partner for me. This I don't understand why quite honestly! Now for the heavy part, my saturn is conjunct his venus (a dampening influence perhaps?) but the thing is - I am not somber or heavy on him, in fact - I am very sweet and romantic around him, also very affectionate - giving him sweet affectionate little caresses and hugs. (gag me, I think I'm nuts over here lol sorry for the sweetness) HOWEVER, saturn conjunct venus - doesn't that make a relationship long lasting???? Can't that have a stabilizing influence? Also, I read online that this aspect can sometimes play out like this: if saturn is the lady in the relationship then pretty boy venus is finally ready to settle down and be loyal to her? Yes/no??! Major ISSUE: He is not single, married in fact. Our relationship is strange though, I am not going to bore any of you here but I just feel like we are getting closer and closer, deeper and deeper.
Here is the synastry:
Me Aspect Him Orb/Value
Sun Square Pluto 1.22 -112 Mercury Conjunction Mars 1.37 168 Mercury Trine Uranus 3.32 49 Venus Conjunction Sun 1.13 281 Venus Conjunction Moon 1.29 227 Jupiter Trine Jupiter 3.45 42 Saturn Conjunction Venus 2.35 108 Uranus Conjunction Mars 0.10 121 Uranus Square Jupiter 1.25 -87 Uranus Trine Uranus 1.45 47 Neptune Conjunction Mercury 0.08 132 Neptune Trine Uranus 3.11 34 Neptune Trine Pluto 0.59 44 Pluto Sextile Venus 1.37 41 Pluto Square Saturn 0.07 -92 Pluto Conjunction Neptune 2.05 67
1361 -291 1070 Here is the composite:
LOOKS A LITTLE LESS PROMISING?!??! NOOOOOO Me's Sun in Him's 9 house
Him's Sun in Me's 3 house
Me's Moon in Him's 6 house
Him's Moon in Me's 3 house
Me's Mercury in Him's 10 house
Him's Mercury in Me's 3 house
Me's Venus in Him's 10 house
Him's Venus in Me's 4 house
Me's Mars in Him's 3 house and
Him's Mars in Me's 3 house
Me's Jupiter in Him's 6 house and
Him's Jupiter in Me's 6 house
Me's Saturn in Him's 11 house
Him's Saturn in Me's 4 house
Me's Uranus in Him's 10 house
Him's Uranus in Me's 11 house
Me's Neptune in Him's 11 house
Him's Neptune in Me's 2 house
Me's Pluto in Him's 8 house
Him's Pluto in Me's 11 house Me's Moon trine Him's Moon orb 4° 20'
Me's Mercury square Him's Jupiter orb 3° 13'
Me's Mercury trine Him's Uranus orb 3° 32'
Me's Venus conjunct Him's Moon orb 3° 15'
Me's Jupiter trine Him's Jupiter orb 3° 44'
Me's Jupiter square Him's Neptune orb 3° 14'
Me's Neptune conjunct Him's Mars orb 4° 47'
Me's Neptune square Him's Jupiter orb 3° 29'
Me's Neptune trine Him's Uranus orb 3° 10'
Me's Pluto sextile Him's Venus orb 2° 7'
Me's Mercury sextile Him's Ascendant orb 2° 28' SO tell me, will he and I ever have a sexual or romantic relationship? (it is already emotional and very personal, just trying to see if it will move towards romance or sex!)
Once again, I love him deeply and care about him a lot. I am ready and willing to commit to him for the rest of my life. (as cuckoo as that may sound  ) Thank you!
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ariesdragon
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posted August 24, 2012 07:42 PM
That Venus conjunct Saturn can be a glue so I have 1 question... What is his relation like with his wife? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted August 24, 2012 07:44 PM
OH that is a great question you ask! Why don't I just ask him? LOL just kidding. I have no clue! He seems unhappy - but I don't want to say that he is because I don't know for sure.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted August 24, 2012 07:50 PM
Oh u don't know? That's unfortunate cos if u knew for sure then u can decide how much u want to invest in it. My friend's mom had an affair with a married man for 13yrs. He promised, begged, pleaded that he'd leave his wife but he never did. She stayed 13yrs tho. As they reached the age of 47 they stopped seeing each other, they were getting old. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted August 24, 2012 08:00 PM
He's still with his wife & she's alone & he had another affair with a younger lady abroad & had a child there with her.
But hey u never know what the future holds.
Look at the example of Brad, Jen & Angelina
Good luck to you I hope you get your answers.
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asclibrasagsun
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posted August 24, 2012 08:52 PM
I am the young lady LOL. He is not young at all though. Neither is his wife. I am confused! Want someone to interpretIP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted August 24, 2012 09:27 PM
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention this in the post itself - my Venus is in his 10th house....this is a sign that I could become a trophy wife type of thing for him?IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted August 25, 2012 09:28 AM
bumpcan anyone help out? thank you IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted August 25, 2012 11:15 PM
help?IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted August 26, 2012 08:37 AM
Why don't you post the chart, that makes it a good bit easier to see what is going on.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted August 26, 2012 08:59 AM
 Here it is! He is on the outside, I am on the inside. I don't know his exact birth-time (neither does he) so I had to use 12 noon for him instead. Thank you in advance. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted August 26, 2012 09:05 AM
 here is the composite chart in the middle with my natal on top and his natal on the bottom. IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted August 26, 2012 09:13 AM
Thanks for posting and saying that you not have the right birthtime, that saves me a lot of time.
It will not be possible to do a proper reading with these charts without it.
As said Venus – Saturn can be the glue, can also give delays in creating the relationship or getting it from the ground, Mercury – Neptune, a fantasy aspect, maybe not that honest, knowing what the other is on about, but quicksand. If he is the outside than his Moon can jump away, so not necessary conjunct your Venus.
Without a proper birthtime it is just guessing, the houses cannot be used either. You cannot say b.e. that your Venus is in his tenth house, you simply don’t know.
Anyway, from what you wrote I would not put too much trust in him. If people cheat once, they cheat twice normally , would you be at ease when he says to you: Honey, I am working late , don’t stay up??
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asclibrasagsun
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posted August 26, 2012 09:29 AM
Ok thanks so much for your reply and insight I appreciate it. It is too bad that not even he knows his birth time.
I do think we have moon conjunct venus though, we have a very caring relationship and he is very protective of me. Do you think sun conjunct venus is detrimental to me because I am the venus and he is the sun? (It means I always have to be the initiator) He has Venus in Capricorn though, does this make him more loyal?
Also does it look like the relationship is one sided or does he seem to have feelings for me too?IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted August 26, 2012 11:48 AM
Yeah , it would be easier if he had Venus in Sag instead of Capricorn, but that's life.If i were you, i would move on. Married man are married man... IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted August 26, 2012 12:14 PM
I agree with you completely. I am leaning towards moving on just because this relationship brings me pain. Plus there is a neptune transit to my 5th house, not good right? Do you know anything about this? The main issue is that we have no choice but to be around each other almost every single day, it is difficult to move on when your relationship has no choice but continue developing on some type of path. I think this is venus conjunct saturn acting out, it really is glue-ish.IP: Logged |
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