posted September 01, 2012 02:42 PM
Do you have an account with Astro.com? Go there, plug in all of your data, then anyone else's, then go to "Extended Chart Selection" in the "Free Horoscopes" section. There you can draw up synastry and composite charts with asteroids, Arabic points, etc.It's tough because we don't know degrees or anything. Your suns could be square, quintile, or out-of-sign sextiles, but we have no way of knowing.
Aries can be difficult for Cancers to deal with, that's why there *HAS* to be other supporting factors for it to work. Aries biggest thing is that it needs dynamism, action, newness, especially in a relationship. Cancers biggest thing is security--if you're a Cancer with prominent air or fire in your chart, you can handle the changes and the drama, just as long as you know he isn't going anywhere.
He's very loving and affectionate with all that Pisces, which trines your Sun and Venus. Your Mars in Virgo could really set off his stellium in Pisces, but I don't know if it's an exact opposition. Your Aqua ASC sextiles his Sun and opposes his Mars--more sexual attraction with that push and pull.
How do you two communicate? I know you're both chatty, but does his style of communication irk you in any way? Pisces Mercury is probably very ethereal, probably annoying to a Gemini Mercury which in its domicile, is especially flighty and expansive.
Sure wish I could see your synastry chart!
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Sagittarius Rising
Cancer Sun
Aries Moon
7th House conjunction with Sun, Mercury, & Venus in Cancer opposing Jupiter & Neptune in the 1st House in Capricorn