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Jessica2407
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posted September 11, 2012 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey all,

I am new here, so I do hope I have chosen the correct forum to post this topic

okay, here goes. Am capricorn rising, with sun in leo and moon in cancer girl. Met this great guy online. He has sun,moon,mars and mercury in capricorn,venus in pisces, and Taurus rising. We hit it off right from the start, talked for hours, well I did most of the talking while he did most of the listening!
Then, since the relationship was kinda dragging without real purpose, I asked him quite directly to tell me what he wants, to which he answered that he wants us to be just friends. I said okay fine, but that I am looking for something more long term.

Then after less than 2 weeks he messaged me again, and I thought I would just wait for him to tell me what's up, but he made as if we never had the 'serious talk'. The infuriating thing about this guy is that he quite expertly steered our interactions from MSN to offline messages on Facebook. I think it was difficult for him to have spontaneous chats with me.so I thought maybe he is more comfortable with offline messages that spontaneous chat.But still it was weird for me to entertain such a relationship with a guy. So I took things cool and answered him with my usual good humor and I was hoping that he will open up and actually interact with me. BUT that was not what happened! He didn't reply, so I asked him what's up, and why was he ignoring my messages. And to my surprise he answered that he has lots of friends and that he doesn't have the time to answer to all the messages that he receives!I was quite annoyed. Why did he send me a message if he has so many friends?? There was a cold period between us after that and then it was my birthday so he sent me a message wishing me happy birthday and we started talking again. However I was the one doing the talking while his messages were like :how are you? Or what have you been up to? Things like that but when I respond, and ask about him, trying to make HIM talk to ME, he ignores the messages!

It started to hurt a bit so I asked him about it. He told me that he hasn't checked his messages on FB for 4 days but I could see he has seen every messages I've sent him. He was making excuses and I was intrigued, so I brought the facts in front of him and guess what?? He overreacts, telling me that he doesn't know what i want, and that we should delete each other from FB and he deleted me!

Anyone can help me understand this guy??Is there something that I have missed? Because am still trying to understand what happened exactly! Have read a lot about guys with moon in capricorn, but this guy has Moon, Sun,Mars and Mercury in capricorn. Anyone has some experience with guys with such placements?

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flowerpower
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posted September 11, 2012 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for flowerpower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my humble opinion, it looks like a guy thing. I dont know how capricorn behaves with women. you want more than friendship and he doesn't. he probably doesnt believe you can act as friends, because your expectation that it will become something else will still be there. But he will not just say it. He puts you in this position of waiting to hear from him. And then he says he is treating you purely as a friend.

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Randall
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posted September 12, 2012 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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Jessica2407
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posted September 12, 2012 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!


Thanks!

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andstuff
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posted September 13, 2012 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
do you have his data? i'd say what has to be looked at is perhaps his mercury placement and aspects, also a few other things

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Jessica2407
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posted September 14, 2012 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by andstuff:
do you have his data? i'd say what has to be looked at is perhaps his mercury placement and aspects, also a few other things

Hmmm, 19 Jan 1977. Is that all you need?

Hey thanks for your reply

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love being Aries
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posted September 14, 2012 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for love being Aries     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi

yes I have been with a guy who has Sun/Mercury & Venus in Capricorn. These guys are workaholics for one. Second they super avoid rejection, of any kind. Besides that I was once dating a Capricorn & his behavior all of sudden was cold. Its mainly because these guys are no-jokes kind of guys. I ahev never seen people more pessimists & serious than a Capricorn. They love working that is why most of their time is being busy. This guy I'm talking about had similar thing. He ignored me because he had no time for me. Then these guys also are VERY super extremely selective when it comes to girls. They do not make friends for fun. They do not make a bad investment. Therefore, if he has shown he is not interested, then he is not interested. Forget him.

Besides that I pulled some cards for you, mainly because I wanted to confirm my feeling:

What you should know about him:
Five of Cups + Ten of Cups

Family is ultimate priority in this man's life. It looks like he has had some kind of disappointment with his family or close friends recently. This can be a cause of his behaviour turning cold towards you. They hate feeling insecure.

Advice:
Seven of Pentacles - Wheel of Fortune

Have patience. Wait & see what happens. Let things change when they have to change. I'm afraid there isn't much you can or your should do.

Honestly speaking with Capricorn guys, you cannot do much...

Good luck...

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Jessica2407
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Registered: Sep 2012

posted September 14, 2012 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by love being Aries:
Hi

yes I have been with a guy who has Sun/Mercury & Venus in Capricorn. These guys are workaholics for one. Second they super avoid rejection, of any kind. Besides that I was once dating a Capricorn & his behavior all of sudden was cold. Its mainly because these guys are no-jokes kind of guys. I ahev never seen people more pessimists & serious than a Capricorn. They love working that is why most of their time is being busy. This guy I'm talking about had similar thing. He ignored me because he had no time for me. Then these guys also are VERY super extremely selective when it comes to girls. They do not make friends for fun. They do not make a bad investment. Therefore, if he has shown he is not interested, then he is not interested. Forget him.

Besides that I pulled some cards for you, mainly because I wanted to confirm my feeling:

What you should know about him:
Five of Cups + Ten of Cups

Family is ultimate priority in this man's life. It looks like he has had some kind of disappointment with his family or close friends recently. This can be a cause of his behaviour turning cold towards you. They hate feeling insecure.

Advice:
Seven of Pentacles - Wheel of Fortune

Have patience. Wait & see what happens. Let things change when they have to change. I'm afraid there isn't much you can or your should do.

Honestly speaking with Capricorn guys, you cannot do much...

Good luck...


Thank you

I got the same reading with this tarot reader,she told me he has some disappointment he is dealing with at the moment, and that I should just wait for him to come around.

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Jessica2407
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From: UK
Registered: Sep 2012

posted September 21, 2012 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got a tarot reading from a special lady for this guy and guess what, his previous gf did a spell thing which is called 'love-attached' on him. That was why he was acting weird. it was done as a revenge kind of thing, like if-I-don't-have-you-then-nobody-will..She told me to send him a message just ask him how is doing, and that I should expect him to answer me within a few days, because the guy who sent me that nasty message wasn't him. I did and he answered within hours! I don't get this, how can you attach someone who doesn't love you to yourself??

Anyone has ever heard something like this before??

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