posted September 12, 2012 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by awakemer:
if i owe you a reading.. i would be more than happy to do your reading now

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Hi,

posted September 12, 2012 04:13 PM            

What kind of readings do you do?
What kind of information do you require for it?

Thanks

posted September 13, 2012 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
Hello Awakemer,

How are you ?

You own me a reading as well as junethird

EDIT: the QUESTION I asked at the time was:
On my part, I would like a love reading about my ex F (he is married but we never was lovers) with whom we don't speak for some weeks now. I would like to know what kind of future or feelings I can expect from him to me and what is the state of his relationship with Q his wife ?

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posted September 13, 2012 11:49 PM            

MY QUESTION:

What do you see for me as far as romantic relationships are concerned? I suppose I would be more interested from the time between now until next september. I'm not sure if tarots allow for a specific time frame.

Let me know if I should rephrase my question.

posted September 14, 2012 01:20 AM            

If I may post a question and you could get back to it whenever you can.

I am thinking of someone at the moment, I want to know what kind of feelings he has for me.Or what kind of developments I could expect with regards to romantic involvements..

If you need more infomation to what you need, please let me know.

posted September 14, 2012 11:36 PM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
He see me like that now or in the past ? We never have gone far together since I refuse to be his mistress but we professed our love for eachother a lot and we kissed

Well I would prefer that he sees me as his great lost love than as just a lover. he had a lot of success with women (he is good-looking and charming) so I have no illusion that he could take a mistress anytime he wants.
It's just that I suprised him. He never expected to fall so deeply in love with me.

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Would you want your future husband to be thinking, chatting up, and kissing his ex? Pause and think about that for a moment. Would you not have some kind of intuition something is up? What do you think he tells his wife when she doubts him? That she's insane or that he's innocent right? Isn't that cruel because she's right....and still brandished as the nutcase?

How would you like to be in her shoes having a woman touch your man and even lead him on? Then maybe you should stop thinking about you or him and start thinking about the innocent people in this, namely his wife.

She deserves to be happy in her marriage she vowed to be loyal in. That's like stealing someone's pay stub. That person is working day and night, and someone else is getting a ride into town. Pretty sad.

I know love is twisted, and it's hard to get over someone, but think about all this.

Also one more point, say he dumps his wife for you,....how are you so sure he wouldn't get tired of you or doubt being with you and chat up his ex wife or some co worker, friend, online pal? In the end you can never be sure, because this man is a liar to his wife and ....probably even you. An honest man is honest all across the board. A liar is a liar....all across the board.

Just let it go. Owe it to his wife and your future to move on and stop wasting time in this way. Karma has it's way of working around. Learn to put honest, good people BEFORE yourself and you'll lead a better life.

posted September 15, 2012 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:

I see your point and maybe I shouldn't have believe all he tells me about his life. And there could be doubts all the time with someone who lie to his wife.

But I would state some things :
1) I didn't pursue him, I even run from him.
2) I refuse to be his mistress.
3) I never even kiss him, he kisses me.
3) I never asked him to left his family.
4) You can't choose your feeling, only you actions and mine have been proper given the circonstances and my heart.
5) When it was finished, I never persuie him, didn't take revenge against him or his wife.
6) I was not married, I never promise fidelity to this woman I didn't know.

She makes him married her by getting pregnant and she don't love him anymore than he loves her. He is from an aristocratic family and she wanted confort before everything. Beside, she knows he loves someone else. Another person didn't had all my restraint in the past. So she is not nuts or stupid.

Thank you to have tell me all that because it makes me realise even more that I did put everyone BEFORE me, honest or dishonest people.

Finally, I have the right to be heartbroken and have difficulties to turn the page because I have a heart and when I fall in love, I fall hard.

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Right you have a heart and I think everyone deserves to be in a loving marriage without other people complicating it.

Wanting him to think of you as the greatest love of his life is not an goal anyone should be aiming for. What does that get you? It's empty. If you were his greatest love.....he would never have gotten that other girl pregnant. Even if he did, he would not have had the heart to marry her. Even if he married her, he would have broken it off long long ago. He is now, based on just facts, not either yours nor hers. He's no one's.

As for him kissing you or you kissing him....that's not really debatable. We let people kiss us or touch us. If you refused I doubt he would have touched you. If you have no loyalties to her, which I agree you don't, don't you have a loyalty to yourself to uphold dignity? Have a little pride in yourself; you are better than that. Don't you deserve a man, who is completely yours without baggage from another relationship? Don't you want someone to say that you are 100% his and he is 100% yours? Then go find that man. You are in effect wasting precious time you don't have in life on a man that really does not love anyone.

A confused man can never truly love someone. For true love you need someone, who is wise, thoughtful, understanding, and stable with his thoughts and emotions. This guy can never be a true love for ANY woman. Some people are just not meant to love. Some are not mean to marry. And I don't think we should force them to fit into a role they just cannot grasp.

Moving on from him will only help you get focused on finding the right man. Otherwise you might spend another 5-10 years wondering whether this guy still has feelings for you. All the while he will be having more kids, getting ahead in life etc. You will still be confused and single or confused in a dead end relationship. You can never have your feet in two boats. One day maybe years down the line you might end up in tears over all the time you spent wasted on him.

I found the best way to move on from a bad relationship is just stop talking to the guy. I stopped and it's done me wonders. I think and feel like a new person. Sometimes I roll my eyes at myself thinking of how foolish I had been and I'm shocked at how emotional I became and all the things I put up with.

Trust me it's hard but very doable. I used a calendar to mark the days I didn't speak to him. Each day I would draw a smiley face. What helped me most was thinking: if he loved me he would be here.... He wouldn't be talking to anyone else. I even imagined him sleeping around with a million girls even though he's a virgin lol....That mental trick helped me.

Good luck finding the right person.