posted September 16, 2012 01:05 PM            

The girl I like has her Sun in my 7th house, Moon in 8th , Venus in 6th,
Mars in 9th and Jupiter in 7th.
Sun trine my Venus
Mars tine my Uranus
Mars conjunct my Mars
Jupiter trine my Venus

I have my Sun in her 7th, Moon in 11th, Venus in 4th and Jupiter in 7th

Her natal Venus is in Leo and my Moon is in Leo.
She is a co-worker and we have 16 years age difference - She has 2 kids from previous marriage( I am 51 she is 35 ) She has been divorced for 5 years.
I never married
The very first time I saw her, I fell for her.
I heard that if someone's moon is in your 8th that person will be
attracted to you and feel bonded.

Well I know she likes me as a person and only talks to me in the office
about her life etc and sends numerous e-mails to me.
Sometimes she calls just to see how I am doing - She works for same
company but across the street from building I am in.

After about 3 months of getting to know her, I asked her out.
She sent an e-mail saying she was happy that I asked her out and would
go out with me.
That weekend she was busy and would go some other time - This she said via e-mail.
10 days later I asked her again. This time she sent an e-mail saying
that she has known someone ( from same country as hers )for about 2
months and he asked her out and she will be dating him.
It was a long e-mail - she mentioned how nice, caring and affectionate
person I am and that she knows it will be her loss not to go out with me
- Now this was 3 weeks ago.
Since then she still talks to me the way she used to - emails etc. I also do call and e-mail quite often.
Yesterday, she mentioned that she is dating this other guy - The first
time she went out with him was on Sept 2, 2012

I am heartbroken - I have no idea why at first she said she would go out
and then she changed her mind.

Our solar return and progressed charts indicate that we both will meet
someone at work and of different cultural backgrounds
and with significant age difference .
Well, we our from different cultural backgrounds with 16 years
difference.

So, I kept my hopes very high !
So, Astrology does not work or what ?

posted September 16, 2012 09:51 PM            

This site gives you some idea of the aspects associated with the Synastry aspects, but it is an incomplete set of aspects.
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http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

http://www.astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/

Slowpoke's Aspects To Live For
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html

posted September 17, 2012 05:51 AM            

she was keeping her options open, then went for whatever appeared preferable, nothing wrong with that, women are as entitled to do this as men

posted September 20, 2012 07:12 AM            

It happens. Sorry.
It doesn't mean she doesn't like you TOO, though.
She still talks to you obviously because she likes you still also and doesn't want to abandon you and feels bad. I have done that before.

Also, those aspects you mentioned don't sound like anything big....there are clear aspect patterns I look for. You can see some of them in my the ideal compatibility link in my signature.

posted September 21, 2012 09:46 PM            

Ask her out too Quickly ???

posted September 22, 2012 12:05 PM            

OK.

posted September 25, 2012 04:58 AM            

you can edit the post and erase it right after i have it copied down

posted September 25, 2012 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by lovestruck:
RunAroundScreaming:

Ask her out too Quickly ???

I waited over 3 months !!!
Please explain what you mean!
Thanks,

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i meant that she didnt hesitate to accept when u asked her out...