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Sarahwood
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posted September 18, 2012 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His placements are :

13 and 25 Pisces in sun and mercury.

venus in Aquarius 4 degree.

mars in capricorn 28 degrees

Virgo rising 25 degrees.

Moon in Leo 28 degrees.
North node in Aquarius 16 degrees,
Need HELP! lol

am a libra sun 13 degrees with mars in libra 11 degrees with ascenent 17 degrees.

venus in scorpio 28 degrees.

Moon in 3 degrees capricorn .

Mercury in 26 degrees vrigo.

north node in 24 degrees so south node is 24 degrees in LEo which conjucts his moon (past life :/ i think)

so yea question say it all.

I think he dumped me cuz of the sex was not as he expected to me. he coudlnt break through :S and he dumped me right after it well he yelled **** this, this relationship is shallow and ur not even enjoying this! am liek WTF hold my tears then did some drama as in stand up and pack my bags and wanted ot leave (thought he would man up and beg me back) but he let me go.

next day he took me back well something happend as he said it was destiny. and it felt so right.

then left me again after few days cuz i keep telling him a my only urs!

btw more info all gf's DUMPED HIM am the only one he left me ! -.-

his venus is killing me !!!!
HELP
its so strong he wants to be an attached to me.

and he does not say see u soon anymore (( my venus is killing me any thoughts of and how and why they r like this :/ astro helps me to understand them mentally!


Thanks!

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted September 18, 2012 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn man myself. This guy is not worth it. This is not astrological. Certain matters like the level of a$$holene$$ in a guy is not explained in astrology. Move on.

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C1ND3R
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posted September 18, 2012 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pregnancy.

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Randall
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posted September 18, 2012 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Personal Readings.

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posted September 18, 2012 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for acousticbob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'm a Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn man myself. This guy is not worth it. This is not astrological. Certain matters like the level of a$$holene$$ in a guy is not explained in astrology. Move on.

I tend to agree with this Sarah....

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Sarahwood
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posted September 18, 2012 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by acousticbob:
I tend to agree with this Sarah....


guys I need help! I feel he does liek me but is pushing away. he did like me and he finds me incridibly attractive. I believe that I had a connection with him. I want to help him i want to be there for him. so anyone with this placement please just talk to me psychologically how the mind works. and have i done something wrong? i give him so much space and am inivisual i just dont understand why did he push me away, i am not like those other girls :S and sadly am attached ot him.

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Sarahwood
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posted September 18, 2012 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'm a Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn man myself. This guy is not worth it. This is not astrological. Certain matters like the level of a$$holene$$ in a guy is not explained in astrology. Move on.

I know move on. am just wondering what makes u guys tick , back to a relationship ?

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted September 18, 2012 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sarah,

A lot regarding personality is also governed by Sun sign and natal aspects. For example, my Capricorn sun is dramatically different from his Pisces sun.

Generally speaking, he may be in love but may be afraid of commitment, or may also be wary of relationships having unfortunately been dumped and disappointed.

Mars in Capricorn means an ambitious and driven person, especially in the career front. Venus in Aquarius searches for the unique and innovative. But these are only stereotypes.

As to what makes me tick, you'll have to be more specific in your questions.

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posted September 18, 2012 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sarahwood:

guys I need help! I feel he does liek me but is pushing away. he did like me and he finds me incridibly attractive. I believe that I had a connection with him. I want to help him i want to be there for him. so anyone with this placement please just talk to me psychologically how the mind works. and have i done something wrong? i give him so much space and am inivisual i just dont understand why did he push me away, i am not like those other girls :S and sadly am attached ot him.


I read with sadness your post.

You two have an exact sextile of Mars and Venus, but that's about it. The rest of the chart doesn't seem very compatible. Besides, you cannot make someone love you. When a man says he doesn't want you, believe him. I know it's a hard pill to swallow, but it would be better for you and your sanity to give up the idea that you are going to MAKE him love you.

There is a reason why all his previous girlfriends dumped him. Join the club.

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posted September 19, 2012 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Sarahwood:
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guys I need help! I feel he does liek me but is pushing away. he did like me and he finds me incridibly attractive. I believe that I had a connection with him. I want to help him i want to be there for him. so anyone with this placement please just talk to me psychologically how the mind works. and have i done something wrong? i give him so much space and am inivisual i just dont understand why did he push me away, i am not like those other girls :S and sadly am attached ot him.


I read with sadness your post.

You two have an exact sextile of Mars and Venus, but that's about it. The rest of the chart doesn't seem very compatible. Besides, you cannot make someone love you. When a man says he doesn't want you, believe him. I know it's a hard pill to swallow, but it would be better for you and your sanity to give up the idea that you are going to MAKE him love you.

There is a reason why all his previous girlfriends dumped him. Join the club. [/B][/QUOTE]

I know that we have venus sextile mars but we all have trines between our nodes. and I believe he is my other half. I dont want to make him love me, i want to teach him and let him know I am here for him I MISS HIM! like hell. and each day and night i pray to god to get us back together. I just dont want to push the commitment thing. I want to take things slow. :/

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Sarahwood
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posted September 19, 2012 05:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Sarah,

A lot regarding personality is also governed by Sun sign and natal aspects. For example, my Capricorn sun is dramatically different from his Pisces sun.

Generally speaking, he may be in love but may be afraid of commitment, or may also be wary of relationships having unfortunately been dumped and disappointed.

Mars in Capricorn means an ambitious and driven person, especially in the career front. Venus in Aquarius searches for the unique and innovative. But these are only stereotypes.

As to what makes me tick, you'll have to be more specific in your questions.


To answer your question about tick , as in I would like to be with him but not commited relationship like take things slow ? I am planning to text him (because we ended it good terms but havent herd from him and i feel so annoyed) yes he is very ambitious about his career all he cares is about him being an investment manger making money FAST! he likes poker and chess too.

SO yea how would he comes back to me? I am going to try my best to look physically good like attractive to his eyes as always. I am quirky and unique I am different from the other girls that he dates.

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posted September 19, 2012 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Junethird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont know how old you are but you are too reserved for him. His Leo moon needs a woman who can build him up and "show off" who can please him and kiss his ego big time. He told you "you are not even enjoying this" thats a big "no no" for leos. They are proud creatures who need dramatic affections to please them. Your cap moon and Virgo, scorpio influence doesn't have that. in other words you are "too cold" for him long term. He would need someone to rustle his feathers and fire so a cancer moon, Aries or sag.

What houses are the planets in? Specifically what planets fall in the 5H, and 7H?

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Sarahwood
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posted September 19, 2012 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Junethird:
I dont know how old you are but you are too reserved for him. His Leo moon needs a woman who can build him up and "show off" who can please him and kiss his ego big time. He told you "you are not even enjoying this" thats a big "no no" for leos. They are proud creatures who need dramatic affections to please them. Your cap moon and Virgo, scorpio influence doesn't have that. in other words you are "too cold" for him long term. He would need someone to rustle his feathers and fire so a cancer moon, Aries or sag.

What houses are the planets in? Specifically what planets fall in the 5H, and 7H?


Am emotional around him, I show him and am not reserved , he is more reserved. I hold my real feelings cuz its intense and dont like to show weakness.

His venus in aquarius with north node, its on his 5 house cusp.

and my north node is in the 5 house in my chart.

My 7 house is empty but its aries.

his 7 house is empty too its aries. despite he has a virgo rising 25 degrees.

I show affection, its just I was in pain and I can stroke his ego I dont mind doing that. I am a strong girl. am 22 years old and so as he.

he was born 09 march 1990
and i was born in 07 oct 1989

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted September 19, 2012 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
To answer your question about tick , as in I would like to be with him but not commited relationship like take things slow ? I am planning to text him (because we ended it good terms but havent herd from him and i feel so annoyed) yes he is very ambitious about his career all he cares is about him being an investment manger making money FAST! he likes poker and chess too.

SO yea how would he comes back to me? I am going to try my best to look physically good like attractive to his eyes as always. I am quirky and unique I am different from the other girls that he dates.


Sarah,

I kind of knew he is a finance professional. I'm a banker myself. I like chess too. I play my poker on a different arena on a different scale - called the capital markets. I race cars on racetracks as a hobby, so I am just as aggressive.

You should continue to be yourself. Don't just focus on your physical appearances. It's odd but professionals don't always go for that. The finance world is full of brilliant and attractive women. Yet, none of that truly turns us on. I wouldnt even give a second glance to a short skirt. And a lot of women have degrees galore and wealth and charisma blah blah. It's all boring. Im myself disinterested in b00bs, diamonds, designer dresses, MBAs, whatever There is so much of that in tge finance world. What is lacking is true compatibility and companionship. Not sex. When I was single, there was absolutely no shortage of sex. Sex is boring after a while. Same fake b00bs, same fake hair, same fake tan.

Companionship. That is what finance professionals crave. He wants a companion. Be supportive of him. Be encouraging. Be uplifting. Tell him how you feel and how you want to be with him. That is what makes him tick.

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posted September 20, 2012 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Sarah,

I kind of knew he is a finance professional. I'm a banker myself. I like chess too. I play my poker on a different arena on a different scale - called the capital markets. I race cars on racetracks as a hobby, so I am just as aggressive.

You should continue to be yourself. Don't just focus on your physical appearances. It's odd but professionals don't always go for that. The finance world is full of brilliant and attractive women. Yet, none of that truly turns us on. I wouldnt even give a second glance to a short skirt. And a lot of women have degrees galore and wealth and charisma blah blah. It's all boring. Im myself disinterested in b00bs, diamonds, designer dresses, MBAs, whatever There is so much of that in tge finance world. What is lacking is true compatibility and companionship. Not sex. When I was single, there was absolutely no shortage of sex. Sex is boring after a while. Same fake b00bs, same fake hair, same fake tan.

Companionship. That is what finance professionals crave. He wants a companion. Be supportive of him. Be encouraging. Be uplifting. Tell him how you feel and how you want to be with him. That is what makes him tick.


Thank you so much for the advice, as he is still young and trying to reach his goal. Am trying to be there for him as a friend and to show him, I am here to support, encourage him and uplift his spirit. Thank you again , I will do!
I always thought it was physical appearance lol. And he tells me it is not all about sex and appearance those things fades away. Ur right !

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted September 20, 2012 07:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sarah,

I'm more than double your/his age and I have a child not too much younger than you.

Let me give you another piece of advice. When you strip a person off achievement/success/accomplishment/sexiness etc., what you have left is a person's moral foundation and underlying character. I suggest that you focus on those basics first. It is natural to be attracted to success. I know I am myself. But first and foremost, be attracted to the person first before all that.

The gorgeous looks, the money and all that can be appealing but is secondary to a person's goals in life and moral fiber. I've seen women being attracted to the obese guy with a bald head stepping out of a Rolls Royce in a tuxedo, and then get repulsed when the Rollys Royce and tuxedo get taken away. So, don't be blinded by success even if this guy turns out to be the next billionaire hedge fund manager. I never allow my job to go to my head.

When I was your age, I did not lack for social attention even though I am physically nothing to look at. I had a wide variety of girlfriends even though I wasn't some sort of rock star. In the end, I focused on being with the woman I wanted to marry. I'll be married 20 years next May.

If you view this guy as your potential lifelong partner, then focus you energy heavily on him. Otherwise, I woudl advise you to continue to be attracted to him but keep your radar open.

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posted September 20, 2012 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sarahwood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Sarah,

I'm more than double your/his age and I have a child not too much younger than you.

Let me give you another piece of advice. When you strip a person off achievement/success/accomplishment/sexiness etc., what you have left is a person's moral foundation and underlying character. I suggest that you focus on those basics first. It is natural to be attracted to success. I know I am myself. But first and foremost, be attracted to the person first before all that.

The gorgeous looks, the money and all that can be appealing but is secondary to a person's goals in life and moral fiber. I've seen women being attracted to the obese guy with a bald head stepping out of a Rolls Royce in a tuxedo, and then get repulsed when the Rollys Royce and tuxedo get taken away. So, don't be blinded by success even if this guy turns out to be the next billionaire hedge fund manager. I never allow my job to go to my head.

When I was your age, I did not lack for social attention even though I am physically nothing to look at. I had a wide variety of girlfriends even though I wasn't some sort of rock star. In the end, I focused on being with the woman I wanted to marry. I'll be married 20 years next May.

If you view this guy as your potential lifelong partner, then focus you energy heavily on him. Otherwise, I woudl advise you to continue to be attracted to him but keep your radar open.


I like him so much and he is yet not successfull, am not a gold digger type at all. I love a person from his personality n mentality. I find him hot, however, girls find him repulsive like okayish.
Not many people get him, I was one of them. But when I got closer to him, he is so warm, compassionate And sensitive . He denies his emotions but admits he can't help but to cry in some movies.
He has been hurt in the past and his feelings to me are there. I just want to do something to let him see , am not just here for fun but more than that. I love him but I deny it cuz I know this is more than love .
Thank you again for your advice, I like talking to men and woman who are older. Because you guys seen everything and are much wiser. ) thank you again.

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