posted September 21, 2012 01:31 PM            

If you don't use reversals, it's ok to interpret them upright. Thanks in advance and like always I will return the favor.

Current situation - Tower

How you see M – Strength reversed

Your hopes for the relationship – Knight of Cups

What may be holding you back from pursuing the relationship – Ten of Wands

How M sees you – Devil

M’s hopes for the relationship – Queen of Cups reversed

What may be holding M back from pursuing the relationship – Death reversed

What is the future potential for the relationship – Ace of Wands reversed

posted September 21, 2012 02:36 PM            

I think the tower speaks for itself, the foundations have been destroyed. You would need to clear the rubble and rebuild. Where you once saw a calm, collected, passionate man you now see the opposite. Sorry I don't do reversals so it may be way off... Now perhaps you see him as immature? Letting himself be controlled by whims and impulses? You hope he will come back and sweep you off your feet, be the knight in shining armor. The relationship has become a burden to you, you feel like you're carryig all the weight, that's it's all fallen on you and you're tired.
I think he perhaps sees you as manipulative, someone he wants to get away from but can't seem to. An addiction, obsession that you know is bad but can't break free. I'm not sure how to read queen of cups reversed...perhaps he's bitter? Unable to fully love? Errrm, death reversed....idk. He doesn't want a new beginning?
Future potential doesn't look good, neither does page of wands reversed. upright I would say page of wands may mean to start over, get past the hurts, or go separate ways...

posted September 21, 2012 05:51 PM            

Strength to me I see him submissive lol.
Devil he has told me he's "addicted" to me before lol so that's right

posted September 21, 2012 06:26 PM            

Your hopes... well, Knight of Cups, of course! Who doesn't want the man to come around and say, "Darling, I love you. Be mine forever," but the 10 of Wands to me says... lots of work. You feel like there is a lot to be done to make this "ideal," and maybe that keeps you in a lower gear. You're wondering if the work is worth it.

The Queen reversed compliments the King... but in a way that says M wants you to take charge and do everything. He wants to be back seat. That or that he isn't gushy, he doesn't want gush, he doesn't want romance, and he expects you to feel the same. But to me, court cards are always people... and I think he wants you to be the leader and to be stern. Austere, even emotionless.

Death reversed is tricky. It could just mean he doesn't want to walk away and embrace the change that's coming with it, or that he doesn't want to change period. The Ace reversed says this won't be passionate or the start of something that will swell into adventure. I think this is backed by the Page reversed as well. Both cards in their negation are about not following passion and dreams and ideals, not sowing seeds to grow into beautiful wands. To me it says, if you want this relationship to be all it can, you can't expect a whirlwind or much heat... this goes back to the Queen (r).

Not very positive, I know. I'm sorry. I just read it how I see it :/ -- when I get home and do your reading (I'll do a CC) and hopefully it will be more positive. I don't have my cards with me right now or I would!

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Love Potential Spread
It's about M and our overall future potential

If you don't use reversals, it's ok to interpret them upright. Thanks in advance and like always I will return the favor.

Current situation - Tower

How you see M – Strength reversed

Your hopes for the relationship – Knight of Cups

What may be holding you back from pursuing the relationship – Ten of Wands

How M sees you – Devil

M’s hopes for the relationship – Queen of Cups reversed

What may be holding M back from pursuing the relationship – Death reversed

What is the future potential for the relationship – Ace of Wands reversed

How to facilitate the best outcomes – Page of Wands reversed

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posted September 24, 2012 09:54 PM            

I will leave feedback after I read this =D

posted September 24, 2012 10:06 PM            

Yes, we actually broke up and argued. I guess our foundation wasn't as strong as it should have been. Also, my 7 year relationship ended this Summer. For current situation it does seem fitting..it's like saying the tower has been destroyed and it needs to be rebuilt. Thing is, our "relationship" in the past was mainly friendship, so I don't see the tower as bad here at all (we're back again btw).

I personally see Strength (r) as someone who is weak-willed and extremely stubborn and vitriolic. Like a little five year old who has his toy taken away and then breaks a vase.

He's a Leo and he has told me he feels like I have some type of control over him that makes him feel "weak". He mentioned he feels submissive (which I didn't believe lol). He is way younger than me, but I don't really see him as immature at all. He's actually more mature than I thought.

The Devil is both addiction, yes, but in the since that it's not good and the person knows it on some level. Once again, these are BOTH majors, so I see them as just fundamental ways you view each other.

Strong sexual addiction and attraction to me, yes. He does know it and he has told me that before :].

Your hopes... well, Knight of Cups, of course! Who doesn't want the man to come around and say, "Darling, I love you. Be mine forever," but the 10 of Wands to me says... lots of work. You feel like there is a lot to be done to make this "ideal," and maybe that keeps you in a lower gear. You're wondering if the work is worth it.

Yes, I want the knight in shining armour, lol. There is a lot of work, very true..
I feel like I have to work on myself before I enter a new relationship..

The Queen reversed compliments the King... but in a way that says M wants you to take charge and do everything. He wants to be back seat. That or that he isn't gushy, he doesn't want gush, he doesn't want romance, and he expects you to feel the same. But to me, court cards are always people... and I think he wants you to be the leader and to be stern. Austere, even emotionless

This rings very true. That's what he likes.. lol..plus I am older than him so the knight and queen contrast makes sense.

Death reversed is tricky. It could just mean he doesn't want to walk away and embrace the change that's coming with it, or that he doesn't want to change period.

Seems to make sense. Maybe he isn't ready for these drastic changes, or something from the past is holding him back and scaring him off.

The Ace reversed says this won't be passionate or the start of something that will swell into adventure. I think this is backed by the Page reversed as well. Both cards in their negation are about not following passion and dreams and ideals, not sowing seeds to grow into beautiful wands. To me it says, if you want this relationship to be all it can, you can't expect a whirlwind or much heat... this goes back to the Queen (r).

Yes, overall I just think we're not fully ready to take that leap right now. I just recently got my heart broken by the end of the 7 year relationship and he's almost graduating, so the time seems to be off here. If we rush in too soon, then it won't manifest into the long-term relationship we are both wanting. Seems like the page rx is telling me to slow down!

Thanks Becca for your interpretation. I really appreciate it and sorry for missing your post.