posted September 25, 2012 08:28 AM            

Can I ask are you married/in a relationship?

posted September 25, 2012 06:54 PM            

I'm in two different relationships. One is with my son, whom I finally got back (I had lost him to his mom last year due to losing my place). We are growing together and I have a second chance at being a father .

The second type of relationship is with a 37 year old woman who is in a "bizarre" relationship with a 40 something year old, she has lived with him for over 17 years, they sleep in the same bed, ect but no sex. She has insecurities and its tough for her to leave the situation due to this (from my understanding). Since I got my son, me and her have been emailing eachother only. We used to hang out ALOT and text all day, ect. We met last year and have an amazing connection, but there are a lot of issues to work out as well.

posted October 04, 2012 12:08 PM            

What shows up regarding relationships? Hmm, I am very curious

posted October 04, 2012 05:06 PM            

SR chart only:
Venus sextile Jupiter. Love, money, life's desires are supported by Jupiter's luck. That can't be a bad thing
Jupiter Conj DSC in the 7th house. The planet of expansion/growth/luck in your house of partnerships. Also, with your SR DSC in the Sign of Gemini, being able to converse(even just daily emails) will be a very important aspect of any relationship you dedicate yourself to.
Vesta in the 7th house. Vesta represents devotion and stability in your love relationships. You'll desire this more from your personal relationships with others. "Flakey" people need not apply.
Venus in the 8th house. Your wants and desires in life and love are realized through the 8th house now: Healing (say from your gambling addiction and restoring your family status with your son, and there's something else in your SR that touches this but I'll get to that ), sex, birth, death. Possibly even an interest in occult studies could help further along the things you desire. Maybe using astrology to help figure out your lady friend and what exactly makes her tick or how you can lessen her insecurities..?
Pallas and Uranus are in Aries in the 4th house, your house of home. This doesn't relate to love relationships as much as it does to your son, IMO. Uranus is a planet of spontaneous/changing energies. Pallas shows us where we are best at recognizing patterns and re-arranging them. I would say that Pallas allowed you to see the pattern of your gambling habit and the effects it was having on your home/family and make the decision to chance (Uranus) for, not just your benefit, but your son's and your home-life in general. It doesn't surprise me that Uranus had the effect first (losing your apt) seeing as it brings about unpredictable changes. And Pallas' energies stepped in to help you see the big picture and re-arrange your life.

SR/Natal Comparison:
N. Juno, marriage/love (orb of 6) widely conjunct your SR Mars energy/sex *rawr* haha
N. Venus Trine SR Pluto - Your views on relationships, money, home and what makes them important to you may have changed (I'd say so!)
N. Juno conjunct SR NN, marriage and love will hold high appeal for you and may even be what makes you successful in this part of your life. My only dislike on this though is that it is also conjunct your SR Juno in your 12th house. This could mean that the person you're involved with is deceiving you (or is going to) in some way. Normally, it could mean things like another lover, or more likely that YOU'RE "the other man." Meaning she could be married or already involved, which you already confirmed. Maybe there's more to it than her just being insecure? Check into that
N. Venus opposite SR Chiron. You have the opportunity to heal yourself now, and it sounds like you're doing just that. With these two being in a harsh aspect to each other though, be careful that you don't fall back into your ways.

That's all for now

posted October 06, 2012 11:05 AM            

As you pointed out, my only one concern would be that Juno/12th house deal. That is probably one of my biggest fears, is being deceived or lied to, especially in the relationship department. I've posted her natal chart, our synastry and composite if that may help.

Again, thank you so much for looking into this and sharing your wisdom