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nikki01
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posted September 25, 2012 08:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nikki01     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi today i just lost in love i dont know what was wrong with me to fall for a married woman she needed me she was going through hell in her marriage but things are smooth for now in her marriage. She wants to be friends i am trying my best to let her go i told her i cant be friends we must just not communicate, maybe somewhere inside i am hoping she cant accept not communicating with me. I dont someone plz help tell me what went wrong with our in what we shared,

And im a mars in scorpio ven in cancer so i am totally hurting

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted September 25, 2012 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
post birth data and i'll give it a go if you dont mind

you can edit the post and erase it right after i have it copied down

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nikki01
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posted September 25, 2012 09:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nikki01     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks so much

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posted September 25, 2012 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
got it

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posted September 25, 2012 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aw i'm sorry

you guys have the love stellium conjunct the moon very tightly with composite sun in negative aspect to pluto (inconjunct)<---this and the sweet synastry aspects is the reason for the strong love between you.

in synastry sun trine venus uranus and mars, and moon trine pluto and opp neptune, moon sextile mercury, and venus trine saturn <--good setup.

However, bc you have the entire stellium in the composite opp uranus, the relationship is erratic unpredictable hot n cold and not long lasting.
DW venus-saturn with venus opp saturn in synastry is also bad. This is why you guys broke up. She felt like you were too serious and controlling over her. A wet blanket.

from grupovenus.com

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Her Venus opposition His Saturn orb 1° 33'

Emotional distance or coolness, and an inability either to show love, or to feel sufficiently loved and appreciated are problems you are likely to face in this relationship. Her, in particular, can feel dominated, stifled, or inhibited socially and emotionally by Him. There may be other, more positive astrological influences to offset this basically difficult dynamic between the two of you, but even so there are times when you feel lonely and unfulfilled by being together. Him must try to avoid being too demanding, possessive, withholding, or controlling towards Her. Her needs to be with other friends sometimes, and should go off and do something fun and frivolous once in a while.


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Venus Mutually Aspects Saturn

Your relationship can easily become overly involved with meeting responsibilities, such as demands from children, in-laws, parents, and financial pressures. There are also ways you restrict one another's pleasures, social activities, and emotional expression. Consequently, you may begin to feel imprisoned by the relationship. On the positive side, there is a great deal of stability and maturity in this relationship, but the negative tendency to become overly concerned with responsibilities, and not leave enough time to play and have fun, can make this relationship a boring, frustrating, cold one.


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nikki01
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posted September 26, 2012 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nikki01     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you so much i really appreciate the time you took in preparing this for me.
It all makes so much senses. We cant let go she insists we must stay friends and i dont want that. Coz she still flirts with me. Things are cold now much sadness between us will see what happens in the near future.

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posted September 26, 2012 04:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They say... if it's true love, the other person always wants to stay friends because they can't let go. You do have the love stellium, meaning she does love you. But slightly less, because of the position of your saturn afflicting her venus. You should be glad she wants to stay friends. It's a good sign. It means she truly cares/cared about you.

The love stellium means true love, and that you could never turn on each other, and the urge is always there to forgive and harmonize and be friends again.

You should be glad the stellium isnt afflicted by all three outer planets, uranus saturn and neptune. Because that one always means unrequited love and that one of you just really does not care and does not feel the same.

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nikki01
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posted September 26, 2012 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nikki01     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
we had a chat just now, she still is not giving up on being friends she says she will always be here for me and dont understand why i want to break all ties. But i am stubborn lol i am hoping she will give in you know that mars in scorpio trait i cant help it. I am hoping maybe she will miss me enough and realize she does love me aish i dont know.

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nikki01
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posted September 26, 2012 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nikki01     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when we met it was love at first sight and now all these issues one year later.

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posted September 26, 2012 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah, composite sun in negative aspect to pluto gives love at first sight.

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posted October 25, 2012 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nikki01     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dam i got my birth time wrong can this affect the chart

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