posted September 25, 2012 02:42 PM            

He drives me crazier than any man before in every way... I find it very difficult to keep my hands and thoughts off him lol and he says the same about me.

It has been a very slow process (he's Taurus, I'm Virgo) which suits us both fine, with some rollercoaster type feeling at times (venus/uranus trine and moon conj uranus) and some turns in the road that separated us briefly but we just can't seem to stay away from one another.

This is the first time I've tried to post a chart, not sure how to get it like it's supposed to be... hope this is ok.

Thanks!

posted September 25, 2012 04:25 PM            

u can erase it later when ive copied it down

posted September 25, 2012 04:56 PM            

Thank you for taking the time to have a look, I find your posts quite insightful : )

posted September 25, 2012 09:19 PM            

Let me just say the relationship was extremely exciiiiting!
so I know that feeling of comfortable natural stimulation that's just there without trying...
chemistry feels amazing huh?

But our problem was the year long secret-relationship with long stretches of being apart, after awhile it really but a strain on us emotionally so we become mad crazy when we did have alittle time to share together. We still love each dearly it's like no matter how hard we tried to be together something pulled us apart, but now I can finally see when uranus stamps your relationship you just have to roll with it, you can't change it into something you want. You just gotta be of it (I hope that makes sense)

And those major planets in the 12th also? Oh yeah this is a karmic type of relationship no doubt

I wish you both lotsa luck

posted September 26, 2012 12:32 AM            

Thank you for your thoughtful reply... yes the chemistry is quite something... like nothing I've ever had and has been very good for me, healing even. : )

There has been a 'hidden' element to us as well... damn composite 12 h Venus lol! I can imagine how difficult it was to balance the need to be together against the obstacles and how powerful this type of connection is. It helps me to know someone else has experienced this and I appreciate your words; you are so right about letting it be what it is and not trying to make it what you want. If only.

Uranus definately lights up when and what it wants... a very illuminating influence, attracting certainly but promising nothing. I have it square Venus, quintile Jupiter and trine Saturn natally, he has it opposite Venus & Sun, sextile Jup and Saturn. I am somewhat comfortable with it's influence... Aqua mother, Chiron in 11th... the detachment I have never fully become used to lol. Thank you for your well-wishes... I wish the same for you. : )

posted September 26, 2012 03:24 AM            

Now what made our relationship messed up was those nepture squaring his sun/moon/venus and a saturn square venus. Poor dude. He just couldn't make up his mind about what he really wanted if someone put a gun to his head! hot cold game field mentality, you know?

Patience is a virtue.
you just gotta decide if it's worth the heartache in the process. And what you deserve as a woman

With that venus in composite it suppose to make the relationship a "spiritual" sacrificing type of love union. I think theres something you need to learn from each other, but not the normal meeting someone stepping stone kinda thing... I think it's something more influential.

posted September 26, 2012 08:37 AM            

Sun-Mars DW
Moon-pluto DW
Mercury-asc DW

Woah woah talk about intense!
Then there's a mercury-sun-mars stellium in composite which means you have energetic stimulating convos. The stellium square pluto means the convos are deep and probing, insightful and enlightening, bound to change your worldview eventually. Important changes or transformations in your understanding of life, your personal sense of meaning or faith, occur through your interaction and the things you do together.

With composite sun square pluto there is love and sexual attraction at first sight.You betcha you guys had love at first sight. With all those DW's, that is guaranteed!
Composite moon is also semisquare pluto, heightening the intensity of it all.

Pluto gives strong intimacy, right from the beginning. That means you have lots of charming power over each other. You can make each other laugh beyond belief, for example. Your power over each other just must be great. Use it wisely. Lots of chemistry for sure, though. Pluto makes sure of that.

Mutual sun-mars conjunctions, venus conjunct venus, moon conjunct moon, mercury conjunct mercury. Nice, nice. very nice. impressive.

Not sure what is going on between you two, but I do feel that you would need something other than pluto sometimes to make this a little less power struggley. I mean pluto is very intense, it's awesome don't get me wrong. But i see too much pluto here and not enough jupiter and venus and neptune aspects which give romance and sympathy and warmth and kindness, without the crazy obsessive feelings that pluto gives. Plus all the pluto aspects you guys have are squares. If at least some were trines i'd be less worried.

An intense relationship that is likely to burn out due to its sheer compulsion! As soon as one of you shows the slightest signs of not putting the relationship in top priority, then the power struggles start. A key sentence seems to highlight this relationship "Your relationship could evolve into an obsessive love/hate relationship that is difficult to leave but equally difficult to stay in!" But one thing is for sure, you will be forever changed by the love you shared.

From grupovenus.com

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Sun Mutually Aspects Mars

Your relationship is extremely energizing and stimulating! The sexual attraction between you is very strong and fiery. You also have the capacity to be a dynamic, powerful working team, but if you fail to cooperate with each other or you get in each other's way, there is no limit to the anger and fury you can have for each other! The tendency to be combative and competitive with each other is very strong, so try to avoid inciting anger in each other and being so tactless and blunt with one another that you hurt each other's pride and feelings.

Moon Mutually Aspects Pluto

This relationship is intense! You feel magnetically drawn to each other, but you also arouse feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and suspiciousness in each other. Powerful emotional needs and desires that you never knew you had, depths of feeling you never experienced before, are brought out by being together. Your relationship could evolve into an obsessive love/hate relationship that is difficult to leave but equally difficult to stay in!

Mercury Mutually Aspects Ascendant

Talking, discussing, arguing, brainstorming, corresponding, and/or working together in conducting a business is likely to be an important part of your relationship. There is a constant running dialogue between you which is very enjoyable if you are a verbal type of person, but can be almost irritating if you are a less intellectual, more taciturn type.

Positively, you help one another to articulate and communicate your ideas and feelings. Negatively, you may fritter your energies away through endless and fruitless discussions.

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EDIT: I read what you wrote, and umm i don't know what ur reading, but ur moon is not conjunct uranus, and venus is only trine uranus in the composite. Trines don't give unstable feelings...
The rollercoaster feelings and instability are caused by pluto! Specifically moon-pluto in synastry.

quote:

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Her's Pluto square Her's Moon orb 1° 32'

The emotional bond between you is very complex. Sexual attraction is strong and you find each other to be very magnetic or highly charismatic. But you also will find yourself becoming uncomfortable with various deeply ingrained habits and attitudes of each other as you learn more about each other. You are simultaneously attracted and repulsed by each other. You evoke intense emotional responses from each other and if you want this relationship to be a long-lasting one, you will have to be very careful because a blowup in the relationship can be triggered by jealousy, acts of unkindness, or simply the unwillingness of either of you to change deeply ingrained habits that are offensive to each other. In short, this is an emotionally intense relationship that blows hot and cold, drives you to emotional extremes, and challenges your deepest, most personal and important attitudes and habits.

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posted September 26, 2012 12:42 PM            

Oh yes the unpredictability... I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy it somewhat lol at least things would never get boring under this influence, hey.

So you and yours have a mars/Venus conj... was it in orb? Furthering the Uranus influence in a nice way I bet... I have this conj with a guy I work with (in Cancer) not tightly though, it was ok for me. : )

The hot/cold thing I can relate to, isn't it maddening... though since Jan he stopped that when I walked. I got tired of it and when he realized I meant it he panicked and apologized profusely, saying he didn't know why he did that and he's weird lol. His Neptune is right on my
Dsc though. I can see how all your squares would
make it hard for your guy, not to mention for you too. You seem very patient and understanding in how you describe it... knowing the astrology behind things helps me for sure.

Thank you for the positive angle on the comp Venus...
that is true but I forgot about that. I feel even without all the Pluto and 12th house stuff that this guy is meant to
be part of my life for awhile. Not sure how long but I really can't imagine not being with him. Believe me at
times I have asked for whatever karma we have to hurry up and be resolved already lol!

Instant attraction? Hmm well our work places are close
by and for years I'd see him there every week, thought he was attractive but as he's younger I didn't think of
him 'that way'. A couple of years ago I was just
existing, downplaying my femininity, not wanting to
attract attention as I has separated from my ex the year
before. Lo and behold this guy approached me while
I was in his store and casually started chatting with me... but when I looked in his eyes it was like I was jolted (thanks Uranus!) After a few minutes he went back to work and I realized that he saw me... the real me that I was hiding away. He woke me up and I'm forever grateful. Though it took almost a year for us to exchange numbers and begin dating... he was very affected by me and I by him.

posted September 26, 2012 01:12 PM            

Thank you very much for taking the time to check out our charts and offer your insight.

I like what you saw in our composite... I didn't think of Pluto driving the love at first sight feelings, I always put that down to Venus/Uranus lol though I haven't studied composites much tbh. Definitely there are power
struggles between us and I totally agree that this must
not be abused. So far no major blowouts lol.

I am confused about the Sun/ Mars, Moon/Pluto and Merc/ASC DWs you mentioned... natally he and I
have these (except he doesn't have a Merc/ASC) but not in synastry. Same with the Venus, moon, and Merc conjunctions you mentioned... we don't share those. The moon/Uranus conj and venus/uranus trine I mentioned we do have:

My Uranus Libra 16'19
His moon Libra 18'14

My Venus Cancer 24'10
His Uranus Scorpio 28'15 (wide I know)

I appreciate the attention you've given this.

posted September 26, 2012 01:23 PM            

do you have a sun-mercury-mars conjunction in composite?

posted September 26, 2012 05:39 PM            

A guy from high school i crushed on secretly re-unioned out of the blue one day, we started hanging out as friends only' when we were outside and HE pulled up in his car with that stare... those eyes gave me whispers of his breathe was so familiar we naturally hit it off intelligently that had everyone around us confused on what level we were speaking lol mercury/mars, mercury/lilith, mercury/sun, mercury/pluto, intensity

venus conj mars- 3.11
venus opposite mars- 2. 22

But considering the age difference, him being older didn't change the spark we felt between our lips. Hotttt electricity

I like to think his neptune on your dc would attract you in a idealistic way, rose colored glasses fantasy of marriage gallopping a horse down a river.. wait,that sounds to fairytale but you know I mean lol could very well be the classic- GaGa each other! Awes thats a nice aspect : D
but on bad day things could be wishy-washy. Just look past it you cause you know better.

Sorry the long@ss post btw

To me the moons are highly important in sysnatry and it looks like the moons could be a stretchy one between you both. But it's all good! because his moon in your 5th fun/creative/sex house joins your moon in his 12th hidden/passionate/surrender house. Looks like your feelings are wrapped up this the most

And check out the 1st house in composite exploding with major planets in it! that's a very good sign especially with the sun in it. The sun is the purpose of the relationship in composite, so it being in the 1st house makes the relationship powerful and lasting

And just a reminder:
Astrology is a good tool to find potienal and deeper reasons, but only you can decide the true destiny!

posted September 26, 2012 06:46 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Insilver:
I think you may have, though it sounds like good synastry to have lol.

We do have the Sun, Merc and Mars conj in composite squared by Pluto as you'd said. : )

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did u check on grupovenus.com's compatibility for lovers report to see if it shows those double whammies?

posted September 26, 2012 09:48 PM            

Wow sounds like an intense, magnetic connection between you... and a mars/Venus dw wow again lol. I like your description of the different Merc-combo communication levels, I know exactly what you're saying.

Again with accentuating the positive... thanks for the nice interp of nep/dsc... yep I prefer to think of it as romantic/idyllic.

Yes moon comparability is pretty huge and ours are ok sign wise but house wise better... I like his in my 5th it's like he knows what makes me happy, and I know his hidden self... somewhat... sometimes...

I usually do feel like my feelings are more in this but my virgo sun takes forever showing them haha.

Thank you for that lovely interp of the comp first house Sun and friends... I agree wholeheartedly about astrology showing the possibilities and potentials but we choose our destiny.

Are you Piscean by chance or influenced by Neptune?

posted September 26, 2012 09:59 PM            

Okay, well this synastry is definitely a lot worse than the first synastry. DW moon-saturn, moon afflicted by saturn, mercury afflicted by mars.sun square mercury, moon conjunct uranus. well, well. sounds like a lot of drama@! The composite shows lots of active conversations. but now it's much less romantic. Heated enlightening conversation, but also heated arguments. Don't see this ending well