posted September 26, 2012 05:02 AM            

Synastry: (I'm the inner circle, he's the outer one...)

Composite:

posted September 26, 2012 11:07 AM            

Me: October 4, 1990 10:47 PM, Princeton, NJ

posted September 26, 2012 11:26 AM            

Introduction

This Lovers Report is divided into 3 chapters.

Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person's personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.

Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.

If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Boy is more aggressive than Girl, and another statement that Girl is more aggressive than Boy, means that you alternate roles, with Boy sometimes being the leader and Girl being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.

To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2 and 3 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.

Positions for
Boy Positions for
Girl
see graphic see graphic
Sun Libra 2° 11' in house 9 Libra 11° 36' in house 4
Moon Aries 24° 39' in house 3 Aries 19° 59' in house 11
Mercury Virgo 25° 38' in house 8 Virgo 28° 55' in house 4
Venus Leo 23° 45' in house 8 Libra 4° 29' in house 4
Mars Libra 15° 57' in house 9 Gemini 12° 51' in house 12
Jupiter Virgo 2° 48' in house 8 Leo 8° 56' in house 2
Saturn Aquarius 0° 15' in house 1 Capricorn 18° 49' in house 7
Uranus Capricorn 9° 51' in house 1 Capricorn 5° 46' in house 7
Neptune Capricorn 13° 59' in house 1 Capricorn 11° 49' in house 7
Pluto Scorpio 18° 30' in house 10 Scorpio 16° 18' in house 5
Ascendant Capricorn 4° 57' in house 1 Cancer 2° 1' in house 1
Medium Coeli Libra 28° 57' in house 10 Pisces 9° 0' in house 10
North Node true Capricorn 15° 35' in house 1 Aquarius 4° 56' in house 8
2 Aquarius 14° 47' in house 2 Cancer 21° 58' in house 2
3 Pisces 26° 9' in house 3 Leo 13° 7' in house 3
4 Aries 28° 57' in house 4 Virgo 9° 0' in house 4
5 Taurus 23° 43' in house 5 Libra 13° 8' in house 5
6 Gemini 14° 28' in house 6 Scorpio 24° 12' in house 6
Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other

Boy's Sun in Libra and Girl's Sun in Libra

Both of you invest enormous energy and time into personal relationships, and you both feel incomplete without a partner for companionship, conversation, and affection. For both of you, an experience isn't really satisfying unless it is SHARED.

You both possess tact, diplomacy, charm, and a very strong desire for harmony in relationships. Furthermore, you both tend to want to please everyone all of the time, to be liked by everyone, and therefore you often avoid taking strong, decisive stands or directly confronting thorny interpersonal problems. You want things to be nice, pretty, and pleasant. You are apt to adapt your own preferences or change your position to suit your partner.

However, both of you also have a highly developed sense of fairness, balance, and proportion. Equality is very important to the two of you and in this relationship (as perhaps in no other) you will certainly have an equal relationship, with neither of you dominating.

Beauty is very important to both of you, also, and many of your discussions revolve around issues of taste and style.

Boy's Moon in Aries and Girl's Moon in Aries

Both of you are assertive, emotionally self-sufficient individuals who respond with positive action, anger, or compulsive busyness whenever you are upset.

Often you deny or downplay any feelings of weakness, dependency, or neediness in yourselves or others. You expect yourself to 'snap out of it' whenever you feel sad, low, or moody, and you're frequently impatient with others' emotional needs as well. This is not so bad when you are both feeling up, but when one of you is ill or feeling vulnerable, you may not get the comfort or support you need.

Both of you have a competitive spirit and may enjoy playing sports or other athletic activities together, but you can easily antagonize one another instead, and end up feeling like rivals rather than loving friends.

Both of you instinctively want to lead and don't compromise or take commands very readily. Having two 'chiefs' in one household can be volatile at times!

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Boy's Sun conjunct Girl's Venus orb 2° 18'

The warmth, appreciation, admiration and love between you is very strong, and you enjoy a high degree of harmony and congeniality in your relationship. You have much in common in terms of styles, tastes, and enjoyment of the same pleasures. In many ways Boy embodies all that Girl finds attractive and beautiful, and Girl also makes a special effort to please Boy. Boy responds with much generosity, love, and loyalty. An excellent match!

Boy's Mars square Girl's Saturn orb 2° 51'

In your partnership, Boy is the eager, passionate, active and impulsive one, and Girl frequently puts on the brakes or tries to control, play down, and restrain Boy's desires and drives. This may be true in your sexual relationship, your approach to achieving goals, or both. Boy is likely to feel very frustrated, angry or discouraged if Girl expresses disapproval or caution too often, and this can be a source of considerable friction between you. Girl feels overwhelmed and envious of Boy's intensity and assertiveness, but instead of trying to hold Boy down, Girl should confront the fears and inhibitions that Boy's directness evokes.

Boy's Saturn trine Girl's Mercury orb 1° 20'

You work together well on practical problems. You help each other refine and clarify your ideas, and help 'edit' each other's work. Consequently you make a very effective team in business affairs, important or exacting work, and in solving daily problems.

Boy's Uranus square Girl's Sun orb 1° 45'

Your relationship is exciting, unpredictable, and stimulating. However, it tends to be explosive too, and there is the strong possibility that you will come together suddenly and unexpectedly, and will break up just as suddenly. If either of you is looking for a very stable, quiet, traditional, uneventful marriage with security, commitment, dependability, and predictability, then this is not the relationship for you! Together you will explore new possibilities and interests and break away from traditional, long-held beliefs and assumptions. Your sexual life, like other aspects of your lives, is exciting but not predictable and likely to vary from ecstatic to unsatisfying. You must be willing to be flexible and adaptable in all areas of life. Be wary, also, of letting your love for freedom and independence become a euphemism for being neglectful and inconsiderate of each other.

Boy's Neptune square Girl's Sun orb 2° 22'

You must guard against mutual deception and misunderstandings. Girl tends to have a glamorous and unrealistic view of Boy, and Boy has a tendency to unconsciously capitalize on Girl's imaginative and often simply erroneous perceptions. The tendency to be dishonest, hide things from each other, exaggerate, and spur each other to unrealistic hopes and dreams is very strong. Both of you must be able to distinguish fantasy from fact, and utilize the increased sensitivity and heightened imagination that you inspire in each other, without letting it cloud your ability to clearly and realistically see other and understand each other.

Boy's Sun square Girl's Ascendant orb 0° 9'

Although the two of you are strongly attracted to each other, you often 'rub each other the wrong way'. Your personal tastes and interests are frequently different. If you try to convince each other that your life style, tastes, and interests are better than your partner's, then you will frustrate each other and fail to appreciate and really understand each other. You must accept the fact that the two of you are different people with your own unique qualities. Don't try to force each other to adopt your own tastes, hobbies, and interests, as it will only make matters worse.

Boy's Ascendant square Girl's Venus orb 0° 27'

There is a strong romantic quality to your relationship, but you will also experience times when the qualities of your partner contrast sharply with the qualities that you had envisioned that your 'Ideal Lover' would have. Do not try to force your partner to conform to your desires; each person must be true to themselves.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

Boy's Sun in Girl's 4 house
Girl's Sun in Boy's 9 house
Boy's Moon in Girl's 11 house
Girl's Moon in Boy's 3 house
Boy's Mercury in Girl's 4 house
Girl's Mercury in Boy's 9 house
Boy's Venus in Girl's 3 house
Girl's Venus in Boy's 9 house
Boy's Mars in Girl's 5 house and
Girl's Mars in Boy's 5 house
Boy's Jupiter in Girl's 3 house
Girl's Jupiter in Boy's 7 house
Boy's Saturn in Girl's 8 house
Girl's Saturn in Boy's 1 house
Boy's Uranus in Girl's 7 house
Girl's Uranus in Boy's 1 house
Boy's Neptune in Girl's 7 house
Girl's Neptune in Boy's 1 house
Boy's Pluto in Girl's 5 house
Girl's Pluto in Boy's 10 house
Boy's Sun conjunct Girl's Mercury orb 3° 15'
Boy's Sun square Girl's Uranus orb 3° 35'
Boy's Moon conjunct Girl's Moon orb 4° 40'
Boy's Mercury conjunct Girl's Mercury orb 3° 16'
Boy's Venus trine Girl's Moon orb 3° 46'
Boy's Mars conjunct Girl's Sun orb 4° 20'
Boy's Mars opposition Girl's Moon orb 4° 1'
Boy's Mars trine Girl's Mars orb 3° 6'
Boy's Mars square Girl's Neptune orb 4° 7'
Boy's Saturn trine Girl's Venus orb 4° 13'
Boy's Neptune conjunct Girl's Saturn orb 4° 49'
Boy's Neptune sextile Girl's Pluto orb 2° 19'
* * * End of Report * * *

posted September 26, 2012 10:40 PM            

The synastry is very very nice. But it also show a squarue b/w uranus and sun, and there is also this same square in composite....that is why u guys are having and on/off connection.

Sun conjunct venus and mars, moon conjunct moon, moon trine venus, moon opp mars is very intense and lots of sexual attraction but also arguments.. all those together are classic components of synastry that causes strong attraction, even sun square neptune since it causes dreaminess and idealization. all this along with a loose love stellium in the composite is the reason why you came together. I dont see this getting to be a totally stable thing though, because of the uranus problems. sorry. Also, even if it were ever to be stable, u would have lots of arguments so i wouldnt recommend it anyway.

from astrology3d.com

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Moon opp mars in synastry - This is a "hot" relationship. Sexual and physical attraction is strong, tending to lead to hot pursuit of each other. Subtlety is lacking and one, or both, of you may feel your approach to sexuality is too aggressive or insensitive. You also enjoy competing with each other and working hard together. Competitive sports, games, and outdoor activities are good outlets. You must strive to avoid conflict because the aggressive quality of your relationship can easily flare into anger and hostility.

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posted September 26, 2012 11:49 PM            

Good luck, hun. <3!