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Topic: i hate my fiance's kid
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naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 06:15 PM
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naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 06:37 PM
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Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 901 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 26, 2012 07:42 PM
What's the kid's birth info?IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 193 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 07:50 PM
LOL..sounds interesting..post that kid’s infoIP: Logged |
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 11:40 PM
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redshoes Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 27, 2012 07:26 AM
how does he feel about you?? you seem to be very unkind about him!IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 283 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 08:12 AM
Can you tell us what exactly the kid does to annoy you? How bad is he? Is he a gang member or something? I haven't checked his chart yet because I'm not on my computer . So the kid is only 16, normal for a teen to cause trouble. You said that you wish that the kid would be sent to a foster home... Even if you don't like the kid you have to remember that it is your fiancé's son, he will forever be in his life, you CAN'T eliminate him. Why don't you try to solve the problem & work it out...Sending him to the foster care system will just fxck him up even more. (Unless that's what you really want) Please tell us, what exactly does he do to you? IP: Logged |
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 08:25 AM
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redshoes Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 27, 2012 08:40 AM
children come first not fiances you seem to have many lessons to learnIP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 1709 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 09:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by naughtyvenus: meh, the stupid kid ain't worth the effort of explanation, but the long and short of it is he's spoiled and manipulative, always trying to find ways of getting picked up from school, which was a huge inconvenience to me, so i had myself removed from the list of contacts at school, furthermore, i told my fiance to tell his kid to pretend i don't exist and i will do the same. i also told my fiance that when we get our house, his son will not be living with us. my fiance has decided to put me first and accept the fact i won't allow his stinkin'a$$ son to live with us. if ya think i'm gonna soften my position or break down and forgive, you're sadly mistaken, i think my relentless stubborness is adequately reflected in my chart ! lol 10/8/68, atlanta, ga, 11:35 am
I feel sorry for your fiance and for that kid. You are the manipulative one, not the kid. Only a very mean person would ask a father to be put first instead of his kid. God have Mercy! IP: Logged |
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 09:47 AM
looks like the fiance is taking my side, the kid has alot to learn, muaaaah aaaaah aaaaah aaaaah aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh :-) thanks for the comments thoughIP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 283 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 09:52 AM
I have seen many cases like this & the children usually end up fxcked up needing therapy. I find it sad that your fiance is putting you first instead of his very own son. Boys need a father figure in their life. I hope your fiance won't cut off his son out of his life, if he does then he can join the list of men who don't have the balls to take responsibility for their actions. You & the kid have sun opposite venus and venus(him) square pluto(you) in synastry. That's why two you can't get along. Venus square pluto speaks of jealousy, possessiveness & manipulation, but the question is who is manipulating who?... all I'm gonna say is love interests come and go...you might have him now but the child stays forever. Enjoy it while it lasts...Because sooner or later, your fiance will wake up and see how much of a manipulative b*tch you are. IP: Logged |
zarea Knowflake Posts: 103 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 10:00 AM
naughtyvenus,you sound like a poor excuse of a human being all around and astrology aside. You don't even love your fiance or you wouldn't speak of his kid in this manner regardless of his actions as a teenager. IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 27, 2012 10:14 AM
dont worry guys she will get her karma ~ seen it happen many times.children need love and respect and kindness, i wouldnt let anyone within 100miles of my lad like her booo hooo!! IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 3682 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 10:54 AM
@naughtyvenus You can't be serious...if he's being mean have you even made the EFFORT to find out why? Do you even know what happened to his mother? What if he's angry about that and he feels like his dad is replacing her.. with someone like you?...I know I'd be upset to if I was him. Regardless if he's all the things you say, you are the adult and you should never try to put yourself before someone's own child! I feel sorry for him. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 4187 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 11:09 AM
Am I the only one thinking there may be a troll under the bridge?IP: Logged |
lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 11:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Am I the only one thinking there may be a troll under the bridge?
I was thinking along the same line.. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 3682 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 11:29 AM
^ I would think that, if she didn't give out birth info.. but I certainly hope this is just trolling. IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 283 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 11:35 AM
I wish she was trolling but I saw her post on the tarot reading request & it looks like she isn't. IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 64 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 11:37 AM
Wow, you sound like an awful person... And this man wants to marry you? Ugh. Children are first and foremost. Not spoiled little c*nts like you.Seriously, how dare you? ------------------ Leo ASC, Pis Sun, Tau moon IP: Logged |
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 12:18 PM
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redshoes Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 27, 2012 12:36 PM
They are the most important thingIP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 64 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 12:48 PM
Do you even read what you're saying? "money this, inconvenience that" whine ***** moan complain. How much money you spent doesn't make you a better person. He's a kid. He doesn't need some evil step mother harping on him, he needs a mother to love him. He's acting out, maybe he's hurt? Maybe he's on drugs and needs help? That's why I started trying to get out of school when I was that age. You are a heartless selfish individual who doesn't deserve the kid's respect. What have you done to earn it? Give him money at his dad's behest? lol.. Money doesn't buy love or respect, neither of which this boy has for you I'd put my money on it. Eventually your fiance will resent you for making him choose between you and his son and you'll be on the curb wondering why your a$$ is cold and wet.------------------ Leo ASC, Pis Sun, Tau moon IP: Logged |
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 12:54 PM
ha ha ha, i'm not in the business of earning respect, i demand it or i walkIP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 64 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 12:59 PM
I take it you've done a lot of walking in your day? And you haven't earned anybody's respect with this garbage thread.. How come you haven't "walked" yet? Please, do us the favor.IP: Logged |